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MistressOmega -> Financial Domination? (1/31/2010 9:25:16 PM)
What are your thoughts on financial domination.....

LadyPact -> RE: Financial Domination? (1/31/2010 11:46:47 PM)
It's not My particular kink. Some people are into it. I'm just not one of them.

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Financial Domination? (1/31/2010 11:59:04 PM)
It's a valid form of domination provided that the person is upfront about it. I think it takes many forms and some people lump it all under one category. Since I'm looking for a slave, that to me means that once I own them, I own everything about them. I control how their finances are handled. However, I'm not the type of person who does sessions for pay, or expects to get to know someone based on their wallet. Yet all are different methods of financial domination.

SolangeRichards -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 5:07:05 AM)
I know the topic appears often in the profiles of Dominant Women on this and many other sites, but after visiting virtually every transgender chat room in the English speaking world, after receiving thousands of emails from submissive men across the planet, I have yet to run across a sub that told me that he/she really orgasms when someone drains his/her wallet. I'm not saying it's not a valid interest. I'm not saying subs into this don't exist. I'm just saying that I think unicorn hunting is a better use of time than seeking a financial sub. Now, there are any number of Pro-Dommes out there that specialize in wallet draining, and they consider themselves FinDommes. OK, but really, aren't they actually selling relationships rather than a just straight up "You pay, You cum" sort of kink? I mean, these guys sending tributes to someone they don't know and buying her clothing etc, they really think they have a relationship going with that person. That's why they are sending the cash. I doubt they are sending it because the act of sending it was what was floating their boat. Think that through. If a guy was cumming because he needed to send his money to a faraway dominant presence with an insatiable need for his cash couldn't he just join the United Way and get his nut off with every weekly deduction? Little League tag sales? Dispensing dollar bills to hobos? If dumping cash was what got him off think of the joy he would be in with every visit to the 7-11 and those glorious collection cans for the March of Dimes! Would he even need to prowl the web seeking Dommes to enable his rather exotic sexuality? It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe....

Lucienne -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 8:00:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards Think that through. If a guy was cumming because he needed to send his money to a faraway dominant presence with an insatiable need for his cash couldn't he just join the United Way and get his nut off with every weekly deduction? ... It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe.... I thought it through and came to pretty much the same conclusions as you have. With an additional suspicion that for some guys the "tribute" (or whatever money-draining mechanism was used) acts as a sort of emotional insurance, so that if/when things end badly they can write the Domme off as a money-grubbing whore.

BreathandStone -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 8:24:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards I mean, these guys sending tributes to someone they don't know and buying her clothing etc, they really think they have a relationship going with that person. That's why they are sending the cash. I doubt they are sending it because the act of sending it was what was floating their boat. quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe.... Yes and no. I've talked to and been sent money by someone who genuinely got off on the financial aspect of it. Several months after the last time we spoke, he still sends me emails begging me to let him use his paypal account for me. (It was an interesting experience, but he was way too intense for me.) I think that the financial kink is legitimate, and the existence of people willing to pay straight-up financial dommes seem to support this. I suspect that giving to a financial domme is similar to visiting a pro domme in some senses - some are happy to get their fetish fulfilled without the obligation of a relationship, but some crave more of a personal connection than they're getting.

