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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 8:17:15 AM

MasterStoney442

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To answer your question.

What happened to all the real slaves.

They are out there ,I own one . But as I see it there are way to many that say they are slave , but when it comes right down , They do not know what it is to be a real slave .
It does take some time in the mind of a person to be a real slave and except it. But once that is done , it is bueatiful . .

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 8:59:17 AM

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I agree with IronBear. "kindly describe "real slave for me"
But further, describe "real sub" for me. That word "real" means different things to different people. See, to me, a REAL Domme is one that id NOT a pro. Nothing aaginst them, except that they are not real to me since the only way they would be real to me is to be my Domme out of love or some sort of devotion to me, and not my wallet. Again, no disrespect to the pros. Just not my cup of tea. So with this kind of thinking a "real" sub or slave is one the not only wants and needs to partake in spankings, floggings, etc. But one that lives to really serve a Dominant lady in more ways then just play time. I consider myself a sub/slave ( my definition as to what a slave is) to the one lady that truly cares about me and for me. Now all I have to do is find her. Not an easy task. I sure wish this site separated those that call themselves pros from the "real" Dommes.... again, meaning lifestyle and not for profit

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 9:16:57 AM

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what happen to all the real slaves ?

They are on vacation for the duration of your time here.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 10:29:56 AM

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The real slaves are captured and being kept in the dungeons awaiting the cops for the rescue.

The fake slaves are here chatting.......lol........

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 10:38:52 AM

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The real slaves are captured and being kept in the dungeons awaiting the cops for the rescue.

The fake slaves are here chatting.......lol........

i'm no fake....just ask my Owner.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 11:16:55 AM

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The real slaves are captured and being kept in the dungeons awaiting the cops for the rescue.

The fake slaves are here chatting.......lol........

Awwwwww geewizz Dennis babe.. you sure aim to remain at the head of the leader board for the "Clusterfuck2006" award aren't you now sweetie?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 11:34:03 AM

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what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session

She should set up the hardcore punishment scene in full view of the slave, then slip a blindfold on him. Slowly ramp up the "punishment" until the slave has reached it's limits, then kick it up a notch for one or two strokes to let them know it could get much harder.

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what happen to all the real slaves ?

Taking "hardcore" punishment does not make a slave "real" or "unreal". They are two very seperate things. Being a masochist is one thing. Being a slave is another. A masochist needs pain. A slave needs to serve. Sometimes both qualities exist in the same person. Sometimes they do not.

A slave desires to serve, and in that desire, they may offer, or try, to do things that are beyond their capabilities. In that case, if the Owner desires that service, it is the Owner's responsibility to train up the slave's capabilities, whether that means getting them a new or better skill set, or if it means ramping up their pain tolerance so the slave can play harder.

It is a partnership that both must work on to meet the needs and desires, to be fulfilling, for both parties.

Oh yes, back to the original question, "what happen to all the real slaves?" They are out here. Some are already owned, some are waiting to be found, to be claimed by someone that earns their trust and surrender.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 11:48:35 AM

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I would have to agree with the Bear and MH, Please define what you mean by real? You seem to have everything entanled with the ability to endure pain. I can tell you my little one often asked for things in the beginning where she wasn't even sure what she was asking for, wanted, or was going to get. What those request did was clue me in that her thoughts and levels were changing. Just because she became more interested in certain things and asked to be beaten did not mean I suddenly started wailng on her nor did it mean I scoffed at her knowing she couldn't take it. I paid attention, pushed, letting things build until the moment was right to push through those boundaries.

Even in a pro setting you surely must understand that some may be coming to you with wishes, desires, and no experience. You should have the wisdom to build slowly and feel their levels, or as has been suggested, just take the money beat em and shove em out the door.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 1:51:35 PM

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what happen to all the real slaves ?

They are on vacation for the duration of your time here.

ROTFL!--

OK so here's My rhetorical question---why do people like that post and then never re-enter the conversation?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 2:21:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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what happen to all the real slaves ?

They are on vacation for the duration of your time here.

ROTFL!--

OK so here's My rhetorical question---why do people like that post and then never re-enter the conversation?

Umm, no brain..ooppss I meant staying power.........

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:24:54 PM

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Hmmmmm interesting. Personally, I do not believe in the saying "real slave" .... You are what you are within yourself, your relationship.

Personally, I am a pain slut. i have asked for more at times begged for it yes. I once put in a request for my Master to take me all the way to my limits. He did and now, I am further than those limits. He granted my request because he knew me and my body reactions. He took me where I needed to go and now I go further than I could then. A safeword/action was put in place so that when I reached that place I could use it. And I did! So maybe this man is asking/begging to be taken there but where are the real slaves? why this question?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:41:16 PM

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the idea that someone is not real simply becouse they dont meat your personal standereds is truely conceited. and any time i hear some one say i am a real sub/slave/dom/domme or anything else it sounds like they are saying noone else is real. and when i hear someone where are the real slaves in a room full of slaves it is insulting. sorry for ranting and raveing must be getting near that time o the month lol

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