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please help me - 1/21/2010 5:16:56 PM   
danstogether


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Status: offline 		i am in search for another woman to join me and Master for a night of play.. He wishes me to be with a woman and he wants to guide me and teach me..I have searched and searched.. no one answers. Has anyone had any luck at all? I do want to experience this and he wants me to find another soon.. can someone please help me? am I asking wrong questions? I am fairly new and I just need help..one sub to another.. Masters if you have any suggestions, please i will appreciate them.
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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:26:06 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Ok, here is what you need to do:

1. Post some photos of some hot couple, like Brad and Angie to lure the chick in.
2. Write up some rules and regulations about how this woman will be expected to serve you both and do not say what you might have to offer.
3. Make sure you do not include ANY information about you both, no one wants to know your level of intelligence, physical/mental health, breast size, cock size, what kind of movies you like, what you eat for breakfast, if you like to set people on fire, etc.
4. Tell the woman you are only looking for a one night thing and that your master has commanded you to do his dirty work for him since he is lazy.
5. Please do NOT, under any circumstances, search this forum for other threads that started out like this; because you won't find any since this is the FIRST time EVER in history that some Domly dude asked his sub to troll for fresh pussy for him.
6. Don't give the girl car fare home, that would not be very Domly.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 1/21/2010 5:27:17 PM >

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:28:52 PM   
frazzle


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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:33:52 PM   
danstogether


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Status: offline 		LOL this is too funny.. Thank you.. I agree that if hes wants this he should be helping but he is Master and I am trying for him.. but it is what it is.. im doing it for him to which i serve.

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:40:54 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Join some local groups and get out and meet people.

Search the forums (use the search feature) for this particular question. "finding a third" would probably be a good search term.

Good luck.

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:42:08 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Whenever I have wanted a Domiwich I have done the leg work required to find the right slices of bread to surround me. Sometimes it is white, other times potato and let's face it, there is always room for pumpernickel.

Now if you were uber attractive I would suggest to your master that he insist  that you chum the heteroflexible waters with a photo or two.

I cannot understand why you are having difficulty.  What type of a woman wouldn't be enthralled to participate in this...."He will direct and guide us as only he can do." 

Good luck.

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:42:52 PM   
alittleevil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danstogether

i am in search for another woman to join me and Master for a night of play.. He wishes me to be with a woman and he wants to guide me and teach me..I have searched and searched.. no one answers. Has anyone had any luck at all? I do want to experience this and he wants me to find another soon.. can someone please help me? am I asking wrong questions? I am fairly new and I just need help..one sub to another.. Masters if you have any suggestions, please i will appreciate them.


Hello,

Ok, one submissive to another, first please understand that what you seem to be looking for is called a "unicorn" for a reason: they're very rare and everyotherbody is looking for one.  If  you are looking for a night of play, you're more likely to find a sex playpartner on a 'swinger' site--BUT hot, single bi-chicks are rare creatures there too, and have the pick of the litter wherever they go.  Not trying to sound negative--what you're looking for is fun and sexy and when i was single, i was up for it on more than one occasion--but it's not easy to find among strangers.  Get out in your local BDSM or swingers community, make friends, be the kind of people other people wanna fuck, and in the mean time, enjoy each other a lot!

Good luck to you,
aj


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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 5:44:16 PM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danstogether

LOL this is too funny.. Thank you.. I agree that if hes wants this he should be helping but he is Master and I am trying for him.. but it is what it is.. im doing it for him to which i serve.


thanks for taking my joke in a spirited way :) by the way, I dig your avatar. Is that you and him?

...seriously though, this question is asked weekly on the boards. xxblushesxx made some suggestions about this being easier to find in real life at events and in searching you should try the poly thread here and be really clear in your profile about yourselves and your expectations.

good luck!!

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 6:22:39 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danstogether

LOL this is too funny.. Thank you.. I agree that if hes wants this he should be helping but he is Master and I am trying for him.. but it is what it is.. im doing it for him to which i serve.
If I was looking for that situation....I'd decline for that very reason.

The Dom has control, so therefore, I'm interested in finding out if he can trusted with that power. My experience has shown me that the current submissive is not always a good judge of character. It gets hard to see throught those rose colored glasses.

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 6:49:22 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		This is possible.

However, short of paying someone to do it or otherwise making it worth their while, there is no speeding up the process. You have to be patient and wait till you meet someone who is interested in simply a night of play with you and yours. And, no offense, a lot of people aren't. And those that are... well there are about a million other couples looking for just what you are. So those women get their pick of the litter.

