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slave1324 -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/1/2006 12:57:36 AM)

one i am a male slave and sucking a dido is not gay but sucking a cock is and i am not gay



mons -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/1/2006 12:05:07 PM)

hello

I think I answered this post before, well here I go again! Come on be
real if a submissive male wanted a real penis to suck on '
he would be a submissive for a male Dom! Not a domme!
I for one do not want my submissive to suck on anyone penis
that is not the reason I have him! Plus it is something i find not
pleasing to me! Sure there are many Dommes who do not mind
their male submissive doing this on some male but not me!!!
I have been told by more then one submissive male they do
not wish to suck on a live penis for anyone or thing and have
left mistress who have try to make them. Even to suggest
this to some of the submissive males makes the one i have
spoken to think twice of speaking to me again. So this dream of
sucking on a real penis is just that a dream for someone who
may want to watch a submissive who has no desires to do this
is i think a form of toture. This is the same for a submissive
woman who does not want to do this type of thing to a another
woman !!!!!


mons~



isubmit2you -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/4/2006 5:43:26 AM)

As for me, I had long fantasized about sucking a man's cock, but was very apprehensive about actually doing it.  There seems to be a certain irrational "Does this make me gay?" component to it.  I was blindfolded, but knew by the way he grabbed my hair and the direction he pulled my head that it was about to happen.  I just submitted and went with it.  I couldn't believe how much I enjoyed the sensation of having a hard, smooth cock in my mouth.  I was not able to take him very deeply, but based on the sounds he was making, he didn't seem to mind.  And though I couldn't see anything, I was pretty sure that She was enjoying the spectacle.  The next time I was priveleged to have him in my mouth, I was not blindfolded.  I liked that much more, as the sight of him rhythmically disappearing into my mouth along with the sensation was a huge turn-on.  I haven't had a cock in my mouth for a long time now.  But I hope to find a Dominant Woman that will make me perform for her in that way.

So there you go, my very first posting on this site.



knl4myplzr -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/4/2006 6:03:20 AM)

I just wanted to throw this out there - for male subs who DO fantasize about this and maybe didn't want to post on this thread because they are not comfortable admitting it - you are not alone, don't feel as if you're "weird."  In the past I spent several years as a ProDomme and I would say that dildo training and forced oral to a man (sometimes in conjunction with being "pimped out" and/or forced to perform for money) were the number one and two fantasies, respectively, that I heard from potential clients. 

I chose not to accept subs for this type of training (just IMHO any thing involving penetration of any kind and/or oral is something reserved for personal subs, and not clients)...but this was absolutely the most frequently requested type of training.  "Mistress make me your whore - I'll suck cock for you"  "Mistress can make money from Her slut" - kind of part of a whole objectification thing (receptacle/hole/whore, etc)...but regardless of your personal stance on whether this desire "makes you gay" - I think a huge part of the appeal is that putting another man's penis in your mouth is a huge subjugation of the male ego...and some subs may find its appeal undeniable...as a form of humiliation/ruination...as the ultimate subjugation of their masculinity to Mistress. 

Anyway, sometimes I think it helps just to know you're not the only one, so....



sfogarty -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/4/2006 12:00:41 PM)

Now I am /certainly/ not adverse to sucking on real penii. But it is not the same thing to be sucking on someone else as to be sucking on the cock of the woman I'm submitting to.

Presuming I am doing the first for the woman, it becomes a show. It isn't her cock, it is someone else cock. That's a big difference. She might well be directing, but she isn't directly involved.

Whereas if she is wearing the cock, it's hers. It may not be real (and I don't really pretend that it is), but it's /hers/, and her hands can help guidance.



byourcommand -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/4/2006 1:23:20 PM)

Well the only reason I put bi in my profile (I'm thinking of removing it due to misinterpretations) is to show what I'd do for my owner. The only bi experiences were from my last owner, she made me give her oral before, during, and after sex with another man a few times. Then it finally happened, she made me give a guy oral twice. The only thing that got me through it was seeing how turned on it made her. It was a limit I pushed through as her pleasure was more important.



trissy -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/5/2006 11:05:40 AM)

i am a submissive cd sissy because i adore Women (i am hetero) and wish to emulate them. i love to be dressed en femme and suck a Woman's strap-on because it is a very submissive (dare i say womanly?) act of worship to me,  and i worship Women, not men. i am not sexually attracted to men at all.

Respectfully,
trissy



sublace -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/5/2006 11:26:15 AM)

I have no problem with sucking a nice cock or strap-on.  If thats what they want me to do I will.  I love women, very much and like dressing like one too, but I also love big cocks.  Men do nothing for me, I just love whats between their legs and I like them big!!!

sublace



blackdreams -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/6/2006 11:07:24 AM)

When I met the first "domme" in my life (being the first woman who was willing to take control of me, not a girl-friend with whom I was just experimenting), on the first evening she asked me whether I had already slept with a guy. And when I denied with conviction, she asked me: "But if I would order you to ...?"

At that time, I had no other answer than "In this case I would have to take the punishment for not following your order ..." And when she replied "In this case I would have to punish you until you would follow it ...", I asked myself whether I was on the right way ...

Indeed, she never gave me that order ...

When I am looking back over the past twenty years, this memory tells me how much bdsm means to me ... how much it has changed me ... how much I have learned through it ...

In the meantime I have learned what a satisfying experience it is to be pushed over one's limits. I don't know whether my reaction twenty years ago was due to homophobia (for sure it was no social homophobia, but perhaps a sexual one) - in the meantime I have learned to overcome my phobias (with the one exception of the dentistophobia, as I must admit) ... I have learned that I have the power to do anything ... anything I want to do ... and for me this is anything I am ordered to do by the woman I love ... this is the power of a slave ...

