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VirginPotty -> RE: Do you have a ritual that is done (1/27/2010 6:32:33 AM)
In the middle of the punishment (a hard lashing w/the whip or crop) he'll ask me if I know why I'm being punished so I don't do it again then about 25-30 consecutive lashings then business as usual.[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D] Thankfully punishments happen rarely, that's not to say the whippings don't occur! He's just in a better mood when he beats me! lol

sunshinemiss -> RE: Do you have a ritual that is done (1/27/2010 6:43:21 AM)
quote: My feelings also; and FWIW, if punishment is so frequent as to develop ritual, I think some other factor is at play. Perhaps play is a factor?

Elisabella -> RE: Do you have a ritual that is done (1/27/2010 7:23:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee Why this obsession with punishment? My feelings also; and FWIW, if punishment is so frequent as to develop ritual, I think some other factor is at play. Likely the same factor that influences the fact that everyone who does have a 'punishment ritual' on this thread is a femsub. I've found that malesubs tend to fetishize the fantasy of corporal punishment, whereas femsubs tend to romanticize or glorify "genuine punishment" for an actual transgression. Not all, of course, I personally am not interested in a punishment dynamic, but I think it might be loosely connected to the fact that there are more "daddy doms" than there are "mommy dommes."

osf -> RE: Do you have a ritual that is done (1/27/2010 8:47:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elisabella quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee Why this obsession with punishment? My feelings also; and FWIW, if punishment is so frequent as to develop ritual, I think some other factor is at play. Likely the same factor that influences the fact that everyone who does have a 'punishment ritual' on this thread is a femsub. I've found that malesubs tend to fetishize the fantasy of corporal punishment, whereas femsubs tend to romanticize or glorify "genuine punishment" for an actual transgression. Not all, of course, I personally am not interested in a punishment dynamic, but I think it might be loosely connected to the fact that there are more "daddy doms" than there are "mommy dommes." personally i think punishment shouldn't be ritualized or enjoyed in fact i think when it get to the point of needing to be punished it should bonder on vicious, otherwise i use correction and discipline which i see as different than punishment

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