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DemonKia -> February Roll Call (2/1/2010 11:11:14 PM)

February 2010.

It feels a little science-fiction-y, but that might just be me . .. [;)]

What's up, people?




pyroaquatic -> RE: February Roll Call (2/1/2010 11:16:25 PM)

ALIVE

*tackles*




LadyAngelika -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 4:32:54 AM)

Starts off with a head cold :-( A lot of work. A bit of school. A lot of work. A bit of school. A lot of work. A bit of school. Oh I'll be published author (not kink stuff, professional). A lot of work. A bit of school. :-)

- LA




MaamJay -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 4:49:04 AM)

I think I missed January somewhere ...

Well, we are now on the move in our big mobile home, travelling south in 2-day steps in Australia. The rainstorms are chasing us down the coast and caught up with us today, limiting the sightseeing! I'm also trying to get work done between the travels and I am wayyyy behind on My scrapbooking of photos! I did get to catch up with one sub in Brisbane with whom I had previously played and had a delightful session involving some new sensations for him. It was great to work My arm with a flogging and paddling to begin (which he was expecting), but then I finally got to try out the zipper Jewel made and sent all the way from USA to Me some time ago (thanks hon - it worked awesomely well across his chest and left very yummy marks!), then some suction cups, and finally a hog tie and some anal beads (he'd not experienced anything from the zipper onwards so he enjoyed all the new stuff a lot too). Then the silly boy urged Me to try the zipper on his scrotum ... I was kind and I didn't leave it on too long before pulling it off but oh, the look on his face and to see him bent over clutching himself was really quite funny!

Am hoping to catch up with other subs on our travels, but it does depend a lot on where we can find places to stay with a big rig and pets! We've had a few scrapes (literally!) as some caravan parks say they can take big rigs and then forget that they have very narrow gates ... or country stores have fuel pumps which are tight in around a corner where their verandah roof sticks out! Never a dull moment, but at least, for now, all is working! YAY! Please keep your fingers crossed for us that the next 2 months of travel gets us safely across the country!

Study-wise, well as it's been tennis season here (and cricket too!), I have rather sadly neglected My PhD work so have to get back to it full speed ahead. Was ahead anyway so no big deal right at the moment, but I should get an expanded version of chapter 1 to My supervisor in the next couple of weeks. Great, someone's actually asked Me to write more, not less!

Looking forward to checking back and finding out what everyone else has been up to!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]




thetammyjo -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 7:18:52 AM)

So busy.

Last day of a contest on my other blog (Final Day to Win Chocolate: http://thechocolatecult.blogspot.com/2010/01/win-wonderfully-unique-chocolates.html).

Working on a book with my slave that is due to the publisher by July 1, 2010.

Waiting to hear back from potential literary agent because I'm fed up with how I've been treated on a certain small press.

Running a monthly game that has heavy Ds dynamics in it.

More and more and more book reviews -- if only I got paid for them.

Need to finish these novels for the contest I'm one of the judges for. So far, not impressed by the one's I've read.

Exercising and hip finally seems to be at maybe 90%.




RumpusParable -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 9:46:33 AM)

Big month for me!

I have 4, total, play partners possible for sharps play (2 being new, 1 being my Chael, 1 one being a close friend here) for this month.

I have a potential slave moving here (for their own reasons, not a relocation bit) that I'm going to be meeting.

My Chael is coming home for his 2 week mid-deployment leave.

BoiJen and MsKitty will be in the area to visit with.

So it's an awesome and full month for me.  New friends, old friends, lots of play and some booty.  Yays!





LadyDelilahDeb -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 11:59:44 AM)

Oh, I'm glad January is over. It has taken with it this bloomin' bronchial cold, just in time for my biennial travels to Pantheacon (a different subculture but one with overlaps).

So, where am I? Happily cavorting with glanstat, now and again exercising my collar with confess673, and exploring the boundaries of a new boy and our experimental relationship.

