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Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 4:17:00 PM

HairyBeaver

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I have a nice bush. I do not want to go bald eagle but rather styled. Most mistresses want me to be clean shaven. How do I negotiate without offending?

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 4:21:54 PM

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Ask Jeffff and LaT. They are the Ward and June around these parts so they know what to do with the beaver, hairy or otherwise.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 4:28:01 PM

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the only woman a bush ever looked good on was betty page

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 4:39:22 PM

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Well, i'd imagine being open about your feelings on the matter from the beginning is the way to handle this.
Would you be willing to further a relationship if this were a requirement?
If not, it's better to know sooner than later.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 4:44:25 PM

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If you have no tolerance at all for being bald then find someone who will match your tolerance level.

Otherwise get over it and just do it and realize there are more important things than whether you have hair or not.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 5:28:52 PM

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I have the opposite problem, I always preferred to be shaved, and Master chooses me to have hair. That was actually the hardest point of my submission, believe it or not, I had so many negative associations with it, LOATHED it actually, and it embarrasses the hell out of me still, but it never fails to remind me of my submission, which is part of the point even beyond aesthetic preference.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 5:34:28 PM

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A woman with a nice bush is a wonderful thing, I think it gets a little old seeing bald cunt after bald cunt, not say that every bush is a work of beauty, but I for one would like to see a little more hair.

I believe that you should state that you want to keep it and find someone that appreciates a nice bush, surely I can't be the only one.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 5:43:25 PM

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Good evening!
I say negotiate...politely of course. And if none are possible, then you shall have to make a decision. I mean, does the relationship (with a person who will not negotiate) really mean that much to have to endure that? Little arguments like that but best is always to see if a conclusion can be reached by both parties. I never gave much thought before the lifestyle but Daddy likes me with none and I hate it but had to for medical reasons (vulvodynia). so we compromised...nothing on the lips with just a little triangle on top of the pubic bone. Which makes it nice cause he gets me shaved and I get me still having hair AND it covers my stretch marks! lol Have a great night!
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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 5:58:22 PM

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Mention this to them ......

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ORIGINAL: Focus50
I'll add that a bit of playful cheek/spirit/attitude/brattiness etc is unlikely to actually anger me so is not punishable but there'll likely come a point where I grab a pinch of her short n curlies and haul her up on her toes so we're nose to nose as I enquire about the continuation of her current behaviour. I can be "playful", too...! ;-)

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<whispering> Focus thinks that visually, the absolutely most sexiest part of the female form is a neatly trimmed "landing strip" down below.... Trimmed = enough to double as a "lifting handle" for the making of points. ;-)

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 7:06:02 PM

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Interesting that you chose THIS section to post a question about approaching Mistresses. Makes one say, "hmmmm."

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 7:11:05 PM

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I have a nice bush. I do not want to go bald eagle but rather styled. Most mistresses want me to be clean shaven. How do I negotiate without offending?

If a minor cosmetic adjustment is that big of a deal for you, forget the negotiating and just seek out partners who are okay with it or prefer it.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/28/2010 7:11:51 PM

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Let's talk Beav..... if the state of your bush is the important thing in your relationship, I would suggest it isn't much of a relationship.

If it is an important starting point, I think it should be pointed out.... hair grows back.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 2:28:08 AM

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I personally prefer pubes too, to me it signifies that i am a sexually attractive adult...
i accept at some point it will stop growing and i shall be ok with that but until then i like to have fun with it

i feel cleaner and sexier and i smell nicer with hair than without
without hair my cunt is slippy and sticky and sweaty even without being in anyway sexually aroused, i find it an annoying mess, especially when dancing.

but we shave sometimes
because it is very hot occasionally being told to spread my legs or be tied up like that and see Him prepare for a close shave of my pussy... never knowing if He is going to humiliate me by shaving the whole lot off... oh i think that is horrible... i somehow associate it with bad deceases and war camps, and Victorian de-lousing practises and it looks absolutely ridiculous in my eyes.

I think you perhaps could broker a deal of diversity... i think everything is ok as long as it does not become an obsession
always only having the same hairstyle might be considered a bit boring

also i think it feels very nice to have my pubes pulled, to have my pussy pulled open by the hair... and if you shave them all off all the time you can never do that.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 3:54:21 AM

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If a minor cosmetic adjustment is that big of a deal for you, forget the negotiating and just seek out partners who are okay with it or prefer it.

Just because it is a minor cosmetic adjustment to you doesn't mean it is for everyone.

Those who were sexually abused at an age before pubic hair has grown don't find this a minor item.

And older folks like me who aren't that flexible prefer not to blindly strike out with sharp objects at tender bits.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 4:07:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: HairyBeaver

I have a nice bush. I do not want to go bald eagle but rather styled. Most mistresses want me to be clean shaven. How do I negotiate without offending?

Then find someone that either prefers the hair, or one like myself that has no preference between trimmed and bald.

Edited to add..........I would be more concerned that you so identify with this issue that you created your virtual identity around it. It screams troll.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 1/29/2010 4:08:43 AM >

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 5:32:50 AM

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The only posting this person has done AT ALL is about...you guessed it!!

If I had to guess it's a guy with a hairy bush fetish who gets off on people discussing it.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 5:33:59 AM

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He shaves me completely every now and then. I hate it. He likes it. We do what he likes.

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 6:03:24 AM

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Interesting that you chose THIS section to post a question about approaching Mistresses. Makes one say, "hmmmm."

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The only posting this person has done AT ALL is about...you guessed it!!

If I had to guess it's a guy with a hairy bush fetish who gets off on people discussing it.

That Christina... she's as good as Carrie O!

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 6:51:35 AM

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I believe a description of the OP is a good use of the word...........twatwaffle!!

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RE: Shaving Pubic Hair - 1/29/2010 7:19:52 AM

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Like someone said in another thread yesterday; I'm not really up on all these descriptions. Can someone tell me what a twatwaffle is? Thank you!

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