MmeRegineSybille -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 9:30:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOmega What are your thoughts on financial domination..... It is My preferred use of male slaves.......I have been able to make very good use of the money and gifts to support a cause that is very important to My heart.......a safe place for Women and their children......to help them recover from abuse and neglect from men.......this last year one dear man even helped with new kitchen appliances........ I do not need it for Myself.......though a select few get the option to purchase Me more personal gifts...........after they have proven themselves with My charity.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 9:58:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards I know the topic appears often in the profiles of Dominant Women on this and many other sites, but after visiting virtually every transgender chat room in the English speaking world, after receiving thousands of emails from submissive men across the planet, I have yet to run across a sub that told me that he/she really orgasms when someone drains his/her wallet. I'm not saying it's not a valid interest. I'm not saying subs into this don't exist. I'm just saying that I think unicorn hunting is a better use of time than seeking a financial sub. Now, there are any number of Pro-Dommes out there that specialize in wallet draining, and they consider themselves FinDommes. OK, but really, aren't they actually selling relationships rather than a just straight up "You pay, You cum" sort of kink? I mean, these guys sending tributes to someone they don't know and buying her clothing etc, they really think they have a relationship going with that person. That's why they are sending the cash. I doubt they are sending it because the act of sending it was what was floating their boat. Think that through. If a guy was cumming because he needed to send his money to a faraway dominant presence with an insatiable need for his cash couldn't he just join the United Way and get his nut off with every weekly deduction? Little League tag sales? Dispensing dollar bills to hobos? If dumping cash was what got him off think of the joy he would be in with every visit to the 7-11 and those glorious collection cans for the March of Dimes! Would he even need to prowl the web seeking Dommes to enable his rather exotic sexuality? It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe.... I had a guy call one of my vanilla listings, and start off by telling me to set my price higher and to tell him to call me back and hang up on him. We did that several times until we got to $25. per minute. Then we talked for a lonnnng time. He asked me to masturbate (which I pretended to do) and to tell him how wet it made me to think of losers like him just giving me all their money, and to tell him what I really thought of guys like him. So he was into financial "domination" and humiliation. It worked for him and it worked for me! In the pso world he is what you call a "whale". They are few and far between. But I've seen more of them than the elusive unicorn...

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 11:54:38 AM)
Thank you .. Ive gotten allot of interesting feed back. Its something allot of slaves ask me for but Im more into real time interaction and epending on chemistry if I keep them as a slave. Yet these slaves are coming to me for this financial domination... Very intruging position. Thank you Lady Pact quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact It's not My particular kink. Some people are into it. I'm just not one of them.

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 11:57:38 AM)
Hello! I must agree I prefer to know some one on a personal level and not just taking monney from some one I dont really even know the pyschological reasons they are in need of such a desire. Thank you!

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:02:40 PM)
Hello! I do agree its not my thing but they approach me constantly for this type of fetish, so far I have not pursued it but at the same time denying them what they are requesting seems like denying a slave a seriuuos inquiry? Thank you.. quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards I know the topic appears often in the profiles of Dominant Women on this and many other sites, but after visiting virtually every transgender chat room in the English speaking world, after receiving thousands of emails from submissive men across the planet, I have yet to run across a sub that told me that he/she really orgasms when someone drains his/her wallet. I'm not saying it's not a valid interest. I'm not saying subs into this don't exist. I'm just saying that I think unicorn hunting is a better use of time than seeking a financial sub. Now, there are any number of Pro-Dommes out there that specialize in wallet draining, and they consider themselves FinDommes. OK, but really, aren't they actually selling relationships rather than a just straight up "You pay, You cum" sort of kink? I mean, these guys sending tributes to someone they don't know and buying her clothing etc, they really think they have a relationship going with that person. That's why they are sending the cash. I doubt they are sending it because the act of sending it was what was floating their boat. Think that through. If a guy was cumming because he needed to send his money to a faraway dominant presence with an insatiable need for his cash couldn't he just join the United Way and get his nut off with every weekly deduction? Little League tag sales? Dispensing dollar bills to hobos? If dumping cash was what got him off think of the joy he would be in with every visit to the 7-11 and those glorious collection cans for the March of Dimes! Would he even need to prowl the web seeking Dommes to enable his rather exotic sexuality? It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe....

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:05:04 PM)
Hello! I must agree I prefer to know some one on a personal level and not just taking monney from some one I dont really even know the pyschological reasons they are in need of such a desire. Thank you! quote: ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz It's a valid form of domination provided that the person is upfront about it. I think it takes many forms and some people lump it all under one category. Since I'm looking for a slave, that to me means that once I own them, I own everything about them. I control how their finances are handled. However, I'm not the type of person who does sessions for pay, or expects to get to know someone based on their wallet. Yet all are different methods of financial domination.

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:10:23 PM)
Wow.. I guess if they write a Mistres off as a money grubbing whore perhaps they should not contact her and repeatedly ask for such domination... it appears as if some one that flip flops like that is either a SAM or mentally disturbed and needs proffessional help that a Mistress that is not a licensed psychiatrist cannot help with such disorders. Thank you... quote: ORIGINAL: Lucienne quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards Think that through. If a guy was cumming because he needed to send his money to a faraway dominant presence with an insatiable need for his cash couldn't he just join the United Way and get his nut off with every weekly deduction? ... It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe.... I thought it through and came to pretty much the same conclusions as you have. With an additional suspicion that for some guys the "tribute" (or whatever money-draining mechanism was used) acts as a sort of emotional insurance, so that if/when things end badly they can write the Domme off as a money-grubbing whore.

