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camille65 -> RE: Forced Bi? (1/31/2010 10:31:31 PM)

If she ever brings it up then you can mention that you read something about it somewhere. Just file it in the back of your mind. Yes it can be a touchy subject for a lot of different reasons, everyone espouses total communication but sometimes that communication is hard or hasn't happened yet!

Another place you may find some good answers are over in the Ask A Mistress forum, do some reading of older threads there because I'm sure there are some women there with the knowledge.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 4:27:19 AM)

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I have never heard of a "fuckerware party", that's such a silly name! I'd be afraid to let a bunch of strangers into my house, I can't imagine how you do it! I'd be watching everyone, seeing if anyone tried to pocket a book or something.


A clarification: Yes the name is silly and it comes from the name of Tupperware parties... but I think you are too young to remember those. Anyhow, never did I suggest you have one at your house in fact I suggested that you find public ones. You could go to a public one at your local college or university's LGBT association. There are some in Montreal all the time with the LGBT community and no one there is over 25.

Just a thought.

- LA



cloudboy -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:41:18 AM)

Some women like this from what I have seen in the posting record. Don't be discouraged by others making fun / beating up on you -- or mockingly desconstructing your desires. There was also a monster thread on this subject posted in the Ask a Mistress Section. You might want to check that out as a background.



Andalusite -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 8:34:01 AM)

I hope the two of you enjoy shopping together, and find a few things that help spark her interest. It sounds like there are a lot of medical very genuine reasons for her libido to be affected. Perhaps try initiating only things other than vaginal sex for a little while might help - even if she enjoys the pain, it can be cumulative, and hurt more than she likes if she does it more than once a week. The strap-on play is a good alternative activity, and there are so many other options to explore! I know you're primarily asking about the forced bi play, but pampering her and trying to find things she enjoys (even if she doesn't orgasm) sounds like it should be the priority.



GiveandGive -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 10:02:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

I hope the two of you enjoy shopping together, and find a few things that help spark her interest. It sounds like there are a lot of medical very genuine reasons for her libido to be affected. Perhaps try initiating only things other than vaginal sex for a little while might help - even if she enjoys the pain, it can be cumulative, and hurt more than she likes if she does it more than once a week. The strap-on play is a good alternative activity, and there are so many other options to explore! I know you're primarily asking about the forced bi play, but pampering her and trying to find things she enjoys (even if she doesn't orgasm) sounds like it should be the priority.


We don't actually have vaginal sex too often... Maybe once a month? Sometimes less? Usually it's just oral, or giving each other massages. Tonight, I guess it will be something different. She really enjoys breastplay, she gets off on having a lot of pressure on her chest, or things being hit on them, so we do that a lot.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

A clarification: Yes the name is silly and it comes from the name of Tupperware parties... but I think you are too young to remember those. Anyhow, never did I suggest you have one at your house in fact I suggested that you find public ones. You could go to a public one at your local college or university's LGBT association. There are some in Montreal all the time with the LGBT community and no one there is over 25.

Just a thought.

- LA


Oh yeah, I understood where it came from. It's still a silly title to adapt! I guess if we hear about one, we might check it out!



LillyoftheVally -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 10:24:58 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

Age play seems a bit creepy to me, but that's just in theory. I've never seen anyone do anything, but to the very unexperienced me, age play seems like a legal pedophilia. Although, people who are into that may not see why my fantasies are appealing either, so it really doesn't matter.


Woah I cant believe how brushed over this part was, firstly legal pedophilia is an oxymoron, and to use your own phrasing, I am sure that people who do or have engage/d in it wouldnt want to associate with someone so uptight so it probably works out well for us too.




LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 1:07:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Some women like this from what I have seen in the posting record. Don't be discouraged by others making fun / beating up on you -- or mockingly desconstructing your desires. There was also a monster thread on this subject posted in the Ask a Mistress Section. You might want to check that out as a background.


Funny thing cloudboy, no one made fun of him, no one beat up on him, no one mocked his desires. All this was going on in your head.

- LA



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 1:10:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally


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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

Age play seems a bit creepy to me, but that's just in theory. I've never seen anyone do anything, but to the very unexperienced me, age play seems like a legal pedophilia. Although, people who are into that may not see why my fantasies are appealing either, so it really doesn't matter.


Woah I cant believe how brushed over this part was, firstly legal pedophilia is an oxymoron, and to use your own phrasing, I am sure that people who do or have engage/d in it wouldnt want to associate with someone so uptight so it probably works out well for us too.




Lilly, he's young and learning. This was already explained to him in the post right under it. :-)

- LA



cloudboy -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 3:00:50 PM)

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Funny thing cloudboy, no one made fun of him, no one beat up on him, no one mocked his desires. All this was going on in your head.


You are right, people have been evenhanded.



