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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 9:05:27 PM   
ElanSubdued


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Good Lord.  You continue to demonstrate such misogynistic and, for that matter, utterly misanthropistic views.  Your vile language and continued insults (directed at Lady Angelika and dommes in general) make anything you say hard to take with any seriousness.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 9:16:07 PM   
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There is a huge difference between your girlfriend giving you permission to post her picture on everyday, social networking sites and you extending this to BDSM sites.  If an associate of your girlfriend identifies her on this site, this could affect her family, employment, school programs, etc.  If your girlfriend wishes to take this risk and manage it, that's for her to decide, not you.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 9:28:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Or, failing a smaller strap on, you might be interested in some smaller anal plugs.  These can be fun while you're still in the oral stage for the 'big boy' and used for the actual anal play.  (Though I don't blame her for wanting a strap on with a vibe at the base.  Very yummy!  I love Mine!)

Like anything else, you have to work up to these things.


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:08:30 PM   
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Or, failing a smaller strap on, you might be interested in some smaller anal plugs.  These can be fun while you're still in the oral stage for the 'big boy' and used for the actual anal play.  (Though I don't blame her for wanting a strap on with a vibe at the base.  Very yummy!  I love Mine!)

Like anything else, you have to work up to these things.



We don't really want to spend too much money on this. I know that a big part of this is buying new toys, but we're really poor. The one that we bought cost us 30 dollars, and that was pushing it.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:16:51 PM   
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Frankly, if there is no gun to your head, it is not "forced." 

Further. . .  you say that you have been interested in this.  I would suggest setting up a threesome.  It is not that difficult. 

Yeah I've always had an issue with the term forced in a consensual relationship. Until we bring back actual slavery to the law books or as you put it..Threaten a life..I've gotta laugh when I see that term used in this arena.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:28:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Frankly, if there is no gun to your head, it is not "forced." 

Further. . .  you say that you have been interested in this.  I would suggest setting up a threesome.  It is not that difficult. 

Yeah I've always had an issue with the term forced in a consensual relationship. Until we bring back actual slavery to the law books or as you put it..Threaten a life..I've gotta laugh when I see that term used in this arena.


But yet you're fine with the term "Slave" being a term that is used? Yeah, okay Neo.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:32:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Frankly, if there is no gun to your head, it is not "forced." 

Further. . .  you say that you have been interested in this.  I would suggest setting up a threesome.  It is not that difficult. 

Yeah I've always had an issue with the term forced in a consensual relationship. Until we bring back actual slavery to the law books or as you put it..Threaten a life..I've gotta laugh when I see that term used in this arena.


But yet you're fine with the term "Slave" being a term that is used? Yeah, okay Neo.


Well it depends on who's calling themselves that. I look for the female that pushes as close to the definition as you can get...How bout you..Do you pretend not to like it as much as possible so everyone will believe it?


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:45:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		You know, women come on this site all of the time to discuss rape fantasies.  That isn't really 'forced' either (not in the real sense of the word).  Yet, for many females, the idea of having no control of their sexual activities is a huge turn on.  Why is it when a male has a fantasy of being 'forced', everybody flips out?

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:48:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not flippin..If it's fantasy it's fantasy..I was just laughin at the term.

I have seen people who believed that they were forced though and it's funny to me. I took the red pill a long time ago...


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:52:59 PM   
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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:55:55 PM   
Icarys


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What about every other kink? Ageplay isn't real. A strap-on isn't a real dick.

What about it? I don't do either so no they aren't real to me.


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/1/2010 11:58:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

What about every other kink? Ageplay isn't real. A strap-on isn't a real dick.

What about it? I don't do either so no they aren't real to me.



Missionary position is extremely kinky.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:02:26 AM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

What about every other kink? Ageplay isn't real. A strap-on isn't a real dick.

What about it? I don't do either so no they aren't real to me.



Missionary position is extremely kinky.


Did you get upset cause I laughed at a term you like? I just don't get into play acting..not my cup of tea. It's just silly to me. If you enjoy it go for it. Take one for the team..swallow that blue pill! Yes missionary can be kinky as well.


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:11:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: GiveandGive

What about every other kink? Ageplay isn't real. A strap-on isn't a real dick.

What about it? I don't do either so no they aren't real to me.



Missionary position is extremely kinky.


Did you get upset cause I laughed at a term you like? I just don't get into play acting..not my cup of tea. It's just silly to me. If you enjoy it go for it. Take one for the team..swallow that blue pill! Yes missionary can be kinky as well.



No, I just find it weird that you're going into a thread just to complain about... everything.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:19:25 AM   
Icarys


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Status: offline 		I think you have me confused with someone who actually cares about this topic. I was just passing by and saw Aylees comment and posted on it..if you got your feathers ruffled because someone laughed at something you like and you somehow took that as an attack on everything you find holy..suck it up. You posted that it was fantasy..I posted that if you enjoy it go for it..Let it go and take a deep breathe.


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:24:13 AM   
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I think you have me confused with someone who actually cares about this topic.



Cool justification bro.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:30:11 AM   
Icarys


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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:31:11 AM   
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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 12:59:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Yeah I've always had an issue with the term forced in a consensual relationship. Until we bring back actual slavery to the law books or as you put it..Threaten a life..I've gotta laugh when I see that term used in this arena.

While debating the linguistic applicability of the term brings up a valid point (that many 'forced' elements of BDSM play are not actually possible unless there was specifically a lack of consent), I find that following it up by "laughing" rather than engaging the whys on the issue is an apathetic and passively harassing way to respond.

And then, to figuratively raise one hands abruptly in a show of non-guilt for making a comment you knew was coupled with an underlying jab when the person it's directed to becomes bothered by it is awfully disingenuous.

There are logically flimsy things that everyone believes in. I suspect, for instance, me snickering at someone wholeheartedly espousing the concept of a spiritual afterlife (in a thread that a believer has started to get feedback on it, no less) would be met in a much different manner.

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RE: Forced Bi? - 2/2/2010 1:00:21 AM   
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if you got your feathers ruffled because someone laughed at something you like...suck it up.

I don't recall this being emblematic of the attitude I remember you having at all.


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