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cbaby -> RE: im young and loves cougar (1/25/2010 5:56:51 AM)
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ORIGINAL: youngshyconfused
i will drive anyyyy where to work for anyyyyone!!!! i want to live with you forever. I WILL OBEY!n
careful what you wish for hon.....you could land smack-dab in the lap of "MonstersRus".....not a good place to be (imho), you need to step back and figure out what you want, a Queen is a tad vague, what qualities do you have, what qualities do you seek. (I WILL OBEY!) now that is just scary, nothinng like walking into something eyes tightly closed and praying for the best, you are a walking advertisment for "victimsRus" and nobody least of all you wants that to be the end.
What happens when you drive anywhere, willing to do anything and your "Queen" decides nope, she doesn't want you or she takes what you have and then kicks you out....what then.
like Cali said....dial down the desperation, it's highly unattractive and potentially dangerous. And contrary to what you may have heard/read...YOU ALONE are responsible to making sure you are safe (both from yourself and your unknown Queen *only she knows what her agenda is*).
(but i didn't know) doesn't quite cut it when strung up by your proverbial heels somewhere wishing to God that you were anywhere but where you are.
Trust/Respect/Honesty are vital and they apply to you, Trust yourself (get to know yourself as yourself and not how you think someone else wants you to be)...Respect yourself and above all...be Honest with yourself (lose the rose colored glasses, what do you want/need, what are you willing/unwilling to do)
i wish you all the best in your search
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