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RE: when would behaviour be outside the bounds of a d/s... - 1/25/2010 1:53:08 PM

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WyldHrt hits on the key point.

Either an act is so fundamentally hurtful or destructive that I cannot get over it or it isn't. If it is, she's getting released. If it isn't, discussion + punishment + delineation of how things will be stricter going forward (at least temporarily) is proportionally used to address the issue.

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RE: when would behaviour be outside the bounds of a d/s... - 1/25/2010 1:57:19 PM

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Or, you could make him meatloaf, sprouts and mashed potatoes for dinner...
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Ah...yes, the "Beg For Release Menu"...complete with Apple Juice as a beverage...

Here he would like that. Well he wouldn't adore the sprouts but would eat them since they're healthy.

Here the release menu is serving breakfast for dinner. Pancakes may not be served past 11:00AM. Nor quiche and peas at any time.

So does Merc eat quiche?

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RE: when would behaviour be outside the bounds of a d/s... - 1/25/2010 3:46:35 PM

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If I was to start gossiping about him or talking about him behind his back, if I cheated on him or in anything I would do in life, if I suddenly became someone other than the person he has come to care for and own, I have a feeling we'd no longer be in a relationship at all. He'd dump my ass and rightfully so.

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RE: when would behaviour be outside the bounds of a d/s... - 1/25/2010 9:18:48 PM

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such as infidelity, or gossiping about him behind his back, really egregious behavior to include chronic willful disobedience

If I were even entertaining thoughts of the above, I'd be asking myself why I was even in this relationship before he could.

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