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RE: please help me - 1/21/2010 8:09:22 PM   
danstogether


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Status: offline 		thank you to all for advice and smiles..I wish there were clubs, events close to me but I am in the freakin boonies and its hard to find anything near me such as that but i will continue to keep plugging away. I do appreciate it and will do a search as well..if you have any other suggestions i will gladly accept. I am fairly new and new to site so i will explore.

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RE: please help me - 1/22/2010 10:48:41 AM   
alittleevil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danstogether

thank you to all for advice and smiles..I wish there were clubs, events close to me but I am in the freakin boonies and its hard to find anything near me such as that but i will continue to keep plugging away. I do appreciate it and will do a search as well..if you have any other suggestions i will gladly accept. I am fairly new and new to site so i will explore.


Hello,
Yes, being in the "boonies" complicates things like finding compatible, willing play-pretties. Your tone indicates this is urgent to your Master, and thus, understandably urgent to you.  But, unfortunately,  beyond your control.  You can search, have a profile, write, beg, plead, cajole, seduce, but the as-yet-unfound woman in question holds all the power. I would hope that your Master understands this and is not holding you alone responsible for the outcome.

Best,
aj


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RE: please help me - 1/23/2010 12:45:12 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He isn't interested in 'guiding' you. He wants a threesome because girl on girl gets him hot. Tell him to hire an escort since that's the only woman who wouldn't want to be thought of as a person in her own right, instead of being used to fulfill his fantasy.

You aren't offering friendship or anything else, just the chance to get this dude's rocks off sight unseen.

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RE: please help me - 1/23/2010 1:49:34 PM   
peppermint


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danstogether

thank you to all for advice and smiles..I wish there were clubs, events close to me but I am in the freakin boonies and its hard to find anything near me such as that but i will continue to keep plugging away. I do appreciate it and will do a search as well..if you have any other suggestions i will gladly accept. I am fairly new and new to site so i will explore.


You live in Illinois and I find it hard to believe there aren't any munches or events near enough to attend.  With a little research I have found groups in Chicago, Central Illinois, Bloomington/Normal, Peoria, Park City, Far North Shore, the Quad City area of Iowa and Illinois (Davenport, Bettendorf, Rock Island and Molene), and Champaign/Urbana. 

Living in Montana part of the year means that we do have to travel a bit to attend a munch.  Montana is a huge state with relatively few people.  Until recently the closest was 120 miles away, however, they meet on Saturday so it isn't too difficult to attend during the summer.  When I was single the nearest munch was 65 miles away but met too late on a weekday for me to drive home and be up at 4 am to go to work.  I planned my vacation times so that I could go to munch and events. 

Sometimes you just have to work with what you have and try to figure out a way to make it happen.  Almost everything is doable given some creative thinking. 

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RE: please help me - 1/23/2010 2:29:48 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Hire one. No muss, no fuss, and they are gone after it is done

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RE: please help me - 1/23/2010 4:06:57 PM   
itsmeinLV


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Status: offline 		LOL!  Hilarious, sexyred1!!  

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RE: please help me - 1/23/2010 5:40:44 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Agreed - i did giggle - but one thing i do disagree with - if there is going to be a second woman in my bed (if i swang that way) i would want to be the one to choose her. What if i hated the woman my Sir bought home. I would find it very hard to enjoy sexual activities with someone i disliked.
Of course, this might not be very important to my Sir.

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RE: please help me - 1/24/2010 11:06:12 AM   
DomMeinCT


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Status: offline 		Your couples profile seems to indicate that you don't want to be contacted until you have added the potential sub to your Favorites. With that in place, you're potentially excluding some who would otherwise contact you, but you've told them not to. 

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if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
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RE: please help me - 1/24/2010 11:10:12 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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Status: offline 		You know, if you are sending messages out saying 'hey we want a girl to come have sex with us once and then fuck off' or anything to that sentiment you wont get it, imagine how you would like to be approached? Chances are you wouldn't. Go to a munch, make friends, your master too, meet people play with people in clubs and then shit like this just happens, I have had a fair few of these experienced but never replied to message asking for it

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RE: please help me - 1/24/2010 11:54:38 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I'm thinking if you don't want to do the work to find at least semi-local groups (and believe me, they are there) then why should someone even be interested in you?
You have no pics (big red flag)
You don't want to go meet people (big red flag)
You're not really looking for a relationship. (some girls don't mind playing with others but don't want to be seen as a disposable toy)
You don't say what you as a couple can offer...

I just don't see this happening for you the way you are advertising. But good luck to ya.

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