And very happily pointing out the error of his ways to the do-me bottom (who imagines he's a sub) that had the audacity to trail his coat at me a year after he blocked my messages in the middle of *his* petitioned negotiations for a repeat weekend that suited his fantasies but not my interests several months before. Brat. I haven't bothered to block him; he hasn't had the cheek to reply to my factual and coldly polite response.

I'm looking forward heartily to KinkFest next month, and to tidying up some of the matters that have hung fire during probate of my mother's estate.

Lady Delilah Deb




sweetsub1957 -> RE: February Roll Call (2/2/2010 3:53:54 PM)

~Fast Reply~
I just received my locking neck chain (training collar) from my new Master.  ~smiling bigger n shit!!!~  Hopefully in a few months, I will be moving. 

Other than that, I just got out of 3 1/2 days in the hospital from a nasty infection I got from a bug bite.  Now I'm feeling much better & hope to Goddess I never see another one of those bugs again!!




Madame4a -> RE: February Roll Call (2/3/2010 2:34:49 PM)

Mmmm.. its been ages since I've checked in and I'm not sure where I left off... quickly, I'm almost a year into a relationship that is fulfilling... making me happy.. satisfying.. and dare I say it... might be it... I put a collar around her neck in August... although we started to see one another in March of last year.

She's a wonderful boy.. an amazingly romantic and loving butch and a girlfriend I never thought I'd have... we're on the edge (well.. maybe its less vague than that) of moving in.. we've set a date, although she'd like it to happen sooner... but it looks like August right now, although it could change to May -- we'll see.

We're busy busy... we took several motorcycle trips last summer and fall -- unfortunately its been too cold and snowy to do much of anything around here.

I too have started the month with a rotten cold.

I'm in love... and amazingly blessed.. I hope all are well...

and edited to add... I went back and looked and I did post in June... interesting time that... and I've lost about 15 pounds over the last 8 months... and I'm quite happy about that..




DemonKia -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 2:52:48 AM)

Guess I should answer the call, lol . . . .

I'm dating these days, officially out of mourning, being active, stirring around . . . . Meeting new people for coffee, haven't done that in a coupla years. Strictly expecting / looking for 'friends' this time around, lol . . . . & mostly I 'use' munches as screening tools, only going out with those who go to munches & etc. Since I ultimately want partners who'll go to munches & play parties & etc, it's a criteria that makes sense for me . . .. . .

It's weird, dating is, tho' I think I'm getting better at it. More efficient, at least, & somewhat more fearless about it. Anxiety-provoking it is, but I'm getting a little braver, too, lol . . . .

I'm going to at least a coupla play parties & a coupla munches a month, tho' I'm increasingly less goal-oriented about the whole thing, paradoxically. I like the hanging out, the schmoozing, the socializing as much or more than the whole dating / relationship-seeking thing . . . .

February will be way hecka frantically social. 2 or 3 parties in Sac, plus I'm spending a long weekend at a friend's place in the Bay & we're gonna hit a class, two play parties, & a coupla munches while I'm down there (which will make for a total of at least 3 or 4 munches for the month.) I'm actually trying not to think about it too much cuz it kinda over-whelms me, lol .. . ..

The rest of my life is moving along, slow as molasses in Feb, but that's how I best roll, lol . . . .




SweetDommes -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 3:09:00 AM)

I have no social life, even with Holly and rob these days. I work every freaking weekend for the next 5 weeks, and I've already worked the last 3 weekends. Lost a family member a few days back (he was 88, it wasn't really a surprise, but it still hurts), and have just been slowly losing my mind over the last few days. Thought we had a boy who would fit in with our family - and of course, he vanishes on us. I don't think I'm going to look for a bit, as I'm rather vulnerable at the moment ... Holly can take over for a bit, I think.

Surely the month has to get better as it progresses, right?




DemonKia -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 1:12:36 PM)

Spring, & sunshine, are on their way, yes.




