|
ResidentSadist -> RE: Acid Test for True Dominants (2/2/2010 2:38:50 AM)
|
I failed the true test disastrously – I am a fake
I agree with opening statements. Submissives far outnumber Dominants (except in Nigeria), the world is full of snerts and you should know your goals. Good basic advice. However, after all these years experience, I just learned I am still not a true dominant. I am crushed. I just may ctrl+alt+del my cyber self. My frail ego is bruised and I need to go away and heal.
:)
-=Test Results=-
Passed
Test #1: When in doubt, throw it out! …
--- duh
Failed
Test #2: …Real Doms don't have to ask for titles, we earn them.
---Sir means gentleman and I use “sir” to address my waiter, barber, butcher, fellow Dominants etc. If a submissive doesn’t have the manners to address me with the same respect I address others, she can -just fuck off. The world is full of polite people who don’t feel their first impression on others should be rude until they judge whether someone has earned the right to be treated politely. That is the control freak, not the people who refuse to interact with “the free range rude*”.
*quoted Hannibal Lector
Failed
Test #3: "I want you to take my collar before you play with me." …
---Although I agree with the cyber collar comments, I am not a Top, so I rarely play with other peoples property. In real life, I try not commit prosecutable acts with anyone I don’t own because it is illegal to “strike”, “choke”, “cut”, “restrain”, “sodomize” or otherwise “torture” someone with “mediaeval torture instruments” like “whips” and “canes” and etc. I don't have a box of collars I pass out to freely trying to play with strangers but, in general, she will most likely have my symbol of intimate attachment "before you see me play with her".
Passed
Test #4: … Instant Message that says something like "On your knees you [slave, slut, bitch, whore, etc.]"…
--- lol
Passed
Test #5: "I don't have to answer that question!" or "It's not proper etiquette …
---In my world there is no privacy or secrets for either the Dom or sub.
Failed
Test #6: "It's my way or the highway!" …
---I run a democratic house where life’s goals are set by the mutual needs of subordinates and the Dominant. There is a system for subordinates to have a voice. However, in the small day to day business and choosing the path to reach our mutual goals, all suggestions welcome, no arguments accepted because in the end, it's my way or the highway.
Passed
Test #7: Don't bother with online collars…
I just don’t do online stuff other than cause trouble here at CollarMe.
Passed (sorta)
Test #8: Ask your prospect if he's ever made any mistakes during a scene. If he says "no," run for your life! If he says, "very rarely," at least be suspicious.
---There is a lot of edge play mixed in with typically safer BDSM acts. I can’t make mistakes or people would end up in the hospital. My “play” has to be inspired and often it is planned out in advance. Stories about my mistakes start with “25 years ago, there was this time I …”.
Failed
Test #9: "I'm a [bank president, captain of industry, self-made millionaire...]" …
---I think self-made millionaires should stay off free dating sites and get their slaves or submissive partners by referral like everyone else does. However, if they happen to meet someone at munch or on a free forum like CollarMe, it doesn’t stop them from being wealthy and powerful does it?
Everhope came to me as a nurse working two jobs to survive and driving a car she worth less than a grand. She is no longer working as a nurse. Now she is a corporate president, has a merchant banker, web site, online store and is working less than 2 hours a day to replace the income from one nursing jobs. This is all before we have launched the marketing campaign. Oh yeah, and now she drives a Cadillac.
Failed
Test #10: "I'm 33 years old, and I've been a Master for 15 years." Gimme a break! What are the odds?
---I am 54 years old and have been active in the lifestyle for 39 years. I was an alt lifestyle spokesperson at the age of 15 and was interviewed for local Detroit TV news specials. Recently, Lucivar was manager of The Quest dungeon in Tampa at the age of 21 because of his prior lifestyle experience. I guess this test doesn't allow for the TNG crowd of any era.
Passed
Test #11: Ask for references! Especially if he claims to be "very experienced."
---I come with references, including ex’s from 39 years ago that are still in my life as good friends today. I am a great guy and I can prove it. My history speaks for itself.
Passed
Test #12: "I have three real-life collared slaves right now, but you can't talk to them."
---LMAO. . . everhope even has a cage phone. Call her anytime.
Failed
Test #13: "I don't need safewords."
---Again, I am not a Top. I do a lot of edge play with people I know intimately. If I don’t know someone’s body language well enough, I shouldn’t be playing with them. Safewords… I have never had a partner ask for one so I have never had a call to use them.
Failed
Test #14: "My slaves trust me to set their limits for them."
---In the real world, everyone retains the right to refuse. My slaves are not with me to set boundaries. They are here to experience personal growth and expand boundaries. Having a slave set boundaries is like . . . well, it just doesn’t even make sense. Boundaries and expanding them are my job.
Passed
Test #15: "I'm married, my wife can't know about us" …
---OPP (other people’s property)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
To the OP. Thank you for the entertainment. That test was fun and gave me nostalgic feelings like I was back at CastleRealm or something. Awesome.
|
|
|
|
