DemonKia -> RE: February Roll Call (2/4/2010 2:52:48 AM)
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Guess I should answer the call, lol . . . . I'm dating these days, officially out of mourning, being active, stirring around . . . . Meeting new people for coffee, haven't done that in a coupla years. Strictly expecting / looking for 'friends' this time around, lol . . . . & mostly I 'use' munches as screening tools, only going out with those who go to munches & etc. Since I ultimately want partners who'll go to munches & play parties & etc, it's a criteria that makes sense for me . . .. . . It's weird, dating is, tho' I think I'm getting better at it. More efficient, at least, & somewhat more fearless about it. Anxiety-provoking it is, but I'm getting a little braver, too, lol . . . . I'm going to at least a coupla play parties & a coupla munches a month, tho' I'm increasingly less goal-oriented about the whole thing, paradoxically. I like the hanging out, the schmoozing, the socializing as much or more than the whole dating / relationship-seeking thing . . . . February will be way hecka frantically social. 2 or 3 parties in Sac, plus I'm spending a long weekend at a friend's place in the Bay & we're gonna hit a class, two play parties, & a coupla munches while I'm down there (which will make for a total of at least 3 or 4 munches for the month.) I'm actually trying not to think about it too much cuz it kinda over-whelms me, lol .. . .. The rest of my life is moving along, slow as molasses in Feb, but that's how I best roll, lol . . . .
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