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RE: breeding ? - 1/30/2010 10:49:48 PM   
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Actually, women over 40 should have half a brain BEFORE they get into any sort of M/s dynamic that would cause them to question the "rights" of their Master.  The OP should be asking HIM these questions, not a bunch of pixels.



I would say the OP should be asking herself why she didn't dump the guy when he first suggested the idea. This is the kind of crap I think about when I hear people say the have "no limits"


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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 12:31:52 AM   
Elisabella


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I have no qualms about saying that I find the premise of the OP to be abhorrent and disgusting. Having a baby is not a 'kink' - it is a lifelong commitment, and for you to ask "who will take care of the offspring" implies that you don't feel it's automatically your responsibility, as the mother, to do so. Though to me, the fact that you'd even consider getting pregnant to be a kink makes me seriously question your potential for mothering skills.

And you're 45? And you're the woman from that other post? Are you even in Australia yet? This sounds like some elaborate fantasy when combined with the other post.

I would say stop wasting our time but I'd much rather have you waste our time here than bring an unwanted, unloved child into the world. So I'm really hoping this is a fantasy.

Yeah. I'm judging your kink. For real though, shame on you. And shame on your Master doubly so, if this was his idea.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:28:16 AM   
subtlebottomgirl


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Status: offline 		Yes, I did arrive and Master is very happy with me. I don't get why I have been flamed here so much, I am a slave. No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful. My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable,  was wondering about other slaves on this board. I don't see many slaves, only alot of femdoms and kinky  bedroom sex submissives that call  out their own commands to follow.
Thank You.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:31:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl
I don't see many slaves, only alot of femdoms and kinky  bedroom sex submissives that call  out their own commands to follow.


Oh boy oh boy, here we go  ...

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:32:09 AM   
Lucienne


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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl
. No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful.


With every detail this sounds like an even better idea.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:37:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl

Yes, I did arrive and Master is very happy with me. I don't get why I have been flamed here so much, I am a slave. No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful. My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable,  was wondering about other slaves on this board. I don't see many slaves, only alot of femdoms and kinky  bedroom sex submissives that call  out their own commands to follow.
Thank You.


As judge Judy would say, please don't bring any children into the world.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:43:28 AM   
CarrieO


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. My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable,


Because there really is no other reason...right?   What you would be creating with this "breeding" is another human, not just "off spring". 

Not quite the same as breeding a dog for a litter of puppies...or is it?

quote:


I don't get why I have been flamed here so much, I am a slave.


You will be flamed because there is a point where common sense and reality needs to kick in.  I hope for the sake of your "off spring" this doesn't come too late.



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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:48:50 AM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Why would you consider becoming a mom at the ripe old age of 45? You would be more like a grandmother than a mother to any children you bring into this world. Hopefully the finances you hand over to your master will be used to raise the 'offspring'.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:51:45 AM   
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No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful.


All the more reason to not go through with this. What happens if your motherly instincts don't show up? Do you really think you would take care of the baby anyway?  Babies aren't dolls, you can't just put it aside because you don't feel like caring for it.

You think you are being flamed but really you are getting good advice, it just isn't what you want to hear. Did you really think we would tell you what a good idea it is?

That you even ask who should be responsible shows you aren't responsible enough to care for a baby. I agree with those who say forget about it, never, never have children....and no that isn't a flame, it's good, solid advice.


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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 6:56:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl

I don't see many slaves



They are in their cages of course.
 
We believe they should neither be seen or heard.
 
Nor bred. Insurance and all.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 7:48:36 AM   
lovingpet


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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl

I am a slave.  My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable...I don't see many slaves, only alot of femdoms and kinky  bedroom sex submissives that call  out their own commands to follow.
Thank You.


snipped for my own purposes....

I won't even approach the whole motherly instincts thing.  Many people never really have an ounce of "mommy" in them before looking upon their newborn's face.  That doesn't really disturb me all that much.

