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ValkeryieLover -> A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 8:03:56 PM)

Hello all,  Recently  I was turned away from a alternative club for not fitting the clothing profile. Normally i wouldn't give a damm what people think of how I dress. However I do want to get in the club and think it might be beneficial to find out What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.




HisFlame -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 8:25:41 PM)

Black shirt, black slacks and black boots or dress shoes are usually a safe bet and most men usually have those in their closet




Aylee -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 8:26:28 PM)

Do you have a link to the clothing profile of the club?  Or can you explain what it is? 

Other than that, black seems to be rather popular.




DarkSteven -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 8:55:04 PM)

Sheesh.  We don't know what the club's dress policy is.  Call the club and ask!




CalifChick -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:08:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali




sexyred1 -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:11:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

Hello all,  Recently  I was turned away from a alternative club for not fitting the clothing profile. Normally i wouldn't give a damm what people think of how I dress. However I do want to get in the club and think it might be beneficial to find out What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


I love your screename. You could go dressed as Thor; he was quite Dominant. But the bouncer may not be into Wagner. :)




DarkSteven -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:14:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali



I'm not sure what the right answer is, but I have found that Hello Kitty doesn't quite fill the bill.  [&o]




CalifChick -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:18:34 PM)

Perhaps not, but a nice fedora may do the trick.

Cali




WestBaySlave -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:21:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali



I'm not sure what the right answer is, but I have found that Hello Kitty doesn't quite fill the bill.  [&o]



You be wrong about that. [;)]




peppermint -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 9:27:09 PM)

You need to talk to someone at the club where you wish to go and find out what THEIR dress code is.  




Aileen1968 -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 11:00:44 PM)

Hawaiian shirts. All true dominants own Hawaiian shirts in bright tropical colors. They are never turned away.




LanceHughes -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 11:28:10 PM)

Zero words.  Just an arrow...






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pyroaquatic -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 11:29:20 PM)

what are these articles you speak of?




LanceHughes -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 11:31:25 PM)

It would help to know what was rejected.




LadyPact -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/1/2010 11:42:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

Zero words.  Just an arrow...






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I'll second that arrow, and I'll raise you a skirt.  <wink>

OP, every public BDSM club these days has a website.  This is a clear case of you didn't do your research.  Many clubs don't allow what is termed 'street clothes'.  (Fuck, I just dated Myself.)  In other words, if you look like you just wandered into the club from off of the street, and were a lookie loo kind of person, you're not getting in.  Some things that I have seen rejected at the door include flip flops, khaki shorts, cut offs (on males), cruddy t-shirts, and so on.

Clubs have a dress code for a reason.  It is to promote atmosphere for the attendees.  Next time, take a look at the website for the establishment before you go.



BTW, why was this posted in the submissive forum?




myotherself -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/2/2010 12:06:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact



BTW, why was this posted in the submissive forum?



cos we subs know everything?[8D]




WyldHrt -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/2/2010 12:25:04 AM)

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cos we subs know everything?[8D]

Hope you aren't within reach of her dragon's tongue, Myo! [:D]




antipode -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/2/2010 12:28:18 AM)

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I was turned away from a alternative club


I doubt it. I find it very you were right there and weren't told what was wrong. You probably have to be 21 to enter.




ForeverOwned -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/2/2010 1:07:09 AM)

We, have only one club here that i know of that has a strict dress code. We don't go, because it is filled with wanna be's and never was.

We, try to go to the places where the people are down to earth and everything is relaxed.




LanceHughes -> RE: A Question about clothes, (2/2/2010 6:44:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I was turned away from a alternative club


I doubt it. I find it very you were right there and weren't told what was wrong. You probably have to be 21 to enter.



BINGO!

Yes, when you say "alternate club," I bet you mean "BAR catering to the goth, etc. community."

"Dress codes" are not legal in Colorado....... wannabes ruined some of the best Leather Bars in Denver by forcing the issue.  Use ta' was - the general populace was afeared of even entering because of the rep of the bar (which was enhanced by doorman enforcing the dress code.)

END OF THREAD!
 
P.S.  Yeah.... why  is this in sub forum?  If you want to know "How to distinguish a Dom from a sub by clothing," start a diferrent thread, maybe in BDSM General.




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