EvilGeoff
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne
It seems to me that "Slave Heart", "SlaveHood", "Slave to the Core" are terms that are on the same plane as "all" or "never", 100% slave, which implies by my way of thinking virtually any dom(me) could walk up to any number of people who are truly slaves, grab them take them home and they will all live happily ever after. (and i think we know that is not the case in reality)
This is the crux of the matter, _you_ perceive the terms as having some sort of "no limits, use me, abuse me, drag me away, I'm a doormat" meaning. They don't.
The terms mean that the person needs to feel owned, to BE owned. It doesn't mean that just any ass who claims to be a Master/Mistress/Dominant/Owner can walk up to someone with a slave heart and then, with a word, own them. A slave heart wants to be owned. But not everyone can earn the trust necessary to win over that ownership.
This is about CONSENTUAL slavery. The voluntary surrender of one's will, power and authority to another. Non-consentual, forced slavery has nothing to do with a slave heart. Abuse has nothing to do with a slave heart. Integrity has a lot to do with a slave heart. Trust has everything to do with a slave heart. Character has a lot to do with a slave heart. Honor? That's in there too.
A slave heart belongs to their owner when the surrender is earned. When the Owner demonstrates those qualities of character that tell the slave heart that it is safe to let go, to obey, to follow, to surrender.
Sometimes there are false starts. Sometimes there are liars and cheats who use subterfuge to trick the slave heart into surrender, and that can lead to the withdrawal of the slave's consent. But when the slave finds the right owner, they rarely, if ever, withdraw that consent. Because in their surrender, they find wholeness, completion, the satisfaction of a need so deep that they can not contemplate living without it again. The slave heart will not withdraw that consent unless the Owner does something terrible, something that completely shatters that slave's trust in the Owner. Than and only then will the slave consider withdrawing consent.
Again, the slave heart is about what is in the heart of the owned, not the Owner. It is about the needs of the owned, not the needs of the Owner. A slave heart is a precious thing, a beautiful and wonderful and rare thing.
Far to often a slave heart goes unnoticed, unappreciated, unused, and unfulfilled. Why?Because there are far too many selfish, uncaring, cavalier, dishonorable, no-character people out there claiming to be Dominants, Mistresses, Masters, Owners, who are, in fact, nothing more than horney nillas who've learned some lingo and expect they can get laid more.
They won't find and unleash a slave heart unless they are willing to look beyond themselves, unless they are willing to take responsibility for themselves, as well as for the one who is surrendering. They won't find the slave heart when they are looking for sex, particularly when looking for sex with many partners, as often as possible. They won't find the slave heart while trying to beat as many bottoms as possible.
To find the slave heart they will have to seek the quiet times. They will have to look in the opportunities for service they provide. They will have to look to find the one's who quietly do what needs to be done without seeking fanfare or acclaim. We are surrounded by slave hearts everyday, but you will only notice them if you have the eyes to see them.
YIK,
- Geoff
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