SthrnCom4t -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 2:24:08 PM)

February has us taking a break from the social whirlwind. We just had a dinner party for 8 in our dungeon basement. M cooked for at least 3 days and made 7 courses. The atmosphere was wonderful with a fountain, plants, candles and a music sound track brought by one of the guests. We are blessed with wonderful friends, and we are finding others who are drawn to our chemistry. It's just so fulfilling to share and exchange information while on this journey.

M's shop is still floating. He actually did have a better 09 than 08, and in this economy, anything, even a small % is something to rejoice about. We have lots of plans and marketing concepts which we need to concentrate on and put into action.

We've been living together "officially" 6 months now, and we are thankful everyday that we found each other. He and his soon-to-be ex remain amicable. Even so, there is sadness and grief over the evolution of their relationship. I'm doing my best to be loving and supporting, having gone through that more than once myself. Each person's experience is unique and I recognize that.

Lots of changes at work, but that has been the only thing I've been able to count on for the last 3 years....that there will be change very little is constant. I feel like I've gotten a good grasp of that concept because very little about work stresses me out lately.

Last Friday night I scratched my eye removing my contact. NOT FUN! Very inconvenient and because I am motivated by pain, (or lack of), I've been doing too much, then paying the price in a very slow healing process. Even now I should not be on the computer, but am wearing sunglasses so I can catch up on some forum reading.

Oh, and there's a local subbie who wants to serve part time. We've been corresponding, and I'm evaluating how each participant could have needs fulfilled in a positive manner. Stay tuned.........









ShaharThorne -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 2:32:40 PM)

I am just functioning,  Had pneumonia a few weeks ago and recovered with flying colors.  Getting ready to clean Lizard's apartment (she lives with her dad).  need to find a screwdriver (both please).  Lizard is turning 15 Sunday.  Waiting for the rest of my backpay so I can pay off a bill.  Been having a dirty little problem but I will see the doctor about it on the 10th or 12th.  11th I am seeing the dentist to finish up a gum cleaning and getting a molar yanked out.




PeonForHer -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 2:38:05 PM)

It's good to see you again, Kia.  And well done indeed for getting back into the fray on that dating front.  More power to your elbow.  Now I understand why I haven't seen so much of you recently.

Yep, I think I agree with you re that socialising, though.  It can blow the cobwebs away like nothing else at all.  Note to self:  fix the front door so that you can use it again, then follow Kia's example. [;)]




LadyPact -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 4:05:15 PM)

My report this month is so much of nothing.  LOL.

Due to family circumstances, there was very little kink in My life this past month.  I did make it to a wonderful rope presentation this past month (My thanks to the presenter) where I got at least enough to keep Me happy.

I am very much in a 'what shall I do next' phase.





Dnomyar -> RE: February Roll Call (2/5/2010 5:11:08 PM)

Who said that when you retire you get to slow dow. Im thinking of going back to work to get some rest.




Arpig -> RE: February Roll Call (2/5/2010 9:41:29 PM)

Dealing with an incredibly tight budget due to reduced hours at work over the holidays and all of January[:(]




sunshinemiss -> RE: February Roll Call (2/6/2010 2:51:06 AM)

There was a chocolate contest? I missed it? [:(]

quote:

Last day of a contest on my other blog (Final Day to Win Chocolate: http://thechocolatecult.blogspot.com/2010/01/win-wonderfully-unique-chocolates.html).


quote:

Spring, & sunshine, are on their way, yes.


Good to see you Kia - you have been missed.




GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: February Roll Call (2/6/2010 11:22:59 AM)

hi there..[:)]
 
*I have taken ownership of slave TEBO..( on here)
 
*I am back on the road in the PSYCHIC circuit reading TAROT stones and cards..my old gypsy grannies will be happy..
 
* I have met a wonderful couple ( on here) and we are going forward
on a spiritual path
 
*My second grandson took his first step.awwwwwwwwwww
 
* I weeded out toxic ppl from my life
 
*I have been diagnosed with R.A.......owwwwwwww
 
*I have done some "mending" with my mother
 
*more have been revealed to me from past lives
 
GM
 
 




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