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HisSub1213 -> RE: Whats with the lack of Motivation? (2/4/2010 3:45:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Puckerpup


The reason I discuss this in a public forum is because I have seen this addressed. As well as being a general kinky weirdo, I'm also a member of a very clean forum called atheist nexus. The great thing about this forum is its intolerance for stupidity and lazy responses. When people show a pattern of lazy messages, you get barbequed and confronted, because of this, less people are inclined to send 3 words messages.


Hmmm I have found over the years that "intolerant" people rarely get very far in the Making friends and influencing people catagory.

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Now I understand, people are not expecting everybody to write a massive message, but I think I am ok in saying that people join groups like this because they want some level of interaction. I might even be bold enough to say that perhaps they should consider a minimum amount of characters to send an email.


You know, if I had a nickel for every email I got here that was only one or two words or sentences long, I'd be a rich woman. That being said, if you're not happy with the emails you're getting why not simply hide your profile? Then you don't get any emails.





FukinTroll -> RE: Whats with the lack of Motivation? (2/4/2010 4:27:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Puckerpup

I don't by any means think that everybody on this site is like this, but I have noticed there are an awful lot of lazy people who use this system. Why is it that people seem to think a 3 word message is enough? Why are they so unwilling to ask a few questions or explain what they are after? Is it too much to ask that people be interesting?

Am I the only one with this issue?


E-mail goes both ways. It is the /s market... look at the stats... I don't bother to mail anyone, if they mail me then it is all good, I know my mail isn't heading for Davey Jones via the filter.




DesFIP -> RE: Whats with the lack of Motivation? (2/4/2010 5:02:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Puckerpup


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Perhaps you shouldn't demand that other people be interesting to you until you can guarantee that you are interesting to others. BTW I read your profile, totally uninteresting.



Thats right, because this is a personal attack on you. REALLY? WTF?


You came on whining because nobody is interesting you and nobody is sending you wanking material as your profile demands. We have been attempting to educate you on why you aren't having any luck.

Instead you've gotten your panties in a twist when told that nobody here is obligated to send you hand written porn with you as star. And that nobody here is obligated to do tricks to amuse you.

My comment was an attempt for you to see how your comments read to others. Apparently it went over your head.

As far as a 3 word sentence, so what? People here have started writing very short one liners, and developed a relationship from that. Some of us have gone from three words to marriages and other long term relationships. You want it handed to you on a platter.

If you see someone in a coffee shop every day, you begin an acquaintance by nodding, then smiling, then saying hi, then discussing the weather. And if you're compatible you might then develop a friendship and/or a romantic relationship. You don't start out by telling them how you demand they do you. But developing a relationship is too much work for you according to your profile and your complaints. So don't. Keep doing what isn't working and keep whining. We don't care.




theobserver -> RE: Whats with the lack of Motivation? (2/4/2010 5:09:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick


He responded "moo".  I responded "cow".  The ball is in his court.  The jury is still out on whether he is actually lazy or not, but it's definitely getting more interesting.

Cali



I too have received many 1 or 2 word emails related to both domestic and farm animals. That jury is busy.


I've just recovered from this post. [sm=LMAO.gif]




theobserver -> RE: Whats with the lack of Motivation? (2/4/2010 5:24:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: Puckerpup


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Perhaps you shouldn't demand that other people be interesting to you until you can guarantee that you are interesting to others. BTW I read your profile, totally uninteresting.



Thats right, because this is a personal attack on you. REALLY? WTF?


You came on whining because nobody is interesting you and nobody is sending you wanking material as your profile demands. We have been attempting to educate you on why you aren't having any luck.

Instead you've gotten your panties in a twist when told that nobody here is obligated to send you hand written porn with you as star. And that nobody here is obligated to do tricks to amuse you.

My comment was an attempt for you to see how your comments read to others. Apparently it went over your head.

As far as a 3 word sentence, so what? People here have started writing very short one liners, and developed a relationship from that. Some of us have gone from three words to marriages and other long term relationships. You want it handed to you on a platter.

If you see someone in a coffee shop every day, you begin an acquaintance by nodding, then smiling, then saying hi, then discussing the weather. And if you're compatible you might then develop a friendship and/or a romantic relationship. You don't start out by telling them how you demand they do you. But developing a relationship is too much work for you according to your profile and your complaints. So don't. Keep doing what isn't working and keep whining. We don't care.



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Pup's chasing his tail. Something is wrong and the common factor is him. OP, stop chasing something that's getting you nowhere.






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