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BDSM Games - 2/3/2010 9:49:55 PM   
Saint


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Status: offline 		I was curious as to what games Dommes play with their submissives. I ask because I am going over on Friday night to play and entertain a lady and her boy. She has asked us both to be creative and come up with different games we can play to entertain her. I have a few good ideas such as: Kneeling with our backs to her while trying to hold an ice cube on the small of our back with her shooting rubber bands at our exposed derriers. For each ice cube that drops or rolls off, we have to lick it up off the plastic mat. Anyways, I am curious as to what games the Dommes here like to play with their submissives. Any suggestions are welcome. Thank you.

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 12:07:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Saint, I could fill the page with all of the different games that I like to play.  These are the kinds of situations that allow the fun to shine through.  My suggestions would vary due to the inclination of the participants, how many folks there are, and what kind of tolerance levels they have for different activities.

I'm going to take some liberty here and go with the thought that there are two sub males and one Domme.  With that in mind, I'm going on the premise that time/attention needs to be split equally.

How about a version of the 'alphabet' game?  The concept of this game is that each male has to come up with a BDSM related word in alphabetical order.  Get it right, get a clothespin.  Get it wrong, receive a swat.  Take turns.  If one of you misses a letter, but the other boy can get it, he can have a pin taken off.

Dueling footrubs.  Each of you takes a foot.  Set a time limit to see who can do the best job with her feet.  Award the winner or punish the loser.  Either can be just as good.

There's always the old stand-by:  Naked Twister!  Give the Domme a skewer.  Once the color is called, she has the opportunity to 'distract' each boy until the time limit is up.  (BTW, you'll have to buy a new mat after this.  There tend to be little holes poked into the one you use.)

The Fish Bowl - The idea behind this is you give both bottoms fifteen minutes to write down 30 second scenes and put them into the bowl for the Domme to draw out.  The bottoms take turns to be the receiving party of whatever idea is drawn out.  This one is really good because bottoms come up with the lovliest ideas, but will their idea backfire?  Will they get the scene that they want, or will it be the other bottom's turn when that idea is drawn?  Would the other bottom enjoy seeing you get ten lashes with a can, or will it backfire and the writer of that idea have to take the lashes himself.

Subbie Go Roumd - The boys take turns receiving play that the Domme wants to dish out.  Each both receiving what the other did prior.  Five kisses of the whip for one, five kisses of the whip for the other.

Killing Me Softly - Each of you take the right or the left side of her for massage.  Winner determined by relaxation technique.



Ummmmm...... How long do you have?


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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 4:31:51 AM   
Saint


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Status: offline 		Thank you LadyPact for the interesting ideas this morning. I especially liked the dualing foot rubs and killing me softly ideas. I am not certain just how long I will have that night but I am assuming it is going to be all evening and possibly later.

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 4:52:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		The list is almost endless. I did a blog post on some games we play. It is here.....http://slave2catwoman.blogspot.com/search?q=he+got+game

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 9:21:52 AM   
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BDSM games?

Not sure I grasp that concept really but I'm a big fan of board games and computer games. In general my slave is under the rule that if he wins he pays a penalty and if I win hurray!

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 2:35:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would say any dice or card games where points are accumulated.

Of course, the boys have the option of 'antying up'. A bit the opposite of, "I can name that song in x notes". If you play rummy and the Domme gets X points, then the boys will, of course, take that number of swats. Now, if one boy wanted to be looked upon with good grace, he might volunteer to take that many + X, or take all of his, and all of the other boys. Just sayin'...we Dommes love it when you beg us to hurt you.

Now, if that seems like too much work and the Domme is more in 'instructor' mode, she could always have one boy deliver the swats to the other boy. Of course, turn about is fair play, and if a swat looks too 'light', then there are penalties that are accrued.

Olympics? The boys are given certain positions to maintain. The Domme can 'encourage/distract' at her leisure. There's a timer and points/swats which are earned. Once the posture is broken, how long does the other boy maintain. For the amount of time, do those number of swats get added to the other boy's total? Are the boys bi? Whole new ideas in that direction.

Have great fun...and give us a report back after your evening. Curious minds want to know <grin>!


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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 5:21:20 PM   
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RE: BDSM Games - 2/4/2010 6:05:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love the search feature.

Here are just a few I found that have already been discussed...

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/5/2010 8:59:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi.

I tried a game I learned from a Mistress friend of mine. She attaches clothes pins all over her slave and whacks them off with a long crop. It sounded like fun so we got together the other night, me and my slave and her and her slave, and we had a blast trying it. That's the best part about knowing so many other Mistresses. We get to share slaves and we exchange tips on what to do to our slaves.

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RE: BDSM Games - 2/28/2011 12:48:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mistress LadyPact:

Do you have any ideas for a Femdom easter egg hunt?  This would take place at a dungeon in the Los Angeles Area (which my Mistress hosts).  I would appreciate any info. 

Thanks


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RE: BDSM Games - 2/28/2011 12:55:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		This thread is over a year old.  The only reason that I am responding here is because I am attempting to be polite.

It really isn't My place to attempt to create ideas for an event that someone else is hosting.  When I create or host an event, I plan the activities out before I even settle on a date.  If I pitch an idea for a themed event for a group, I give them an outline of what will be included.  I figure that My name is on it, so it should be My work.  I am sure that your Mistress has the same intent.


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RE: BDSM Games - 2/28/2011 12:59:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		LP, ya just need to stash back the form letter response.

Dear OP,

Paintball subby hunt is the new rave. The subby that gets blasted the most by the end of the event becomes the Bukake sub of the evening.

Yours Truly
Ron Melby

P.S. I always sign Ron's name to this kind of shit cuz he is just crazy ya know.

SLURP~


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RE: BDSM Games - 2/28/2011 12:59:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		With that wonderful response from LadyPact, this old thread will be retired. Please feel free to create a new thread on the topic and link back to this one if you like.

Thank you!

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