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Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and How ... - 3/23/2006 10:43:25 PM

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Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and How it felt.

What was the feeling after the 1st time You where collared?

Did it Excite you? And in what way?

Did it make You horny?

Just how "EXCITED" did it make You?

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 2:32:29 AM

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Collaring is extremely important to me, which is why i would not just accept a collar right away. For me it was a long drawn out process, much thought, much work. I felt it was something earned and important enough to wait as long as it took. At the time of my collaring, Thorns also had another girl, He and i had just come back from a long vacation together, i was not living with Him as of yet, i was just forming this bond with the other girl, i was making plans for the move to Arizona soon.
On 15 February 2002 He collared both of us. I was overjoyed, i felt blessed, i was saddened, i also hated the fact that He collared 'both' of us at the same time, afterall, He and i had been together for much longer, where in the thought process did she deserve to be collared at that time? I remember that night/morning clearly as i was left to my own devices to ponder this more. I decided that i was being foolish, that i should be thankfull for what was given to me, and oh i was, i was just taken aback at the moment. I remember sitting on the porch and thinking: i have waited for a Man such as Thorns all my life, my relationship with Him is not the same as it was with her and then i smiled. I just got collared!! He wanted me!! He knew i was of value to Him!! (i knew it before, i just had trouble remembering that from time to time)

I remember getting up from the table outside and just beaming. I had made the right decision by accepting His collar, i knew that whatever was ahead of us would be an adventure..........and boyyyyyyyyyyy was it. I was owned, i was His.......this is where i always wanted to be.

(thank You Master for making a girl Your own)

Happy Friday y'all!!

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 3:01:20 AM

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I've only been collared once, and I hope it stays that way.
For me collaring is a huge committment made between two people, as big a committment as marriage. I had been serving my Master as a 24/7 sub for around six months before that, and we had known each other for about 4 years, so this wasn't something either of us rushed into.
The actual collaring was very simple. I was kneeling before him, and he asked me to be his forever. I don't remember the exact words he used, I was too full of emotion, but he basically asked me to give myself to him totally, to exist only to serve him, to be his mind body and soul. He put the collar round my neck and fastened it and the feeling was just.... indescribable. It was relief and belonging and security and excitement all in one. He leant down to kiss my forehead with his hand still on my collar and I have never felt so loved in all my life. I don't wear that collar all of the time (it's leather and studded and so not appropriate for every occassion) but whenever I put it on I can feel that same feeling again.
And yes it made me horny too ;)

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 3:12:29 AM

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I have only been collared once so I suppose I don't have anything to compare it to as far as a 2nd or 3rd time etc. I will offer two exceprts from different narratives that I wrote about my journey into enslavement. They better explain it than my addled, sleep-deprived brain would be able to do at this moment. *grin* "...That night, I felt his collar around my neck for the first time. I remember kneeling before him, trying so hard to stop the tears and failing miserably. My entire body trembled with so many emotions. Fear and excitement are a heady mix when combined with love and desire. I will never forget the sound of the lock when it clicked shut. I remembered hearing it before, a fainter version nearly a year before in my own head when the pieces were falling in place. I could not believe that I was actually at his feet and that he found me worthy to become his slave..." and the other: "...The time came when my owner took my hands and pulled me to my feet, lightly caressing my cheek he looked to my eyes and I knew what I was to do. Quietly, he said, "It is time, girl." Lowering my head I whispered, "I'm really scared, Master." He leaned forward and kissed me then, whispering words of reassurance to me but I still froze, unable to unbutton the blouse I wore, so afraid to disappoint him. He stepped back and moved to one of the lamps on the wall, turning it off and then moved to nearly each one in the room, turning them all off but one in the back corner, leaving the room lit but not with such a garish brightness so that he could still look upon his property, but I would find more comfort. I began to undress as the tears rolled down my cheeks. Never had I imagined that he would be so incredibly kind that he would do such a thing to make things easier for me. I removed my clothing slowly as he traced the newly exposed flesh with light and gentle fingertips, all the time murmuring how lovely I was, how beautiful I was, how much I pleased him until finally, I was naked for him, my flesh golden in the lamplight I lowered my gaze again to the floor. He circled me several times, taking his time to look on the girl that he had claimed from a distance and that now he would claim in a tangible manner. I remained silent with the exception of an occasional sniffle as the tears of my emotions continued to silently follow wet paths down my cheeks. He gently pushed my shoulders down, indicating that I was to kneel before him. I quickly obeyed and brushed my hair aside so that with my head lowered, my neck was bare to him. He looked at me for a moment and then carefully reminded me of the profound nature of the step I was about to take. Although I had worn the symbol of his collar from a distance, this was the point of no return. While my heart thundered in my chest, I responded that I desperately wanted to be his and I begged him then not to ever let me go. No matter how scared I may be at times, I begged him to keep me at his feet always. It was then that I felt the smooth black collar encircle my throat and I heard the sharp click of the padlock that closed it together, forever changing my life..." Well wishes, Cav's ally

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 3:27:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: smilezz "...On 15 February 2002 He collared both of us..."

I'm still wishing we'd have found you first! *winks*

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 4:51:46 AM

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I'm still wishing we'd have found you first! *winks*

*grinz* you gawwwjus woman...i will use my overactive imagination on this one.

Happy Friday beautifull...

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 4:54:48 AM

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We did not do an elaberate (spelling sux this morning) collaring ceremony. We bought my collar and that night I knelt before him and he put it on me. He said one word. "Mine". That was all that he had to say, I broke down crying. I finally had a place. I finally knew who I was. I would not have changed it for the world. It was Dec. 1, 2004 and it snowed that night. (We both love the snow)

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 5:15:13 AM

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Ah, my first collaring is still fresh in my memory since it´s only been 1 and half month since it happened.
The collaring ceremony was simple and quiet, only me and Mistress who discussed our time together, laid out my new responsibilites and rules. Then she asked me if I would accept her collar.
I almost didn´t let Mistress finish that question, I was just so excited about all this.

The answer was simple, yes.
And when She locked the collar around my neck I felt a huge rush of joy and fulfillment. Finally I was her property, something I had dreamed of for a long time, had wild fantasies about, hoped for. I belonged to someone who cared enough for me to claim me as her slave.

It had been awhile since I finished the last of the difficult trials Mistress laid out to me and I guess I was getting bit restless, felt like waiting in a busstop in the middle of nowhere. I knew the next bus would take me to a wonderful place, but it didn´t seem to arrive on time.
This collaring took place after 5 months of training where She conditioned me as her future slave, chizeled the lump rock of natural submissive into something she liked. We got to know each other, I trusted her more and more and gave up the control of my limits to her. Today I would do just about anything if she´d ask me to. Something wich started out as a curious trial into submission has grown into fondness, and then into love and respect wich I have for my Mistress.

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RE: Slaves/Submissives Describe Your 1st Collaring and ... - 3/24/2006 6:43:12 AM

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i have read that the ultimate collar is a wedding ring....for me, that's true....8/8/87, the best day of my life....i have never felt more loved, more chosen, more a part of Someone else....that devotion has grown ever since, through births and deaths and a lifetime of belonging....

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