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LadyAngelika -> RE: men spanking men? (2/6/2010 8:26:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LanceHughes azjojoba: Thanks for "volunteering," but I have my hands full with the gay boys. (Get it? ..... have my HANDS full.... LOL) To others that want to see me "work" a boy (as he spins on a "Catherine's Wheel) I did make a DVD for a distributor. He is bound to wheel, he is spun (inc. upside down), and I flog and cane him as he rotates. Just tried to make a link for y'all...... No can do. Will contact distibutor and see if I can find out why link isn't working. Hot!! Though I prefer live shows ;-) - LA

Wolf2Bear -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 6:13:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: LanceHughes azjojoba: Thanks for "volunteering," but I have my hands full with the gay boys. (Get it? ..... have my HANDS full.... LOL) To others that want to see me "work" a boy (as he spins on a "Catherine's Wheel) I did make a DVD for a distributor. He is bound to wheel, he is spun (inc. upside down), and I flog and cane him as he rotates. Just tried to make a link for y'all...... No can do. Will contact distibutor and see if I can find out why link isn't working. Hot!! Though I prefer live shows ;-) - LA As one who enjoys getting a good spanking, I too wanna watch

Lucylastic -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 6:50:19 AM)
Can I just say yum Thank you for the links Sodsta:) Lance, Id love to see it, Angelika you are evil and I think I Like you and Bear, Id love to watch(snuggles too:) And altho this is a pay sight, some of the freebies they let go have been wonderful(bondage mostly) not so much spanking, but yum

BreathandStone -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 12:00:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika For the record, I love watching gay dominants spanking straight submissives... amongst other things ;-) You definitely aren't the only twisted girl in the room. Yum. OP, I'm aware of at least one website devoted to male/male spanking meetups specifically. (Not a dating site exactly.) I don't think that people looking for that kind of thing tend to waste their time on hetero-dominated websites, though.

LadyAngelika -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 8:06:26 PM)
Ok, so speaking of men slapping each other on the ass, I watched the superbowl tonight and all I can say is that I'm terribly dissapointed that the ass slapping between the boys has been replaced with helmet butts. That was a major let down! :-( - LA

ourmsbetty -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 8:10:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Sounds like a thread for Lance Hugues ;-) For the record, I love watching gay dominants spanking straight submissives... amongst other things ;-) But I'm a twisted girl like that. - LA Me too! they're so cute when they wriggle and cry...

Wickad -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 10:25:44 PM)
(fast reply) Interesting that a lot of the presumption about this thread has been about gay men. The OP was simply asking if men spank other men - not if gay men spank other gay men. Weird how things progress. My Dominant male partner, who is for all intensive purposes straight, will play with men or women. The real determinant for him is if he likes the person or not. Wickad

subboi3382 -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 10:37:25 PM)
lol it's funny i just saw this thread, i was just thoroughly by a group of other guys

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: men spanking men? (2/7/2010 10:38:40 PM)
I agree. Although, include me in the category that enjoys seeing gay men make use of their straight counterparts. My b/f, straight as an arrow, often spanks one of his male friends. Yummy...lol. Mind you, he thinks he is just goofing off, but his friend is bi and I always see that little spark in his friend's eye when my mate smacks his ass...lol. Edited for clarity.

LadyAngelika -> RE: men spanking men? (2/8/2010 2:57:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) Interesting that a lot of the presumption about this thread has been about gay men. The OP was simply asking if men spank other men - not if gay men spank other gay men. Weird how things progress. Funny, I don't get that perception. In fact, there were quite a few posts on how straight men spank each other in the locker room as a form of play. Speaking of which, (a littel off topic but still related) I came across this blog a while back entitled Heteroflexible: Erasing the line between straight and gay. It's more of an eye candy journey than anything but it's all about frat boys exploring the boundaries of their sexuality in the way that men try to act all macho and virile and challenge one another, and yes, some kinky stuff. As I mentioned earlier, I have a particular fetish for watching a gay dominant male rough up a straight male submissive. That is a kink that I have. That might give you the impression that I only saw this combination. - LA

Andalusite -> RE: men spanking men? (2/8/2010 8:13:29 AM)
I know quite a few men who are straight who have done purely S/M or bondage scenes with other men. I also know some straight women who occasionally top other women.

