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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 12:43:15 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I adore wearing very high, thin, heels. Unfortunately I do not get the opportunity so those that I have, gather dust in the closet.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 1:38:26 PM   
Navina


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Status: offline 		God, I hope not. I'm a switch and I refuse to give up my black patent leather ankle-buckled pointy-toed 4 inch stilettos for anything.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:02:44 PM   
ricken


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Status: offline 		I prefer to see my sub in thin high heels, I also prefer open toes, and she better have taken good care of her toes. I don't like the heels so high she can't walk well, about 3" rise or so...

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:16:04 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Very high heels on super petite women look ridiculous: it makes them look like pink flamingos or like they're on stalks. Chunky heels are fattening and so last millenium. Super skinny heels are hard to walk on, but if you can carry it off, yay you! Heels are wicked in bed :-) .

There is a middle ground out there. And buy the best shoes you can afford. For goodness' sake, learn to walk on your heels, practice in your living-room if you don't know how to, and be realistic. If you're five foot nothing, a pair of five inch heels is going to make you look ridiculous. And wedges are wonderful for the summer in the city, but they should be kept out of the bedroom at all times!  It's all a question of balance and harmony: have fun tottering  .

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:22:22 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

are thin pointy heels to be reserved for dommes only




Clichy Louboutin Classic. No platform, just elegance, plain black.

For me, pure fetish item!

- LA

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:24:46 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Ooooh...pretty!! Leave it to LA to throw on the Louboutins (which is a new song by J-Lo that sucks).

But I love LA!!

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:26:05 PM   
LadyAngelika


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And buy the best shoes you can afford. For goodness' sake, learn to walk on your heels, practice in your living-room if you don't know how to,

So true! Everyday I see business women with high heels (at times innapropriately high for office wear) and you look at them from the back and their ankles are wobbling. One must appear to glide in heels! Not an easy task, but it is a learned skill! This might help: http://www.wikihow.com/Walk-in-High-Heels

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:29:50 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Barefoot in summer, slippers in winter. But I have an injured foot and can't wear the really high heels for walking. If I'm going to be lying down in them, that's different.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:31:48 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Ooooh...pretty!! Leave it to LA to throw on the Louboutins


Hey! I find they add to the attitude! Besides I can dance or play all night in super high heels so it's fun.

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(which is a new song by J-Lo that sucks).


Funny she would write such a song when she has her own (badly designed) footwear line to promote!

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But I love LA!!


Aw shucks! Much love back :-)

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:42:29 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		2" heels are flats. 3"+ are SOP

You can have my heels when your house lands on me.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 2:43:44 PM   
Aynne88


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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Too often the shoe issue is associated with the Domme and some subboi licking it or whatever the hell those people do.
 
I think high heels/stilettoes look great on any woman who can make it work.


If you are over 25 in my opinion those chunky heels look ridiculous, I live in 4 to 5 inch stilletos and I love them. Sub or not, I wear nothing but sexy pumps and strappy sandals with a thin heeled stiletto. What kind of question is this?

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 3:31:03 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		J'ai une paire de chaussures Freelance en agneau noir taille 37 - elles sont sur mon profile.

A vendre  .

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 3:35:54 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		I don't wear those things.  Heck no.  I like my ankles unbroken, thank you.

I saw a woman in some really beautiful high heels.  She was thin, but curvaceous, pretty sexy legs... and then she walked in those beautiful heels... like she was bouncing... clunk bounce, clunk bounce, clunk bounce.  I wanted to give her a pair of hush puppies and pat her on the head.

Sigh.


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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 3:59:11 PM   
UniqueRaven


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Status: offline 		When i lived in Manhattan i saw beautiful women fall all the time on the street in impossibly high heels. The sidewalks are not exactly conducive to walking in them - i.e. most of the sidewalks angle towards the street and are full of cracks, grates, etc. Definitely made me feel better about my own efforts to walk in the high heels my previous Master desired. And now i love wearing them, just don't get to near as often anymore.

Oh, and when in the City, taxis are your friend.



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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 4:20:49 PM   
Elisabella


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Status: offline 		IMO spiky stilettos aren't more feminine, but they are more sexy.

My left knee is kind of trashed, so I can only wear really high heels when I'm going to be spending most of the evening sitting down, but I do like to wear heels. My new pair of shoe love is a pair of matte leather black wedges, 2.5" heel, and peep toe. If I add them to black cargo pants and a white t-shirt they turn the outfit from "bummy" to "casual."

I also like the chunky heels that taper down into a small one on more punky shoes, and if I were going to go with a nice, elegant shoe, it would be built like this one. To me this shoe (rounded toe, thin medium height heel) is the epitome of femininity. It's not as sexy as a Louboutin, but the shape is just so feminine.


And no, I don't think that certain shoes are for dommes and certain shoes are for subs, except for perhaps ballet flats, which I love, and which I can hop around and be more graceful in, which to me makes them more of a "submissive" shoe. I do see how stilettos are fetishized in a domme, but at the same time, for a woman who isn't used to walking in them, they can be used as proof of her submission, similar to hobble skirts or even Chinese foot binding.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 4:33:24 PM   
ResidentSadist


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How about no heels? Love that pony stuff.
I'm just saying . . .

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 5:32:00 PM   
Reform


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
How about no heels? Love that pony stuff.
I'm just saying . . .


I'm actually making a pair of digitigrade boots (non-heeled like hoof boots, but not hooves), and I must admit I'm looking forward to completing them.

I love heels, but unfortunately I have a hard time with them. I had foot surgery when I was young and my range of motion has decreased a lot. So standing in heels for a long time can be really debilitating. That doesn't prevent me from wearing them though, I just try to reserve it for going out or dressing up. I'm normally in my combat boots, or barefoot.

Shoes (or lack thereof) are for anyone and everyone.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 5:46:05 PM   
CaringandReal


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Status: offline 		For some reason I associate closed toes/pumps and boots with dominant women and open-toed sandal-like shoes with submissive women. The heels don't send me any particular message.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 5:57:18 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Ugly. Brrrr... I guess taste is not to be discussed.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 6:09:22 PM   
kiwisub12


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Slaves are allowed to wear shoes???




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