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Iamcurious -> suggestions for online long-distance play please? (3/26/2006 9:03:30 AM)

hello all...

i am a woman who is not too confident of her abilities at domming a man...however, to practice, i am in communication w a sub male online...

does anyone have any suggestions of things to ask a sub male to do for me?...i do not want to view him on a webcam but would be happy to receive pics...

subs, slaves, male and female: what were some of ur favorite requests from a domme online?...

thanks for ur help!...




AAkasha -> RE: suggestions for online long-distance play please? (3/26/2006 11:49:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Iamcurious

hello all...

i am a woman who is not too confident of her abilities at domming a man...however, to practice, i am in communication w a sub male online...

does anyone have any suggestions of things to ask a sub male to do for me?...i do not want to view him on a webcam but would be happy to receive pics...

subs, slaves, male and female: what were some of ur favorite requests from a domme online?...

thanks for ur help!...



Why are you interested in domination yet you don't even know what to ask for? What turns you on? What do you want to see?  What tasks would *arouse you* when they were completed?  Or, are you doing this purely for cash or gifts?

When I see questions like this, the garden variety "how do I become a femdom"? I have to wonder if they are just women (or men) looking to figure out how pay for play works.  Does anyone else disagree with this?  Because at some level, if a woman has dominant "urges" she is trying to convey -- those *urges* are the pure ones from inside of her that she should be pursuing.

A more believable question would be, "I'm in a long distance relationship as a femdom and the thing that kinda turns me on is seeing a guy in bondage or helpless.  How can I acheive this in a long distance situation?"

Akasha




Iamcurious -> RE: suggestions for online long-distance play please? (3/26/2006 12:43:06 PM)

well, no, i am not interested in being paid in any material way for this...i am more interested in learning how to be more assertive...i am mostly and naturally submissive but as i get older, i find that i am not very interested in dominant men any more...the ones i meet seem to be too self-centered...so i am attempting to develop my own abilities to ask for what i want...

however, since i have so little experience doing this, i thought it might be helpful for me to hear some suggestions of things to ask for...

but i agree w u that i need to develop my own sense of what it is I WANT...lol...

thanks for the input...




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