Wolf2Bear -> RE: men spanking men? (2/8/2010 8:36:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) Interesting that a lot of the presumption about this thread has been about gay men. The OP was simply asking if men spank other men - not if gay men spank other gay men. Weird how things progress. My Dominant male partner, who is for all intensive purposes straight, will play with men or women. The real determinant for him is if he likes the person or not. Wickad Frankly, most people do automatically think of gay men when speaking of men spanking men which is not always the case. I know that many straight men do enjoy spanking and the sexual orientation of the spankee has no bearing as the focus is on that form of playing and not sexual at all. I also look at myself and know that I have several friends both male and female who are straight and they would dearly love to have me over their lap and bruising up my as with a spanking or paddling. When I know that I am in need of a paddling session, I don't care about the gender of the person, all that matters is we both have a great sense of trust in each other and we are compatible personality wise.

afterforever -> RE: men spanking men? (2/8/2010 8:43:04 AM)
One of my gay friends is a massive spankmonster, he'll put you over his knee if you forget to use a coaster in his house. I think one of the most hilarious things I've seen all year was him wrestling my very straight (and toppy/sadistic) housemate to the floor and spanking him for drinking the last of his whiskey. Both of them being over 6'3" and built, it was quite an impressive sight.

LanceHughes -> RE: men spanking men? (2/8/2010 8:44:31 AM)
Sorry about the perceived thread-jacking. Mea culpa, mea culpa. Now to the juicy bits: Here in Denver, we have a monthly meeting of ManCODE www.mancode.hopto.org ManCode is a male-exclusive play party in a local BDSM dungeon. www.denversanctuary.com I'd say about 50-50 gay/straight. Who does whom? Ratio of Doms to subs is the usual... 1 to 10. So, the beaters out-number beatees... I have seen any and all combos. (Altho, come to think of it, I see very few straight Doms there....) ETA: One of the BEST sessions at ManCODE was with a bi-male that said "I only am submissive with men. I am only dominant with women." Added some heat to my side (actually both sides) as I "punished" him for his kink. LOL! Getting hard thinking about that public session which led to a couple of private sessions in his dungeon.... DAMN! I owe him a call.... bye for now. /exits CM with evil, evil grin/

azjojoba -> RE: men spanking men? (2/9/2010 12:43:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) Interesting that a lot of the presumption about this thread has been about gay men. The OP was simply asking if men spank other men - not if gay men spank other gay men. Weird how things progress. My Dominant male partner, who is for all intensive purposes straight, will play with men or women. The real determinant for him is if he likes the person or not. Wickad You read me like a book. I wasn't talking about gay men exclusively, but that is the natural presumption most people make. I'm not sure if two straight men would do spanking, but perhaps a mix of gay, bi, and straight. Either way, it's not something that you see discussed.

azjojoba -> RE: men spanking men? (2/9/2010 12:45:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andalusite I know quite a few men who are straight who have done purely S/M or bondage scenes with other men. I also know some straight women who occasionally top other women. Oddly enough, there is no shortage of web sites with women spanking women -- but not men on men. Maybe the women spanking women is a fetish both genders like -- but I'm just speculating.

LadyPact -> RE: men spanking men? (2/9/2010 9:55:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Ok, so speaking of men slapping each other on the ass, I watched the superbowl tonight and all I can say is that I'm terribly dissapointed that the ass slapping between the boys has been replaced with helmet butts. That was a major let down! :-( - LA I was in the middle of slapping other ass, Myself. Trust Me when I say I wasn't let down. ETA Oh, yeah. There was a topic here. Seriously, take yourself to any BDSM club. You'll see plenty of same gender play. I don't know what all this bit about 'what you hear' stuff is. All that says to Me is that you are honestly ignorant (meaning a lack of education) on the subject.

binewbitch -> RE: men spanking men? (2/9/2010 1:15:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sodsta I think the reason you probably don't hear as much about it is because most porn is made by and aimed at heterosexual men. There are a few good gay/bi kink sites out there, though. TieGuyUK BoyBondageBliss BoundBoys BadBoySpanking StraightHell (unfortunately not available in the UK) That's all I could think of off the top of my head. As for why you don't hear about it being talked about as much on fetish forums... I can only guess that's because there are more heterosexual people (or people currently in heterosexual relationships) frequenting those forums. Off the top of your head? Hell I'm glad you tipped me off to even one!

Andalusite -> RE: men spanking men? (2/9/2010 9:14:58 PM)
azjo, I'm not particularly drawn to BDSM porn, and I think that the majority of porn is made in a way that most women aren't interested in it. shrugs Most of it is geared toward heterosexual men, with a much smaller amount aimed at gay men. Most of the guys I know who are straight but play together have done so primarily when either one is a top/Dominant who is having difficulty finding female playpartners who are willing to help him learn, or very experienced sadist who doesn't care about gender. A lot of male bottom/submissive/masochist types wind up being wallflowers at playparties, unless they arrange someone to play with ahead of time. So, some of them are open to playing with men, especially if they are rather kink-driven, and the scenes are planned to cater to those kinks.

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