This idea you have about slavery, however, is of GREAT concern.  Remember, I am one of those slaves (pardon me while I shudder and get a little antsy since that word disturbs me for whatever reason still when applied to me).  I can stay and obey or I can go.  Those are the choices.  That being said, I do have my judgement fully intact and do have my own mind and opinions and feelings about things.  Whether or not you want to place me beneath the umbrella of your slam of other posters is your choice I suppose, but I know where I stand with my partner.  He expects me to be human, and an intelligent and articulate one at that.  He knows I will not be able to meet everything he asks of me without reservations, fears, and even flat out resistance.  He also knows it is his job to lay out our path and make it one I am able to safely travel.

I ask you, has your master done this?  Has he answered your questions, allayed your fears?  My guess is no.  That's why you came here with this.  What are HIS plans for the "offspring"?  What responisibility does HE plan to take?  He really should be giving you those answers.  We can't.  All we can do is look at the totality of the situation and inform you that it looks very, very bad from where we sit.  Reread my first post and note that I didn't flame your kink as such, but addressed other concerns related to it.  I am not interested in pushing my opinion of this "kink" (deep breath) on you.  I do want you to think it through.  I would do the same with anything that had real, long term consequences and considerations. 

You are not giving a good argument for going along with all this.  Either you are completely lost in fantasy or you are scared to death.  Just how easy is it for you to walk away?  I imagine it is nearly impossible given that you have relocated to another country and put all your finances under his control.  That's got to be a scary position to find yourself in.  He then comes along and tells you this very extreme plan he has for you.  It really is okay to just not be able to go through with something...especially of this magnitude.  It is not a failing.  It is a boundary.  Enforcing it has got to be terrifying given your situation.  Find a way to the US embassy or consulate office and explain your predicament.  There's no guarantee they can help or will be willing, but if you really don't want to do this, it is probably the only way out. 

I think there has been a lot of decisions made over the course of time that has lead you to a very awful position.  You signed your finances over to a stranger (and yes, he was a stranger because you had not met nor gotten to know each other in flesh and blood).  You went off to Australia and uprooted your entire life again for a stranger.  Now you are sitting in the complete control of this stranger (and yes, he is still a stranger because you have not even remotely had enough time to really get to know him).  Do I feel for your situation?  Not really.  I think a woman in her 40's could have done a better job conducting her life.  It's just time to get yourself together here and make some good, solid decisions.  Stay or go.  Those are the only choices right?  Then go ahead and stay and accept whatever consequences and life that he is about to place upon you.  The other choice is you go to that consulate penniless and desperate and hope that they can do SOMETHING to undo what you have done to yourself.  Good luck!

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 7:52:24 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		For the sake of those children PLEASE don't "breed".

All I can hope is fhat if you do decide to have children the doctors talk you into giving them up for adoption.

<shakes head and thinks there really should be a test to become a parent>

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 7:57:14 AM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl

Yes, I did arrive and Master is very happy with me. I don't get why I have been flamed here so much, I am a slave. No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful. My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable,  was wondering about other slaves on this board. I don't see many slaves, only alot of femdoms and kinky  bedroom sex submissives that call  out their own commands to follow.
Thank You.


Ok, in no particular order:

1. You are being flamed because you are an idiot.
2. Your master sounds like an idiot.
3. If you are the least bit concerned about lacking mothering instincts, get your tubes tied or use two condoms.
4. Femdoms can do what the fuck they want.
5. Kinky bedroom sex submissives are great, I know, I am one.
6. There are many slaves here, just not fitting your definition, they live their own way.
7. Please do not ever breed.

Any questions?

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:12:22 AM   
Lucienne


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2. Your master sounds like an idiot.



Seriously. Setting aside all the more obvious and serious questions, what kind of moron wants to breed a 45 year old woman who's never had a kid before and who is dumb enough to fly across the world and hand over her finances to a stranger? It's an insult to husbandry. Perhaps she is strong like ox.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:15:16 AM   
sunshinemiss


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No I am not a mother, my motherly instincts have not showed themself , but I am hopeful. My job is to listen, please and obey  my Master and he wants to breed me I am breedable,  


I see child protective services in somebody's future.

