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ForeverOwned -> When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 12:55:59 PM)

is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?



BKSir -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:01:49 PM)

Little things that most people wouldn't notice... well, my "partner", yes, the whole wedding ring thing, but the pet, he calls me pet, and the collar with my name on the tag on his neck.  Again, most people wouldn't notice, but they would be readily evident to people that do wiitwd. :)



LafayetteLady -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:02:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?


You really need to be more specific. Do you mean at a BDSM/Lifestyle event? At the mall? At a dance club or a bar? The grocery store? The movies?



PrincessDonna -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:17:30 PM)

I think in public with a sub,people may take note that he does everything but I'm not concerned about what others think as long as I know that he knows HIS place things work out. By the way I think this is a great topic and hope it stays on track so that others may learn from it.



ForeverOwned -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:24:42 PM)

Thank You, so very much! That is so kind of You.



antipode -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:30:57 PM)

quote:

is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?


Are you using different words so it doesn't look like you're crossposting?



camille65 -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:31:02 PM)

He usually keeps his hand on the small of my back when we are walking, or he has my hand in the crook of his arm. Either way we are always touching and he is always guiding me physically. Yum.



DesFIP -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:48:10 PM)

Since I'm not on my hands and knees being led around on a leash, I hope to God we blend in. Making a public display of "I'm better than you because I'm less than you" is a particular kind of stupidity I don't aspire to.



agirl -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:48:32 PM)

Nope.   No-one would know he OWNED me ......... they might very well notice that we seem to be full of easy fun while he bosses me about.

agirl



ForeverOwned -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 1:58:47 PM)

great answers camille and agirl!



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 3:10:25 PM)

 
Does the "Owned slave-kunt to this Evul Fuk!" T-Shirt count?!! [;)]




fadedshadow -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 3:23:46 PM)

for me we're just somewhere, it shouldn't be obvious at all



lucylucy -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 4:10:54 PM)

I'm sure we look like any other couple, although as agirl said, someone might notice that I seem happy to be bossed around. He often has his hand or arm on me, but I think that's true for lots of vanilla couples, too. I doubt that anyone could tell by looking at us that he's often "steering" me with his arm or hand.



littlewonder -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 5:02:15 PM)

No one needs to know I belong to him. Why would they? We just blend in as a couple like every other couple around I suppose.

I don't think we have any need to flaunt or show off or shout to all around "hey we're special!".



Exploratorynfun -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 5:32:41 PM)

No matter where we are in public, ppl generally know I belong to him. We try to act normal as we can in public while still maintaining my role as a sub. I remain obedient and respectful at times, and I do where a collar but one that looks like a regular choker. If someone is in the bdsm lifestyle they may know but not the general public



ForeverOwned -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 5:32:47 PM)

That's not was this thread is about littlewonder.



littlewonder -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 5:41:57 PM)

Then I'm not understanding your question.

You asked if there is something that shows I belong to him. No. Should there be? Is there a reason the public needs to know I belong to him?

Do you notice others on the street who are owned?? I don't. Maybe that's just me but people all look the same generally to me.



ForeverOwned -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 5:48:25 PM)

i honestly don't know how to reword it for you. Maybe someone can pitch in and help. Maybe if you read (if you haven;t already) some of the other repsonses that might help. This was not meant to be a negative thing.



littlewonder -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 6:01:09 PM)

Ok well I did read what you wrote and read the entire thread. Seems most answered the same way I did...they look just like any other couple and don't look owned. <shrug> but whatever. I'll just walk away from this now.



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: When you are out with your partner (1/24/2010 6:05:18 PM)

I'm kind of bossy, and my  now x's dad saw that and told joseph he needed to stop letting me boss him around so much lol.

He just said yes dad.
quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna

I think in public with a sub,people may take note that he does everything



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