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Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 4:33:14 PM

cuckrob

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hi........i am new to the site and would like to pose this question. Apologies in advance if it has already been covered.

I was cuckolded for over a year and a half by my previous long tern g/friend. The intensity and humiliation etc provided the most intoxicating mix of emotions. I fully understand that the peak of intensity was in large part created because we were a couple. Since we have split I would love to find a Mistress who enjoyed cuckolding a submissive or was intrigued by, or interested in the subject.

My question is to Mistresses or others who have experience of or thoughts on the following............can cuckolding be enjoyed outwith a normal long term loving relationship or does the intensity not exist to make it work?

Many thanks ..... rob

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 5:03:16 PM

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That's a very subjective question, rob. If you're asking for yourself, you'll have to go back and review why you felt what you felt. If it was because someone else got to have sex/make love to your girlfriend, I'd say that yes, you need to be in a relationship to get the same affect. If it was just hot knowing that someone in the house (or seeing it in front of you) was having sex and you couldn't, then the emotional attachment wasn't a piece of it. If what you enjoyed was seeing someone you wanted pleased getting pleased, that might go either way.

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 6:32:41 PM

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Very interesting question, and my answer would be that unless there is a long-term relationship, it's not really cuckolding at all. It's just dating a woman who sees other men too.

The same goes for bulls, you know. Being a bull in a three-way dynamic that involves a long-term relationship on the other side is much more intense and satisfying that being in a three-way dynamic where the other two people have just met or don't care very much about each other. The whole POINT is that you're fucking another man's wife.

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My question is to Mistresses or others who have experience of or thoughts on the following............can cuckolding be enjoyed outwith a normal long term loving relationship or does the intensity not exist to make it work?

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 7:16:53 PM

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Lots of cuckold talk around here lately, though you won't hear Me complaining.

I agree with much of what has been said thus far. I think that activities which can be present in a cuckold relationship can be enjoyed in a short-term, non-committed D/s relationship, However, I would not consider that to be a cuckold relationship. To Me, the cuckold is submitting in this way to the Domme, due to his strong feelings for her, and the bond they share. I think that the Bull can be either be a serious, long-term partner for the Domme, but it is not a requirement for a relationship to be one of cuckold status.

Simply put, a cuckold is in a committed relationship with an unfaithful Female, though he does not have the same freedom to choose multiple partners.

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 7:30:17 PM

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Thank you all for your comments and views .......... I guess I agree with all that you say in that it really has to be part of an established relationship. While I understand that the intensity cannot be there I am encouraged that MistressLorelei believes that some play with a Mistress may give me release to some of my cuckold feelings.

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 7:30:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuckrob

hi........i am new to the site and would like to pose this question. Apologies in advance if it has already been covered.

I was cuckolded for over a year and a half by my previous long tern g/friend. The intensity and humiliation etc provided the most intoxicating mix of emotions. I fully understand that the peak of intensity was in large part created because we were a couple. Since we have split I would love to find a Mistress who enjoyed cuckolding a submissive or was intrigued by, or interested in the subject.

My question is to Mistresses or others who have experience of or thoughts on the following............can cuckolding be enjoyed outwith a normal long term loving relationship or does the intensity not exist to make it work?

Many thanks ..... rob

I believe that cuckhold can be rewarding as long as you are attracted to your Domme. As long as you crave having sex with Her, your denial will bring up these emotions because another man is getting what you so crave. This is My opinion, not absolute fact, though I feel strongly that it can be accomplished.

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RE: Cuckold question - 3/24/2006 7:55:58 PM

cuckrob

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Thank you for your comments and thoughts Goddess Electra and I am encouraged that you think it could work.

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