... and I am so grateful to the women who have taught me ...



mathiasdomm -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/6/2006 4:35:02 PM)

Reversing the situation, making my female sub give head to another woman, doesn't seem so appealing.  I think gender switching would require a lot of trust between the master and sub, not to mention some sort of preexisting relationship between sucker and suckee because it is such a limit.  Performing for someone you already submit to is one thing, but being made to submit to someone who hasn't earned your trust would be hard for even a well trained sub.  I'm much more likely to push limits of regular partners than random play pals.  When you bring someone else in like that you're changing the dynamics and the intimacy level in your relationship, and there are very few situations where I'd push like that.  I want to protect my subs, let them trust me, and make them happy in their submission.    



Real0ne -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/7/2006 5:08:25 PM)

its all good bring it on!



chainedsinner -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/8/2006 8:42:02 PM)

personally, i would have no problem servicing men at the request of my Mistress. Of course, i'm seeking a cuckold relationship, so that's almost a requirment, anyway.



subboi3382 -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 1:51:53 AM)

my master is friends with a married couple and she has him service guys and even though he is straight he kind of likes it. to them it is a sort of ultimate submission. i can see both sides of the arguement but to me it is not that far of a stretch to go from sucking a rubber dick to a real one



Taik -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 2:08:51 AM)

Senpai really enjoys it when I suck her strap-on, I enjoy sucking it too so it works out quite well. I used to have fantasys about sucking strap-ons or cocks and for a while I though I might consider my self Bi. But I don't enjoy the company of men and the though of pleasing or submitting to one does not appeal to me. Since senpai first introduced me to her strap-on I found I don't think of real cocks any more, I am very happy to please her and her strap-on and when I think of sucking things that's what comes to mind.
Now that said, if she asked me to suck a real one, then I would because it's what she wants and I want to see her happy. Giving her what she wants makes me very happy even if it's something I dont enjoy personally or during, but seeing her smiling happy face afterwards makes it all worth while. I don't consider such a request on her part to be Forced Bi either. I have a hard time with the concept of forced bi or forced fem, in my mind the sub is still making the choice to do it. if its a hard limit then it won't happen, if it's not then at some level the person still is choosing and so i don't consider it forced, more like requested or directed. So while I have no desire to suck a real cock, I would if she asked me to and only if she asked me to. I don't think i could do it if she wasn't in the room, right there with me to watch, because the reason i would be doing it was for her.

That's my 2 cents on the topic.



crouchingtigress -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 10:39:59 AM)

If you enjoy what you are doing is it really submission?



stef -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 11:11:37 AM)

What a silly question.  Submission and enjoyment are not mutually exclusive.

~stef



slavejali -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 1:35:51 PM)

I hope I say this right....I'm not discrediting anyones type of relationship my mind just likes to think about dynamics...

I've often wondered about the dynamic thats happening with strap-ons and women dominants and male submissives. Like when there is a male Dominant and female submissive they dont have to swap sexes, or be any other sex than what they are. I wonder about why there is even a need to do this. Is it the sense of power it invokes? and if so...why does a female have to dress up like a man (wearing a strap-on) to feel powerful or dominant in a sexual way..and why is the male submissive so turned on by it? I could see it might be a turn on for them because its incredibly humiliating for them...but if it in any way, shape or form was because it made the female seem more powerful to them..why does a woman wearing a fake cock seem powerful? Maybe its pure kink, gender bending role play and not about the power dynamic at all.

At any rate, I suppose the reason I could see for a male submissive to accept sucking a strap-on but not a real cock is because he isn't gay.



icarus37 -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 3:31:16 PM)

This are interesting variations among male subs on this matter. But I think there may be two major groups: Some male subs will be drawn to the physical/sexual aspects of sucking a dildo or a cock - while for others the appeal of either is primarily psychological.

Of those who simply like sexual sucking - their interest in the real thing probably depends on whether or not they are 'genuinely' bi.  If they are straight, they may only like sucking on the dildo because they think of it as the woman's cock - as if she had one.

Of those interested in psychological aspects of sucking - their willingness to suck a real cock probably depends mostly on the relationship in question and their emotions toward the woman.

I have sucked dildos but don't really like it in and of itself.  I have not yet sucked a cock but have thought about it in the context of submission to a couple.  But - with a few exceptions - I'm not sexually attracted to most men. So my desire would come mostly from how I felt about the woman and I don't think I would suck a man by himself.

To illustrate: ... A few years ago, I came out to a former girlfriend of mine who is now married to someone else.  It turns out that she is pure, 100 %, straight up double-scoop vanilla.  At the time, I was still hopelessly in love with her - and I still have very strong feelings for her now.

I don't really like her husband, but I think I'd get down on my knees and suck his cock any time and (almost) anywhere because - at least in my mind - it would bring me closer to her.  I would expect the experience to be physically challenging and contrary to most of basic nature.  But the emotional reward would be my feeling of closeness with her - and my message to her: this is how much I love you.

patrick



TeeGO -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 3:38:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: icarus37

This are interesting variations among male subs on this matter. But I think there may be two major groups: Some male subs will be drawn to the physical/sexual aspects of sucking a dildo or a cock - while for others the appeal of either is primarily psychological.

Let's make that three major groups.  The third being forced Bi is a hard limit.  Thankyouverymuch.



Lordandmaster -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (4/9/2006 5:50:30 PM)

This is the kind of comment I'll just never understand.  How can you be pleasing her strap-on?  Her strap-on is an inanimate object.  Pleasing her (psychologically) by sucking on her strap-on--sure, that I can understand.  Pleasing a phallus-shaped silicone object attached to a leather belt?  That's not within the realm of my imagination.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Taik

Since senpai first introduced me to her strap-on I found I don't think of real cocks any more, I am very happy to please her and her strap-on



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