MmeRegineSybille -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:15:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOmega Hello! I do agree its not my thing but they approach me constantly for this type of fetish, so far I have not pursued it but at the same time denying them what they are requesting seems like denying a slave a seriuuos inquiry? Thank you.. One must understand that most of the men that say they wish to serve in this way do not actually follow through without feeling they are getting something of greater value in return........whether it be a session in person, on webcam, photographs of the Domina nude or serving their specific fetish, a phone chat for them to masterbate to.........something.............what is ultimately hysterical is if they do not get what they want..........they will call You a whore............because You did not serve their fantasy. My very good money slaves are treasures........several I have visited and spent time with........allowing them to serve Me in person.......they are rare treasures and have been vital to the success of My project for Women......the joy for Me, is that in serving Me in this way, they are serving many Women through the project.

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:18:54 PM)
Hello! Yes I see both sides of your experience very clear as well as the intesity of their fueling need for you to use them more. I agree it would make me a bit nervous if it got beyond my realm of morals. Sometimes these men have an abundance of finacial stability and yes they do some how make a conection via mail, phone and finacial domination perhaps of the fact that they cannot afford to be seen visiting or serving a Mistress in person. I have had many slaves that must drive several cars, and serve after night fall so they are not seen ... Allot of high profile slaves must make this sacrafice unfortunantley. thank you! quote: ORIGINAL: BreathandStone quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards I mean, these guys sending tributes to someone they don't know and buying her clothing etc, they really think they have a relationship going with that person. That's why they are sending the cash. I doubt they are sending it because the act of sending it was what was floating their boat. quote: ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards It's the relationship those guys want, and they are so hungry for it they lose their good sense and start believing whatever they want to believe.... Yes and no. I've talked to and been sent money by someone who genuinely got off on the financial aspect of it. Several months after the last time we spoke, he still sends me emails begging me to let him use his paypal account for me. (It was an interesting experience, but he was way too intense for me.) I think that the financial kink is legitimate, and the existence of people willing to pay straight-up financial dommes seem to support this. I suspect that giving to a financial domme is similar to visiting a pro domme in some senses - some are happy to get their fetish fulfilled without the obligation of a relationship, but some crave more of a personal connection than they're getting.

MistressOmega -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:24:07 PM)
Hello! It sounds as though you have a very productive and positive project that you utilize financial slaves and you care for them in proper context. You sound like a beautiful person inside and outside. Bless you in your wonderful quest for helping women and children! Sincerely Omega quote: ORIGINAL: MmeRegineSybille quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOmega What are your thoughts on financial domination..... It is My preferred use of male slaves.......I have been able to make very good use of the money and gifts to support a cause that is very important to My heart.......a safe place for Women and their children......to help them recover from abuse and neglect from men.......this last year one dear man even helped with new kitchen appliances........ I do not need it for Myself.......though a select few get the option to purchase Me more personal gifts...........after they have proven themselves with My charity.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 12:40:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOmega What are your thoughts on financial domination..... I think a lot of women get into it expecting easy money, whereas in reality it is a lot of work to generate a sporadic client base, with significant legal downside if things break bad.

onlyme32111 -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/1/2010 4:27:53 PM)
FD is fine. It's a kink some people get off on. Men find something erotic about being seduced by a beautiful man-eater. Or the fetish for the Humiliatrix - which is akin to the feeling a young boy in high school gets when the pretty girl in class is mean to him.

MmeRegineSybille -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/2/2010 6:11:28 AM)
Inside I am not beautiful............not at all..........I simply enjoy using men and making them pay for the evils of other men........it gives Me great pleasure to see the fruit of it.

Ladynslave -> RE: Financial Domination? (2/2/2010 1:12:33 PM)
In my household, I control the finances, but I wouldn't and couldn't drain anyone's wallet. I simply make sure all the bills are paid, savings are added to and decide when we can afford and deserve a "splurge" be it a vacation or a new piece of equipment or toys. I want to make sure we are all progressing forward financially as a happy household. Never would I want the possibility that a slave could accuse me of using him just for his money. Not that I could even with a slave that wanted me to do so. I would always have a nest egg set aside for him should things not work out.

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