Pass the gold across the palm.


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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:16:21 AM   
EbonyWood


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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

2. Your master sounds like an idiot.



Seriously. Setting aside all the more obvious and serious questions, what kind of moron wants to breed a 45 year old woman who's never had a kid before and who is dumb enough to fly across the world and hand over her finances to a stranger? It's an insult to husbandry. Perhaps she is strong like ox.



And dumb as ox?
 
Nah, too easy.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:17:04 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Seriously, I just hope this whole things was one big joke...tragically, I bet it is not.

The woman make the Octomom look like Einstein.

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:20:57 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Why would you consider becoming a mom at the ripe old age of 45? You would be more like a grandmother than a mother to any children you bring into this world. Hopefully the finances you hand over to your master will be used to raise the 'offspring'.


I take objection with the circumstances under which these people want to conceive a child, yes, that is for the purpose of kink.

I also take objection that a woman at the "ripe old age of 45" (???) would be more like a grandmother than a mother. I'm 37 and have not started my family yet. I have many friends who have had their first child between 37 and 44 and all very healthy, happy, cared for children. In fact, a friend of mine has twins last year at 43.

More and more women are having children later in life so this idea of the ripe old age of 45 to have kids is antiquated and has got to go...

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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:22:00 AM   
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RE: breeding ? - 1/31/2010 8:22:33 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		OP, in both of your postings here on this thread you refer to the act of getting pregnant and having a baby as breeding and being bred. You refer to a potential child as offspring. You say that you haven't had any motherly instinct in your life so far. The only impression people can get of you is that  you think of a baby as a thing...a kink...a fantasy or you are getting your views from your master and that is certainly what he seems to think of the process. You objectify the whole process and then the end product by the words you have used...is it any wonder that the many of the forum posters here have been appalled at the very idea that you are going to bring a child into the world?

As zephyr pointed out...you are not being flamed. This is a bad idea and those of us who have commented on how bad it is are not flaming you to be obnoxious, we are repelled by the fact that you are asking questions about doing something that is beyond the shadow of a doubt one of the most repugnant things I have ever heard of. It's just not what you want to hear. Let me ask you this....has anyone here said wow....what a great idea! There is a distinct lack of support for the idea of breeding babies for kink. Most of us have said that if you're in it to have a child because you want one then go for it, but if you're doing it because you both get off on it then that is the very definition of morally wrong.

Since you are not a mother let me enlighten you as some of the other posters have tried to do. Babies are tough, they will bring you to the end of your patience and then some, they will use up every drop of energy you have, and they take lots and lots of money. They don't go away when you want them to. You seem to put a lot of stock in being a slave...you'll be a very poor slave to your master if you have a baby. You are a slave to the baby. That's how it works. It doesn't get any better with time, check some of the threads on here about how difficult it is to make time for kink when there are children around. When a child enters the picture everything defers to him/her, everything else that you are and that you find important and whoever else is in your life all takes second place. That's the way it is. You don't get to serve the master when he wants it, it's when the baby allows it. For the first few months you are literally chained to that child to feed it, change it, entertain it, etc. After that it doesn't get much better. The baby is always there so kink takes second place. In fact start a new thread on parenthood and try to get some ideas of what you're getting into or as I suggested do a search on the old threads.

You are older, the statistics Drifa quoted are real. There is a much larger chance that any child you produce will have problems and that you may have them too as having a baby at your age. How will you be a good slave when you are puking with morning sickness? If you think raising a child through it's younger years is hard try raising one with developmental problems. And once again the money....where is the money coming from? A child is a continual drain on the finances in any household.

You say you are breedable...yippee hooray for you. Many women are, that's not very special. What's special is when a woman thinks things through for herself to realize that although she can do a thing it might not be the best thing to do.

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