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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 5:48:17 PM   
sultryvoice


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Hello sultry...good to see you! 
 
I know why he did what he did...he's a jealous little ignorant man that knows he would never be a worthy dominant for a beautiful, intelligent, sexy woman as yourself. 
 
I have a question that's a tad off subject...are you one of the DM's that will be on duty on the 8th?  I meant to ask you ...but I was kinda busy...


Good to see you also. I will be there on the 8th. I will be on duty at that time. Your bottom asked me to do so..And thank you for the nice compliments. I wish a prospective Dom around here could see that and my other qualities. Oh, well..in time..It's been 5 years..so I can wait another 5...lol..

Yes, you were VERY busy. I was a bit busy myself..lol..What fun it all was!

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 5:51:54 PM   
sultryvoice


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

Evening,
 
Sultry, didn't you get the memo. Everyone who calls themselves submissive or slave is to fall to their face and kiss the feet of every man who calls himself a dominate or Master.
 
By the way for any that might not catch it this was being sarcastic however there are many who think this way. Sad but true.
 
Nika{Phoenix}



Hahaha..amen to you...(slapping head)..I shoulda seen this first!

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 6:10:06 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

Iron Bear!
You made me spit perfectly good coke on the monitor.
I have not heard that term in ages - drive by wanker.
I always wondered is that  like a drive through wanker?

*laughs*

Nika{Phoenix}


Sorry about the coke sweet, 

Drive By Wanker [subspecies of Wanker] Abr - DBW ~ Your DBW is a Wanker who is severly lacking in moral fibre who passes you with sufficient speed to avoid identification and wanks at you as he passes. Sociologosts believe that the DBW usually has friends with him/her to help the wanking and supply moral support. However we have a sector of DBWs who are solo performers due to their fear of Mummy and/or daddy catching them out. They are also usually the ones who live in cyber space. They tend to be introverted perverts.

Drove Through Wankers [subspecies of Wanker] Abr - DTW ~ Refer top the above for definations except for the following:- The BTWs may of course be more prevelant in non cyberspace and slowly drive through a drive through business jerking off as they do.  These are introverted extroverted perverts.

<<We ahe still hoping to catch/tag.release many of both of these groups for further study on their movement and migratory patterns..>>


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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 7:39:13 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		i get love letters from a Man who has me on block; what shall we make of that?
 
candystripper

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 8:38:37 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

i get love letters from a Man who has me on block; what shall we make of that?
 
candystripper


separation anxiety?

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 8:42:17 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

i get love letters from a Man who has me on block; what shall we make of that?
 
candystripper


He may not realize he has you blocked. I got phone calls from a couple of my friends asking why I had blocked their collarme email from coming through and I hadn't done any such thing! Sure enough, when I went to check my block list, they were both on there. It was easy enough to fix, but if they hadn't told me, I'd never have known about the glitch.

Celeste

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/27/2006 8:50:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

i get love letters from a Man who has me on block; what shall we make of that?

candystripper


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RE: Rude Emails - 3/28/2006 11:34:18 AM   
NorthCaliDom


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Status: offline 		Some of my biggest problems with rude people on the site, are people who clearly do not read ones profile. Even though my slaves profile reads "not allowed to talk with Doms", and that she is owned and not looking, Dom/me's (and sometimes even subs seeking sisters or playmates) still message her with random reuqests for ownership and such. And especially male doms, who it says clearly she is not allowed to talk to, try to find clever ways to message her. Like 'AlbanyMster4slav' who thinks that telling her she is fake is going to inspire a friendly conversation, when in reality he just needs an excuse to talk to a member of the opposite sex, and cant be polite about it. Even to my own profile I have gotten messages from people who clearly did not read (from male subs seeking Master, Mistress's seeking subs, etc). The reason she isnt allowed to talk to Doms has nothing to do with trust (which they msg her trying to say), it has to do with the vain hope that people like them wont harass her. Of course, they do anyway.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/28/2006 11:42:34 AM   
cntsbathry


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Status: offline 		Thank you! I have the same complaint.The last couple subs I had kept getting messages from male "Doms" just looking for sex. And there was one very narrowminded "Mistress" who contacted one of my girls to ask about trading her with one of the "Mistresses" subs for a weekend and for my sub to ask me.When I contacted this lady directly she came off with this "you don't know what you're doing and should release the girl before I ruin her".But she asked my sub to ask me about the trade!

