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Voodali -> RE: Do you or do you not. (1/24/2010 11:16:43 AM)
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While its hardly the end of the world, I do get a little put off by a yahooo ID at the end of a letter. In the distant past, I wasted a lot of time chatting with people who turned out never being able to actually meet me. At some point, it dawned on me that I was merely providing them with free on-demand wank material. I'm not saying that every boy who wants to chat will use you, in fact I have had satisfactory meetings with some of them, but it is teensy red flag.
I prefer the medium of letter because I am leading a very busy life at present. I don't really have a lot of time to banter back and forth at my computer. Letters are more convenient to me, because I can check them all at once when I have the time. It seems to me that a well mannered boy will do everything in his power to convenience a dominant before himself. Telling me to message him reads to me like "you come convenience me" even if it is innocently intended.
Lastly, I see chatting in a messenger as a privilege, to be earned by successfully passing the test of polite and intelligent letter writing. If the boy is mentally and physically attractive to me, and there is some hope of him actually assisting me in real life, then I may grant him the privilege of chat for the purposes of a face to face meeting. If he doesn't want to or cannot meet face to face, and just wants to chat, he's really no use to me.
Having said all that, I will still reply to a polite letter from someone who has obviously read my profile, even if the yahoo ID is at the end. It just begins to irritate my BS detector a little.
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