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Help me with Chasity belt - 1/27/2010 5:03:31 PM

msinglink

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I have always wanted to try to wear a belt , god knows i need one, but looking for a key holder and some one who will be patient with me and want to help me make it a great experience . Any Advice on which belt or key holders would be great !

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RE: Help me with Chasity belt - 1/27/2010 5:07:39 PM

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Just fyi, you started another thread almost identical to this in the General section. That's a violation of the forum guidelines and one of the threads is likely to be removed by the mods.

Since this is something that is obviously a turn-on for you, you should rethink your post and try to phrase your question in such a way that the dominant women here will not think you're selfishly and obsessively focused on getting your own desires fulfilled. In other words, what's in it for us? No one is here to cater to your fantasies, so it's in your best interests to explain who you are, what sort of relationship you'd like to have, and what you have to offer a dominant woman in exchange for fulfilling your kinks.

Go back to the drawing board and try again.

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RE: Help me with Chasity belt - 1/27/2010 5:10:52 PM

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I take it you are not meaning a hook on the wall to hold your key?

Then this would require a human being who had some interest in you. Now... what makes you think we human beings are jumping at the chance to play cocky wanna, but cannota, with you? What would this human being get out of it? Is your cock that interesting to just any ol human being?

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RE: Help me with Chasity belt - 1/27/2010 6:47:08 PM

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Go to munches and make friends with other people who are in the lifestyle. Even if you can't find someone who you're compatible with on a relationship level, you may find a friend who would enjoy doing some casual chastity play. The key here is that you both know each other and that she's interested in chastity.

Trust me, if chastity play comes up in conversation with people you know you're going to know if any of them are interested in holding a key. I don't think I've ever met a woman who was interested in it that didn't mention it in a flirty, teasing way when she found out I also had an interest. Even when it's just casual it can be quite fun.

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RE: Help me with Chasity belt - 1/27/2010 6:55:51 PM

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If you are just seeking a keyholder so you can experiment and see if you like it, there are a lot of kinky ladies that offer a "keyholding service" - but buyer beware. Make sure you know what you are getting involved in. Also, some local professional doms who work in dungeons may be able to help you.

If you are looking for something more intimate (and "free"), then you have to go the relationship route. It doesn't mean super serious boyfriend/girlfriend necessarily - but, it means the lady has to be interested in you as a person first and foremost. You will find that femdoms are not really into random or arbitrary domination - something has to click with them, they have to be interested in the man first.

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RE: Help me with Chasity belt - 1/29/2010 8:15:49 PM

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Hi.

When we do chastity training with subs we sometimes use the key holder technique and other times we trust the sub to obey our commands and await permission. CB2000 and CB3000 are popular. There's other devices that work great too. Can't recall the name of them now but I know I saw them listed on GoddessClub.com in the Fetish Section and under the Chastity category.

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