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RE: My greatest relationships have been with the crazie... - 4/20/2010 7:55:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I hate you.



Yeah, right.

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RE: My greatest relationships have been with the crazie... - 4/20/2010 8:53:58 PM   
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OK! NVM! CRaZYee

i shooed the domi dude right the fuck off the interwebzuperhighwayz

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RE: My greatest relationships have been with the crazie... - 4/22/2010 11:16:59 AM   
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Sarbonn,

I don't think you are imagining this.
I've had a chance to explore BDSM with a number of women, and I've known many more as friends also.

Unquestionably for me, the best sex and scenes were with women who were "crazy"....everything from simple neurosis, to an incredibly smart and attractive PhD researcher who became psychotic and took her own life.

And I'm not subscribing to the axiom "we are all a little bit crazy"; perhaps we are, but the women I'm referencing in my life were all 2 or more standard deviations to the right of the bell-shaped curve.

Maybe it's a simple function of once you are used to behaving in an unconventional manner, you're able to respond more freely to inner desires. I am not a big believer in psychodymanic theories any longer, and put more stock in brain physiology than I do in the childhood evironment.

But these women....bold and uninhibited in the particular kink that they pursue, are often not entirely stable in longterm relationships, and seem to have a little trouble with ordinary social boundries (like at work, for example).

They are definetly fun, up until the police arrive....

Chris

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RE: My greatest relationships have been with the crazie... - 4/22/2010 12:09:05 PM   
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devious, creative, and under-concerned about consequences/carefree gets called "crazy" a lot. maybe that's just cute terminology, but i wonder why those qualities can't just be called "devious, creative, and carefree."

for me, "crazy" creates confusion between what is delightfully off and what is dysfunctional. whenever someone rhapsodizes about the "crazy" woman that they fell for who was a hellcat in the sack and brilliant at 3 am but couldn't keep gas in her car or return phone calls or use an ashtray instead of the arm of the couch to put out her cigarettes i think to myself, "that's not crazy. that's just a woman so in love with her eccentricities that she thinks being useful is beneath her." and if you like that, okay, have fun on the clean up crew. to me, crazy is the woman who calls at two in the morning hysterical because a guy cut her off on the freeway, and somehow that resulted in "accidental" bleeding that requires stitches, and she needs to you drive an hour to pick her up from the home of some silly drunk people where she crashed because she can't keep gas in her car. i know people who make those calls to me because they are certifiably insane. unfortunately, they are relatives and i can't break up with them or say that it's fun in the moment. it's not fun at all, actually. it's usually terrifying and at the very least, exhausting.

so OP, maybe these devious, creative, and carefree women are still around you but they are less inclined to make open displays because they don't want to be confused with reckless, selfish women or else with truly crazy women. i like to think of myself as devious, creative, and carefree, and i'd be seriously put off if someone called me crazy. i just don't see anything charming in commanding the attention of others with displays of behavior so wild and self-serving that they simply can't be ignored. i don't mean to be preachy or to rain on your parade if you were just being nostalgic and cute, but that's my two cents.

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RE: My greatest relationships have been with the crazie... - 4/22/2010 3:18:42 PM   
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OP:
Its cause all the best people are quite mad

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