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Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 3:46:09 PM

sexxxstarved69

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Hi. I'm a newbie, and I'm looking for a slave. Any suggestions on how to start?

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 3:47:52 PM

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Welcome.

Change your username. Serious answer. If you don't understand why your current name is babe anti-matter, post again, and I am sure some women will be happy to explain it to you.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 3:49:13 PM

Jeffff

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Or just come out and say, I am here for the kinky sex. the honestly might be appreciated.

Jeff

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 4:05:59 PM

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Welcome to the boards.

If I were you. I'd start by adding a snappy sig line to your online persona . . . something like "have cock, will travel"

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 4:08:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Or just come out and say, I am here for the kinky sex. the honestly might be appreciated.

Jeff

He said just that in his profile.

OP, RedMagic1 is right....change is a good thing.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 4:41:48 PM

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OP, this isn't directed just to you, but to people who come to bdsm boards in general:

Just because a person identifies as kinky, does not NECESSARILY make them easy, and it does not NECESSARILY mean they don't have values and/or morals.

Some of us *are* easy, some of us are morally repugnant as well (not necessarily the same people at all)

But the best way to find what you are looking for here, just as in a "normal" site, is to be a decent and interesting person and take the time to get to know people as *who* rather than *what* they are.

/hi-jack

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 4:53:09 PM

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OP, with all due respect, you are nowhere near ready to have a slave. Or a submissive either.

The first thing you should do is to attend munches and groups local to you. Get to know some of the more respected Doms and ask yourself if you could be like them.

Along the way, you'll discover that there's more to the lifestyle than kinky sex. If you;re lucky, you'll discover a lot about yourself as well.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 5:16:53 PM

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It's just tellin someone what to do, how hard could that be.

I hear the slave trade in the Congo is still flourishing.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 5:41:43 PM

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As a slave, may i suggest that it appears that you are seeking more of a "submissive kinky sex partner to tie up and control?" At least from reading your profile.

If you are ready to begin the process of becoming an Owner/Master, i do suggest as others have said visit local groups, munches, read, lurk on the forums, learn, learn, learn.....and at 18 perhaps consider finding a Master to mentor you? It's a good way to gain experience and learn "on the job," so to speak.

Ownership is a huge responsibility. i wish you the best in whatever your search ultimately ends up to be.

Oh, and yes, the profile name......i wouldn't respond to "sexxxstarved69", no matter what your email to me might say. But then i may not be a member of your target audience.....

< Message edited by UniqueRaven -- 2/1/2010 5:42:08 PM >

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 5:43:08 PM

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I'd start with what DS said about gaining knowledge as a Dominant if that is fact what you want and you're not just here thinking you'll get free sex. You won't get far if you do think that the women here (or anywhere) will just screw you because you want it. Women generally want some kind of a relationship not just to fuck. So figure out what to do with a slave girl in real life - as a young Dom you're going to need to show a potential slave that you know what you are doing.

After that I'd look at your profile as the next place to go. Women aren't men, we don't go for the same things that men do. Saying that you're horny and are tired of being refused for sex is not going to net you very many women at all. We don't really care what you want or need if we don't know you and there are always guys after us - we don't get refused for sex. I know you are young but try looking at things from a women's perspective and you might get somewhere.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 7:24:21 PM

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and by the way... we're women. Little FYI.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 7:29:28 PM

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Jeebus. What everyone else said, OP. Submissive does not automatically mean they will fuck you just because you want it, FFS.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 8:41:34 PM

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OP, let me warn you... there are a lot of scammers who will write to men and claim to be a beautiful slavegirl willing to do anything for their master and willing to relocate. You're exactly the kind of prey they would seek out.

Don't send money to anyone you meet online here, and don't believe a slave who falls for you upon reading your profile.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/1/2010 10:13:40 PM

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What DS meant to say is that there are lots of predators around and don't send money to anyone except for me! *I* am of course the perfect slave girl..but perfection comes at a price.

How much you ask?

Well....uhm...how much ya got?

No.

Seriously.

How much ya got?

*sigh*

It looks so easy in teh movies...

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/2/2010 12:20:09 AM

MargueriteV

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexxxstarved69

Hi. I'm a newbie, and I'm looking for a slave. Any suggestions on how to start?

Make a decent profile. If you messaged me I laugh at you.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/2/2010 6:08:04 AM

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Welcome, a good snappy ad and putting yourself about the site is always the best way to meet people.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/3/2010 2:06:00 AM

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Dude...as per your profile you are tired of being refused sex, so you are going the BDSM route to have it available to you any time you want it.

First of all. ask yourself why you are consistently refused.

Secondly...this is not a game where you slap a Master banner on your ass and strut around, cock first.

You have a great deal of maturing to do.

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/3/2010 9:00:17 AM

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Secondly...this is not a game where you slap a Master banner on your ass and strut around, cock first.

I dunno Holly, I see quite a few who do...

I keep telling them to shut the blinds, what will the neighbors say and such, but...you know how it is.

Don't ya?...

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/3/2010 9:05:28 AM

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Secondly...this is not a game where you slap a Master banner on your ass and strut around, cock first.

Pffft. We have nothing on our ass except impudent subbies.

The banner goes on the dick. It says '' Welcome to sunny California. Enjoy your visit"

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RE: Looking for girls - 2/3/2010 9:11:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Secondly...this is not a game where you slap a Master banner on your ass and strut around, cock first.

Pffft. We have nothing on our ass except impudent subbies.

The banner goes on the dick. It says '' Welcome to sunny California. Enjoy your visit"