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Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 5:23:00 AM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		Does anyone have similar feelings about the marks left behind by your partner as i do?

When my Owner uses whips and such on me it is never for punishment, but for pleasure, He does it in an erotic way, so that it stings and stirs up passion, but it is not a deep pain.Just before it is over he will whip me hard enough three or four times to leave a few marks. He loves looking at them and i love him looking at them. i also love to admire them for to me it is a work of art and it reminds me of how i belong to him and how he owns me so completely.

Does anyone else feel this way? Or is a mark not such a big deal. Thanks.
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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 5:55:11 AM   
Elizabeth666


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I love marks

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 6:25:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		A lot of people like the marks that get left, indeed I am one of them, though I don't generally play the way you do I am not sure which it was you were asking about, I don't have this bit "just before it is over he will whip me hard enough three or four times to leave a few marks"

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 7:43:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love looking at my behind welted like hamburger and I want it to hurt so bad I can't sit down for a week...

Reminds me of how I got that way


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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 7:53:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mmm, I love the marks and sore spots. I love finding marks and sore spots the next day and remembering my owner giving them to me. Very delicious.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 8:05:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I love the marks. I love the itchy/burning feeling as they heal, a nice little reminder. I do try to avoid the "welted hamburger" look, though, as I need them to heal in a reasonable amount of time, and sometimes avoid them all together by agreement- I'm pretty adept at keeping them out of sigth at home, but nilla man would get a tad bit annoyed and/or suspicious if he never saw any naked parts.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 10:15:16 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I love marks. Unfortunately, it appears as if I am unmarkable.
He hits me hard with all kinds of things....hand, fist, crop, cane, paddle, whip, flogger.
I am never left with a mark. I get a little red and that fades within an hour.
Frustrating.....

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 10:22:19 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 11:10:46 AM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I love marks. Unfortunately, it appears as if I am unmarkable.
He hits me hard with all kinds of things....hand, fist, crop, cane, paddle, whip, flogger.
I am never left with a mark. I get a little red and that fades within an hour.
Frustrating.....


I mark rather easily...

Try chains


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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 11:21:10 AM   
afkarr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I love marks. Unfortunately, it appears as if I am unmarkable.
He hits me hard with all kinds of things....hand, fist, crop, cane, paddle, whip, flogger.
I am never left with a mark. I get a little red and that fades within an hour.
Frustrating.....


I mark rather easily...

Try chains

I also mark very easily, curse of being fair skinned. Wood will do it without much effort at all, nice leather crops- it takes a bit longer......

Aileen- if you really want to increase your mark factor, you could try a baby aspirin a day, or a garlic supplement, provided it isn't contraindicated by any medical condition. Aspirin and garlic are blood thinners, which would make it easier to bruise. On the down side, it also slightly increases clotting time, so be extra careful with the razors, and can make those girly days of the month more of a pain. ***YMMV*** use at own risk***



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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 11:43:15 AM   
sparkelfairy


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Status: offline 		I love when he leaves behind finger tip bruises. I look at those when I am not with him and remeber I am his.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 11:48:21 AM   
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it only becomes a total pain when i want to go to the beach or the local pool - otherwise i love the marks and i love having to sit down veeerrryyy slowly and carefully and feeling the heat building up to the point where i have to shift my bum around to accommodate.

i remember having to take a train journey home once after a comprehensive spanking, caning, slippering and im not sure if there wasnt a paddle, oh yes, there was! - he broke it during application silly me for forgetting that bit! - quite funny!

anyway, the furnace burning away had me standing for most of the two hour journey home and the marks stayed for nearly two weeks! - its the best bit to be honest. getting the marks is the tricky bit

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 11:59:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sparkelfairy

I love when he leaves behind finger tip bruises. I look at those when I am not with him and remeber I am his.


Me, too. One time I had two almost perfect handprints, one on each leg . . .

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 12:01:20 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Marks are fun to have, I like them. I even like pushing on them to make them hurt again and then I get a warm rush remembering how they got there. My marks tend to be mostly from biting- the ones on my breasts can last up to 2 weeks and I get a thrill every time I see them.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 12:09:04 PM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lucylucy


quote:

ORIGINAL: sparkelfairy

I love when he leaves behind finger tip bruises. I look at those when I am not with him and remeber I am his.


Me, too. One time I had two almost perfect handprints, one on each leg . . .


Omg...this made me remember about this bodybuilder I went out with a couple of years ago. It was a vanilla relationship but he bruised me everywhere without trying very hard and I loved it. He on the other hand was appalled. One night after a kiss goodbye I caught sight of my back in the bathroom mirror and there were two handprints there with each fingertip delineated....it looked like wings. It was so cool. He was a horrible conversationalist and eventually we broke up because I couldn't sustain a conversation with him but it was fun while it lasted.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 12:57:39 PM   
lucylucy


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ORIGINAL: lizi

Omg...this made me remember about this bodybuilder I went out with a couple of years ago. It was a vanilla relationship but he bruised me everywhere without trying very hard and I loved it. He on the other hand was appalled. One night after a kiss goodbye I caught sight of my back in the bathroom mirror and there were two handprints there with each fingertip delineated....it looked like wings. It was so cool. He was a horrible conversationalist and eventually we broke up because I couldn't sustain a conversation with him but it was fun while it lasted.


What a great image!

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 2:39:29 PM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		i am so happy to see so many people feel the same as i do. i wasn't sure when i wrote this thread if anyone one else had experienced the same thing. i enjoyed reading everyone's examples. Thanks to everyone for sharing them.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 3:27:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I love marks. Unfortunately, it appears as if I am unmarkable.
He hits me hard with all kinds of things....hand, fist, crop, cane, paddle, whip, flogger.
I am never left with a mark. I get a little red and that fades within an hour.
Frustrating.....


Too bad you are not a natural redhead. I get a mark if someone looks at me wrong.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 3:57:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

i am so happy to see so many people feel the same as i do. i wasn't sure when i wrote this thread if anyone one else had experienced the same thing. i enjoyed reading everyone's examples. Thanks to everyone for sharing them.


Not trying to be a bitch on a "EVERYTHING MUST BE NEW" crusade or anything but you may want to try searching for old threads. There are tons more examples on this topic if you want further reading.

Edited cause... I can.

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RE: Marks left behind - 2/7/2010 3:57:35 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		Another fair-skinned redhead chiming in here...

I LOVE marks, love how I get them, and love that I am able to endure what He dished out in order to get them.  The last time we played at the club, He and one of our Domme friends beat me for almost 2 hours.  I have never been broken down that far ever.  I had marks on my ass for nearly 3 weeks after and every time I itched or walked or sat down like an elderly lady, I loved it.  He can be very heavy-handed and is incredibly strong, so His really hard hits will leave marks on me for a long, long time.  He also likes to see the results of His handiwork afterwards, especially when the bruises are there for a great deal of time.

~ Red ~

*wee typo*

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