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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 3:53:22 PM

Brownsugasub69

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U owz people an apology. 4 real. Pretendin to be something U are not.

Probably you are a guy and this profile is fake. Never trust a skinny assed bitch.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 3:57:40 PM

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100% success rate is damn near impossible. 100%?

100% domi

I don't know if they were all interested in me further than an initial response, but they all let me know that my email was great. I should also add, I didn't email any obviously fake people - I emailed women who had put enough thought and care into their profiles to make it clear that they were real, and genuinely looking for a connection. Can't say I emailed any 18 year old slaves trapped in Africa...

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 3:58:00 PM

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100% success rate is damn near impossible. 100%?

I would have to agree with this to be honest, I find it a little unbelievable that every single person replied, however the fact that most did wouldn't surprise me.

In terms of ethics, it is a minefield, and if we are comparing to experiments this one really doesn't count for anything much because it is all a bit dubious anyways, so I agree with Pact that you just wasted a load of peoples time for no real reason. Not sure I would appologise and waste more of their time though.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 4:02:08 PM

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There just isn't enough people fucking with sub's minds and manipulating Dom's approaches.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 4:03:29 PM

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Your results don't surprise me. Pretty sad that anyone who is sincerely looking for a relationship would consider 15 minutes composing an email to be "too much time."

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 4:19:26 PM

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It would be My opinion that you honestly owe some folks an apology.

I completely respect where you're coming from, but the people who deserved the apology (the women in the experiment) got one. I don't think I need to apologize to anyone else. In the scheme of things that happen on this message board, this is the thing that you choose to ask an apology for? Do you think the men writing hundreds and hundreds of offensive, careless form letters owe an apology to all the women they email? I've been non-consensually insulted and harassed by tons of men since I joined, as I'm sure everyone else has. A warm, genuine email from someone who completely meant what they were saying (despite being able to ever act on it) is a negative thing? No one was upset, as far as I can tell, and if they were, it can't possibly be more upsetting than the crap women put up with on a daily basis.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 4:44:21 PM

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No one was upset, as far as I can tell, and if they were, it can't possibly be more upsetting than the crap women put up with on a daily basis.

Is that really your call to make?

You would made someone's day a little bit worse when they realised that you weren't who you said you were. If you've done that forty times over that's forty little bits of sadness you didn't have to cause, whether or not they were still upset by the time that they messaged you back.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 4:48:17 PM

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So you played at being a scammer/fake. so how does that make you better than the scammers and fakes.

oh whoopee doo you apologised afterwards.

And i have my doubts you got 100% response. wonder what the response was from those you deliberately lied too.

i know what id have said.

well at least everyone now knows to ignore anything you say.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:02:52 PM

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personally i dont let the crap get to me. if something offensive rolls in i just assume theres someone at the other end wanting to be bitch slapped and im not going to feed the troll.

maybe im just lucky, but i mainly get straight up, decent people writing to me, many have become friends.

i have to say though, i admire youre dedication to finding that many positive, cheerful profiles, whenever i sign in im faced with someones profile each time and 7 times out of 10 theyre bitching about something, comming off as snarked, bored, tired or miserable. many subs dont know how to promote themselves and just write a long diatribe of 'do me' and 'dont do' demands and then rant away about wannabes. they cant seem to twig that the very person they sit in hope for has probably already read their miserable profile and moved right along.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:04:07 PM

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Wow - that was just a tad harsh!

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:04:36 PM

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She's been a damn sight less fake than 90% of the men who call themselves Doms on here.

Juju, how 'bout you post a few of these mails so we can start to discuss where those of us who were thinking we WERE sending thoughtful, humanised and clearly only after friendship and STILL not get a response can work out where we're going wrong?

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:06:36 PM

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And half the subs and slaves!

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:09:24 PM

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You know, the more I thought about this "experiment" the more I thought, how stupid and useless to waste your and other's time with that charade.

Because really, what purpose did it serve and what did you or we really learn?

We learned that a woman who once posted how confused she was about her feelings about being submissive and not having her brains respected with a man who did not make her feel all that good about her submission and who treated her like a piece of meat, now turns the tables on WOMEN, none of which hurt her by pretending to be a caring man.

Interesting, but puzzling. One never knows the hidden agenda of posters but in this case, I think it may be long held anger towards Doms and it flipped on the women.

Silly and makes the OP look bad, smug and not trustworthy.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:12:30 PM

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Wow - that was just a tad harsh!

Agreed. Frazzle, sweetie this isn't like you. I also agree with Fitz (who has been missing lately

) some of the messages should be posted so the not-so-articulate Doms can see how to write a decent message.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:12:32 PM

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...makes the OP look bad, smug and not trustworthy.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:14:06 PM

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...makes the OP look bad, smug and not trustworthy.

Disciplinary paddling line starts here -----|

Who? Me or the OP?

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:15:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

She's been a damn sight less fake than 90% of the men who call themselves Doms on here.

Juju, how 'bout you post a few of these mails so we can start to discuss where those of us who were thinking we WERE sending thoughtful, humanised and clearly only after friendship and STILL not get a response can work out where we're going wrong?

erm, no, i dont think you can say that

- not unless theyre all pretending to be men.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:15:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...makes the OP look bad, smug and not trustworthy.

Disciplinary paddling line starts here -----|

Who? Me or the OP?

If it's on offer, I'll paddle it

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:16:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Wow - that was just a tad harsh!

Agreed. Frazzle, sweetie this isn't like you. I also agree with Fitz (who has been missing lately ) some of the messages should be posted so the not-so-articulate Doms can see how to write a decent message.

Come now, do you really think that would be authentic to have a woman who posted as a man posting fake lovely messages, then post these messages so other real men could fake decent messages?

Does anyone else think this counterproductive, futile and wrong? I would not want to meet a man who needed a course or demonstration of how to write decent messages.

I want one who already knows how to communicate effectively and who is himself, not a copy of herself.

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RE: An Experiment - 2/6/2010 5:17:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
...makes the OP look bad, smug and not trustworthy.

Disciplinary paddling line starts here -----|

Who? Me or the OP?

.......she said hopefully

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