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Lockit -> RE: hello peeps (1/25/2010 11:23:41 AM)
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Hello... I cannot try to type your name! Welcome... and I am glad you are open to people... say... tossing water on you, because some will. While most can understand why you would want to be here, many will also understand that you are in a situation that requires some attention and solutions.
It seems you and your wife are feeding the demise of your relationship by hiding, maybe lying to one another and seeking outside your relationship to fulfill needs that cannot be found there. Few other than some who are into online play, will involve themselves. I don't happen to believe that, that will resolve anything and will only hinder any growth or solutions that could be found for your situation.
You have some pretty serious decisions to make or a continuence of the painful things you and your wife continue to do.
I would suggest sitting down with your wife and discussing this and maybe deciding to openly and honestly get your needs met. You would stand a far better chance of finding someone, online or in person. Still, as a dominant, I have to say that online just wouldn't do it for me. What real service can you provide me? It is more my servicing your need, that I would have to monitor without much that would give me something of worth. Telling guys online what to do just isn't fulfilling to me. I also don't want phone calls from an upset wife or to be named in a law suit.
Take care of your personal business... don't hide from it and just keep feeding the monster. Then seek out someone else, because the party you are inviting someone to, could end up with a bust.
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