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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/7/2010 7:23:50 AM   
PeonForHer


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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/7/2010 7:52:32 AM   
Lucienne


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR:

Still not one, single rude cmail.  Life's so different in the malesub world.


The sort of men who send out those emails are probably too busy trying to scroll down on your photo to type.



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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/7/2010 9:34:59 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Heh.  Thanks for the implicit compliment, Lucienne.  The pic was taken by a nicer version of that kind of gentleman (with his wife present - long story), posed the way he wanted it, so I guess that wouldn't be surprising.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/7/2010 10:33:45 AM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Yes, I'd like to understand the psyche of random troll-by's, and interesting theory that having a vagina and being dominant is enough to make one a troll target.
One of the children I sponsor is in Haiti, so I sponsored another one after the disaster. In some random karma-prickiness, no sooner had I hit 'send' on the donation than I get a random troll spouting venom about my appearance, my profile, and CANADA. Is it because he feels threatened by intelligent women in a country with socialised medicine that gave more per capita to Haiti than any other nation, and 10x more than the US? Must be the c-word in CoUNTry that got the little pimply-assed basement-dwelling misogopath all twitched out. . .
So yes, block, report, delete, vent, and laugh at him. Don't forget the 'report', because otherwise although you're not his first target, be his last. And dream that the coward is caught and locked up with a 400-lb sadist who's not choosy about hygiene or orifices, which is not as bad as the stuff they type up for us. Enjoy a bit of schaudenfreude, then move on.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/7/2010 11:48:23 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		you can report away. if someone has sent you a nasty "private" message but made no physical threat you are probably just wasting your time.

But that seems to be a great hobby out here in trying to control those things that are truly beyond your realm.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/8/2010 11:20:35 AM   
LadyDelilahDeb


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Status: offline 		Don't forget to REPORT those emails. No one needs to take abuse. I routinely report the emails I get that appear to have been gang-sent to all and sundry. At the very least, you can report 'em as spam.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/8/2010 12:46:29 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I don't remember getting rude emails. I am sure I have, but it is so inconsequential to me that I do not remember. If so, I am sure I just deleted and forgot.

*Poof*

gone.....

Why bother giving it another thought?


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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/8/2010 1:42:09 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		I get these too every so often (I'm transgendered and well.. large) and I think you've been given lots of very good advice so far, but also I'd like to suggest you turn their words on them and instead of seeing the hatred and the abuse just see it as further validation of who you are as a person.

You see I know who I am, and so do the people who know me, and that's all that matters to me, not what an idiot God knows where who hasn't even exchanged words with me thinks.

I know it's a tough thing to do when you read such abusive crap and hateful words, because words do have power and words can hurt you just as much as a smack in the mouth or being kicked.

But ultimately it's you who has that power over how much those words hurt you, or how little, but nothing is as powerful as zero response.

Domiguy is right, you need to grow a pair, believe in yourself and just keep believing in yourself no matter what comes through into your Inbox. And when you achieve that sort of power, nothing and nobody can take it away from you.

And this is exactly what these people are too thick or stupid to work out.


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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/8/2010 2:20:28 PM   
cloudboy


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Sorry you have to deal with that kind of shit. Women don't treat men this way at all. Hope you find a way to go forward without getting discouraged.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/9/2010 8:30:16 AM   
sub4mistressinnj


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Status: offline 		And here am i and other men, would love to get those types of messages like that from a Domme.   I am sorry you have to deal with misogynist losers.

I have never seen a Woman treat men like this, even after being treated  like crap themselves they don't lower themselves to the male's level. Which is why Women deserve respect, imo.

i tried to fix the grammar the best i could


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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/9/2010 10:47:06 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		The odds are if they are being this insulting from the get go, they are either jacking off to it or they are hoping you'll reply so that they can jack off to that.

Ignore them if you can and put them on block.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/9/2010 11:27:06 AM   
BMTlooking


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Status: offline 		I am sure that I can get beat up for my remarks or being totaly new to all of this however I think that it is wonderful that you have posted a picture of yourself on her as well as reached out to others creating online friends. Not really sure where anyone would get off on the attacks that happen here however I just know that folks that do that are in lack of the physical attention sought after

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/10/2010 1:45:06 PM   
Ladynslave


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Status: offline 		Nope, have gotten the whole gambit, I'm too short, tall, fat, skinny, pretty, ugly.  Just this morning I had one tell me I needed to return to vanilla relationships (with him in particular) and one actually believed he could turn me into a sub.  Block, delete, and laugh at the idiocy.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/10/2010 2:23:47 PM   
PrincessDonna


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Status: offline 		When I get them I smile and say wow theres another unhappy sub venting,he should have came to me!

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/10/2010 8:44:42 PM   
MadamsPaddle


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Status: offline 		I've had a few as well.  Nasty things were said but I did not know the scum so it was not personal. Delete & block move on. There are so many that honor and worship you for the Goddess that you are. Take focus on that.  

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/10/2010 9:36:30 PM   
GloriousMorning


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Status: offline 		I actually turned my CM profile off, mainly due to the crazy amount of offensive mail I received.

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/11/2010 3:38:41 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Almost makes me want to go create a spiffy new profile with some downloaded porn pictures.

Just for the entertainment value.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/11/2010 3:54:55 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Almost makes me want to go create a spiffy new profile with some downloaded porn pictures.

Just for the entertainment value.


Long as you don't start mailing genuine people from it for any 'experiments' ;-)


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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/11/2010 8:24:21 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Oh why not........would be fun to get everyone's panties/boxers in a wad.

I did say it would be for entertainment value.

Besides.........define genuine..........


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Ladies, am I the only one that gets this harassment... - 2/11/2010 8:31:50 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh why not........would be fun to get everyone's panties/boxers in a wad.

I did say it would be for entertainment value.

Besides.........define genuine..........



Because it seems kinda naaaaaaaaaaaasty :-(
You don't wanna be the tipping point that makes the poor depressed subby start shooting up his school...

But for the record, you are welcome to get my panties in a twist any time you like


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