GiveandGive -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 3:43:12 PM)

Alright. We went to the store and got a strap-on. We won't be using it tonight, as she got called into work :(

Honestly though... it's a bit big. It's the one that she picked out, because it has a vibrating thingy on the female's side. I told her that I thought it would be too big, but she went for it anyways [X(]

It's this one:
http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/strap-on-vibrators/bettys-jelly-bumble-bee

Also got a big bottle of lube, and I felt so awkward ringing it up with her.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 3:51:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive
I told her that I thought it would be too big, but she went for it anyways


Sounds like she's got a little sadist/domme in her ;-)

- LA



GiveandGive -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 3:55:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive
I told her that I thought it would be too big, but she went for it anyways


Sounds like she's got a little sadist/domme in her ;-)

- LA


I think it was mostly because we were in there for like an hour and a half, and she just wanted to go. There were other ones, all of them were 6 inches and a lot less thick than this, but none of them vibrated.



domiguy -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 4:42:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda


If you're looking for understanding, you're on the wrong board. There's not a lot of that here. Sorry. You'll find some, but probably not as much as you were hoping for. It's not as much fun as being snarky and judgmental.

And no, I'm not talking about everyone in this thread. I think the people I am talking about know who's who. OP, good luck, both in finding the answers you're looking for and in finding a forum that's not as cliquish and condescending as this one.



op you should also realize that between the snarks and judgemental comments is some good advice.  Advice doesn't have to be blown out of a cuddly baby panda's ass to have worth.

So listen up you cocksucker,  if you need the push of another to get your lips down on that shaft then you probably should be able to find out here a chick that would get off on that kind of a scenario.

It probably makes you feel a tad bit less homoish if for some reason you feel like you were "forced" to take on the dick by a 5'4" 130 pound chick.

I wish you well on your cum laden path.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 4:47:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Advice doesn't have to be blown out of a cuddly baby panda's ass to have worth.


Exactly. I have to admit the Panda was a bit of a buzzkill on that one. But his little fart was slightly more lovely the odour of the spew of a Domiguy.

GiveandGive, meet Domiguy, the board's very own pet clown.

- LA



GiveandGive -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 4:53:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

It probably makes you feel a tad bit less homoish if for some reason you feel like you were "forced" to take on the dick by a 5'4" 130 pound chick.



Actually, she's 5'1, and 105 pounds. But close!



domiguy -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:07:00 PM)

Ah hah!!!  You fuckers think you have to talk all sweet and shit to get through to a boy and his ferret? 

I cut through the shit and nine out of nine times I get to the fucking heart of the matter.

While you fucks tend to all mamby pamby about, I see a fucker as a fucker and I see a young boy and a ferret who needed my assistance and council.

This fucker, (no offense ferret boy) doesn't want to go and "gay out" all on his own....he wants to be pushed into his cock lust by his lil' chica.  He feels it is way less homoish.

I feel the pain of the little people and respond in a way that you fuckers simply seem to be incapable of.  I am only here to help.

A clown??? Hey, I have a sense of humor....And I also give a shit load of spot on advice that you fuckers couldn't come up with if you operated off the collective brain power of every fucking domme on this site.

It ain't easy being me. 

GiveandGive...Good luck to you and your pursuits.

Are you "give" or are both you and the ferret named "give?"...hence "giveandgive."



GiveandGive -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:11:47 PM)

Oh, no. I'd suck a dick without her there, it's just much more hot for her to be there and giving me orders. I don't really care for the guy attached to the dick, however. Which is why I'm interested in gloryholes, but I'll never use one, because they're way too dangerous, and it isn't worth catching anything just to have a dick in my mouth.

And no, my username should be "GiveandGiveandGive", but there wasn't enough space for it. It's just a line from a song that I picked randomly when I was looking for a username that didn't have anything to do with my usual screennames. I use this name on website that I don't want associated with my friends, as some of them would not be accepting of the stuff that I'm into.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:12:56 PM)

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A clown??? Hey, I have a sense of humor....And I also give a shit load of spot on advice that you fuckers couldn't come up with if you operated off the collective brain power of every fucking domme on this site.


I'm glad you think so highly of yourself. I'm not sure CM has much bandwidth left after that gigantic display of your ego.

- LA



domiguy -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:17:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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A clown??? Hey, I have a sense of humor....And I also give a shit load of spot on advice that you fuckers couldn't come up with if you operated off the collective brain power of every fucking domme on this site.


I'm glad you think so highly of yourself. I'm not sure CM has much bandwidth left after that gigantic display of your ego.

- LA


Go away silly lil' domme. You have been bested.  Please avoid the sure fire embarrassment and anguish that are sure to head your way if you think you can pull punches with the master.

My path is littered with the chunks of chicks like you.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi? (2/1/2010 5:18:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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A clown??? Hey, I have a sense of humor....And I also give a shit load of spot on advice that you fuckers couldn't come up with if you operated off the collective brain power of every fucking domme on this site.


I'm glad you think so highly of yourself. I'm not sure CM has much bandwidth left after that gigantic display of your ego.

- LA


Go away silly lil' domme. You have been bested.  Please avoid the sure fire embarrasment and anguish that are heading your way if you think you can pull punches with the master.

My path is littered with the chunks of chicks like you.

Again, I'm glad you think so highly of yourself. I actually think you are so full of yourself that you are quite empty.

- LA



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