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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Judging a dominant by their submissive's behavior? (2/9/2010 2:41:05 PM)
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wisdomtogive,
I enjoyed reading your post back at me. I openly admit I swear, but not all the time. There is a limit to the amount of swearing that I can deal with. When every other word is "fuck, fucking, fucked up". How many times must one reuse the same swear word over and over again. I not mind if somebody goes on a little swearing bouts either, for I will do the same. However, none stop swearing that tends to grate under my skin. None stop derogatory or vulgar remarks. This will tire on me as well. With that said, things tend to fall into what I feel are reasonble limits. There are time when I even catch myself and reel it back in.
Generally, the language use and patterns between two people in a relationshp, tends to becomes the same over a certain time period. Not just regarding swear word, but other expressing, motto's or sayings. This is true for all relationships not just D/s ones. So in many regards there is a mirror reflection in this department.
The same holds true with a degree of patterned behaviors, even attitudes and morals tend to become very similar. Mind you, there are and will be differences. Social settings will play a bit of a difference in how people behave and speak too.
So, yes. It's fair to compare how some submissives behave online to how their Doms/Masters behave, but within a limited degree. The social setting and other people involved in the social group play an impact.
If you notice, there are threads that are started up with little to no swearing at times, and other ones full of it. Some people are treated differently than others. Some people are targets for insult, others are not. When somebody see one, then two users dishing out insults to another user, the odds of their being a 3rd increases. Then next thing you know it, it's built up to 8, 9 even 10 users all dishing out insults to the OP. Mind you this goes without saying if it's justified or not. I'm just saying it tends to be rather a group pattern.
An excellent point has already been made on this thread about the people we socialize or choose to spend time with. This effects behaviors, language use and etc.. Just as their relationship partners do.
At times, the behaviors here and language used, my not be an accurate/true reflection of their partner. It becomes a little questionable regarding the Social Group influences. (I'm just offering my thoughts on this matter).
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