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LafayetteLady -> RE: Is my profile negative? (2/4/2010 8:18:01 PM)
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Honestly? Yea, it is kind of negative. A lot of "don't do this, don't do that." The only thing one might glean from your profile is that you donate your hair to charity, you are dieting and you don't like pain. You are seeking either male or female, so I assume you are bisexual, but you didn't pick a preference to show on your profile. Oh yea, and you have Irritable Bowel Syndrome, now there is something you want to share with the world before even saying hello.
I'm sure you have read it a million times, but a profile needs to be POSITIVE. Would you put in your resume all the things you WOULD NOT do on a job? No, you list all your attributes and what you bring to the table. Same thing with a profile. List everything that you think makes you appealing, and the things you find appealing in a dominant. If you want to mention that you don't want marrieds, one night stands, poly, sharing, etc. put it at the end of your profile, not the beginning. I know, you put it at the beginning to deter those types from contacting you. It doesn't work, they aren't the type that will read your profile anyway. Instead, the whole first section of your profile tells everything you hate. How far would you read a profile that started out with negatives?
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