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female led relation - 2/6/2010 1:48:21 AM   
slavesanjay


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Status: offline 		hi i'm in female led relation where my wife is my mistress. but we are new in this type of relation ship pls help us. give us some suggestions .
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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 2:06:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Read a lot of books, go to local munches and demos. The more she learns the more creative she will become.

Focus on her happiness more than your own.

If you are seeking more specific advice you will need to ask a more specific question.

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 2:20:17 AM   
slavesanjay


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Status: offline 		what sort of punishment wifes give to husband.?

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 3:01:36 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		And there it is...

For a man who is looking for a mistress as your profile says, I'm wondering how your wife/mistress feels about your search.

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 3:07:44 AM   
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what sort of punishment wifes give to husband.?


I'd suggest she take away your internet privileges...

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 3:08:01 AM   
Domin8tingUrDrmz


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ORIGINAL: slavesanjay

what sort of punishment wifes give to husband.?


I wouldn't know, I'm not married.

I can tell you that I very RARELY punish an adult. Typically, if I feel a need to *punish*, that is generally a sign to me that the relationship is already over.

Now, if you are searching for methods on how to fix a relationship, I may be able to help in some areas. If you are looking for ideas for a sadist to use on a masochist, again, I suggest read a lot of books, go to demos and munches.

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 9:26:30 AM   
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what sort of punishment wifes give to husband.?


Watching the children and her friend's children while they all go shopping?

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 10:21:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not for the watching little people part, but the not going shopping part actually would be a punishment for clip.  In his case, you hit that half of it dead on, Aylee.

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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 12:37:11 PM   
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Not for the watching little people part, but the not going shopping part actually would be a punishment for clip.  In his case, you hit that half of it dead on, Aylee.


Going to the shoppe would be quite the punishment in my case.

It depends on the submissive and their behavioral traits (and what buttons to push oh my).


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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 12:55:27 PM   
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LOL Aylee, and myotherself!


I think the perfect "punishment" would be for her to just be herself- which is probably vanilla.


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RE: female led relation - 2/6/2010 2:23:07 PM   
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what sort of punishment wifes give to husband.?


My wife doesn't punish me.  Why would she?

If I were to do something warrant punishment, it's not something we would share with the world.  Being in a female-led relationship, in my experience, is not very difficult.  If you both do what comes natural, then you'll be fine.  I'm not saying that it won't require work, because everything does.

That being said, you don't really care about a relationship--you care about an idea.

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