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DesFIP -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/29/2010 2:41:12 PM)

I wait for him to open car and restaurant doors because that's what he wants. I pick what movie to go to because he tells me to. He's a brave man considering some of the stuff I've picked. lol.

I buy ice cream that has some kind of chocolate in it and not a fruit ice cream because he doesn't like those. So when we're at the grocery store and he tells me to remember ice cream, I pick something I know he'll like.




littleone35 -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/29/2010 3:12:39 PM)

It's little things when we are walking he will put my hand an the crrok of his elbow or take my hand so he has a hold of me i am usually a step behind him. Today Master and i went to a sandwhich place for lunch. he carried the tray to the table and i went and got the forks for the salad ans spoons for the soup and the napkins. Not a big thing but i was doing that so he would not have to get up. After lunch i asked if he was done with his coke so i got up and thew out his soda and my juice bottle. Also i ALWAYS have my collar on. Just litittle ings.

Matt's littleone




OsideGirl -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/29/2010 6:48:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Focus50


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ORIGINAL: mastersslut69

When I am out with my Master, I want to be submissive to him and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions how we can subtly achieve this. How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?



If you're my girl, you do it by multi-tasking.... In public, it's probably more about what you don't do - which still involves rules and discipline.

You do NOT draw public attention to our personal dynamic by calling me "Sir" (for eg); we're equals and I have a name, remember it. But I still expect you to know who's boss, esp my loathing for repeating myself. You also don't just go wandering off without checking with me. If we're mingling with friends, know I'll still be keeping a regular eye on you (and esp your behaviour) so again, you be where I can see you or check in if you're intending to leave my sight for more than a minute or three.

Finally, *everything* is subjective to the situation and I mostly expect you to use your own intelligence and horse sense - and just ask if you're not sure (sooooo much simpler than explaining later).

Focus.

This is very much what Master expects of me. I'm also to wait for him to open the car door and any other doors for me.




littlewonder -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/29/2010 8:31:58 PM)

I defer to him. I act in a manner that is pleasing to him, quiet, obedient, mannerly, polite. I just try to make his life as easy and workfree as possible.




NihilusZero -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 1:31:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mastersslut69

When I am out with my Master, I want to be submissive to him and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions how we can subtly achieve this. How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?

Um...obey?




slut69smaster -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 6:39:05 AM)

congrats on your first post baby. Your master is very pleased with you!!




Mercnbeth -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 6:54:25 AM)

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How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?


following His lead, obeying His wishes and discreetly flashing tits in His direction, whenever possible.[:)]




WyldHrt -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 6:58:01 AM)

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and discreetly flashing tits in His direction, whenever possible.[:)]

[:D][:D][:D]




EbonyWood -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 7:02:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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and discreetly flashing tits in His direction, whenever possible.[:)]

[:D][:D][:D]



With the quality and ahem.. quantity of boobage of certain persons I'm thinking discreet may not be an option.




DesFIP -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 11:58:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?


following His lead, obeying His wishes and discreetly flashing tits in His direction, whenever possible.[:)]


Well of course. The tit flashing goes without saying. [:D]




RumpusParable -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 12:11:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mastersslut69

When I am out with my Master, I want to be submissive to him and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions how we can subtly achieve this. How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?




Answering from the dominant side:

My sub/slave still waits on me, still calls me by my title if we use one, may have eye or speech restrictions, etc.  -little things that can be done that don't bother others.  They may be noticed by others, but they're not things that would cause problems at a clerks work or other issues for them.  If I order for both of us at a restaurant, the waiter might find it odd but it doesn't put an obstacle in their way.




lally2 -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 3:50:10 PM)

whats cutely georgeous about it all is that *you* know that you are slave and Master. the dynamic moves with you all of the time - it doesnt stop. so youre responsiveness to him is anyway tacit and a secret, silent language that just the two of you can hear is constantly ebbing and flowing.

i love all that secret sharing. the look that makes me quiet or having to hang about patiently while he tries on a coat and cant make up his mind. or going into a coffee shop and waiting for him to decide which table to choose.

its subtley there, all of the time, only the two of you know it though.

discreetly flashing youre tits or wiggling youre bum prevocatively works too.




Andalusite -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 5:23:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: windchymes
If he wants to order for you, let him.

My Master likes to have me order for him, when we go to one of our regular places. I ask, "Your usual?" and he either says yes, or decides what he wants instead.

Other fairly subtle things he does are hold my wrist and the outside of my hand instead of clasping hands, and I whisper to ask permission if I need to use the restroom or get up for something.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/30/2010 6:37:01 PM)

Just having manners and using them, it is a simple as that.




NorthernGent -> RE: How to be submissive in public to Master (1/31/2010 1:31:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: mastersslut69

When I am out with my Master, I want to be submissive to him and I was wondering if you'd have any suggestions how we can subtly achieve this. How do you show to your master when you are out that you respect him in public and not just behind closed doors?




Depends on the situation.

With a group of friends he may just want you to relax and enjoy yourself........manners watched of course.

When just the two of you - e.g. restaurant - he may want you to defer to him. When ordering/pouring wine/eating etc. I suppose the setting allows for a) a more formal approach and b) intensity.

It really depends on his personality - which only you will know.




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