My reasoning for not allowing my subs to speak with other Doms is all Doms have different training techniques and I didn't want her getting comfused or defiant after having another Dom telling her how her training should be going.

I'm happy to see that there are other people on here that have the same feelings.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/28/2006 11:49:59 AM   
MissyRane


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Status: offline 		*blank* since I aint very good at making those and barely anyone would bother reading it anyway :)

I like my profile :P it works actually..and I often get a pm which starts by saying.."you're right, nobody usually reads them" although I've gotten 1 or 2 who said they would've read it...I used to have a profile but damn I decided to change it to this n ..so far if I get pms from people that aren't within my range..I can't complain about having pointed it out in my profile

maybe it would work to only have one line in the profile section which says: "NO Dom(mes) allowed to PM" n nothing more, I've tried a couple of profiles and the 1-5 worded ones are usually the most affective ones..or that's my experience, at least I find it pretty affective as long as they aren't longer than 5 lines...


< Message edited by MissyRane -- 3/28/2006 11:53:33 AM >

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/28/2006 1:18:43 PM   
echofromurheart


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Status: offline 		May I add that beyond rude emails (and I get a lot of them), I get real tired of the emails from the oh so sage ones telling me what I should do, and critiquing my profile! Why waste time sending emails to profiles that DON'T appeal to you, lol! I also get a lot of nudie pics and while I have a libido, I think I can seek out that sort of thing if I want to see it. Unsolicited pics of subs/slaves in various forms of torture is just plain boring to me and I just wish people would ask before sending.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/28/2006 4:35:55 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		Drive by wanker...hahahahaha...Thank you Iron Bear..I needed this today...

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 6:25:37 PM   
ehlovindom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sultryvoice

Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her. I just had someone do this, I wrote him and said he was being rude and why.That was when I sawthat he blocked me. I just don't get it. Am I missing something here?

Respectfully,
sultry


Yes, you are missing wasting more time worrying about someone that is worth the time worrying about!


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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 6:29:03 PM   
michaelGA


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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 9:12:47 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Well sultryvoice,

There's no right or wrong way to message someone. Some people are banking on sending a rude message thinking it would turn you on. If you reply with a negitave message, it means to them that you aren't the sub for them.

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 10:04:08 PM   
MasterUnknown


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Well sultryvoice,

There's no right or wrong way to message someone. Some people are banking on sending a rude message thinking it would turn you on. If you reply with a negitave message, it means to them that you aren't the sub for them.


hmm maybe that means I have been doing it all wrong all this time by being polite.   * thinks on changing his ways of emailing*

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 11:35:23 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		It's a loose loose situation. Rude mail means that you're rude. Nice mail means that you're to polite and kind to be a dom someone would want to serve. You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't. Sometimes you have to write on a middle ground. That's what worked for me. If you or anyone else would like examples, send me a message on my CM profile.

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/1/2006 11:57:52 PM   
MistressAltaera


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Status: offline 		Not worth the trouble!

< Message edited by MistressAltaera -- 4/1/2006 11:58:51 PM >

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/2/2006 7:57:54 AM   
GddssBella


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Status: offline 		G'morning all:

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I don't get why people don't realize they are ONLINE. Whatever makes people think they won't run into idiots online needs to be corrected. Can we put something in the water?
I REALLY suggest at this point that we just make a "Rude Emils and No Responses" forum. We can just shove all the threads that we get like this into there.


Hear, hear! While we're at it, can we start one for us spelling nazis? I detest stumbling through someone's rambling post when they haven't had the courtesy to spell check. There's even a spell check function on here now, so no more excuses! Honest mistakes are one thing, but being lazy is quite another.

To answer to the OP; if this site is your first major virtual bdsm experience? Welcome to the internet. Most of the rules of polite society get thrown out the window. Being anonymous makes them brave. *shrugs* Worse yet, it makes them blind. From my own profile and journal -
quote:

**Note** You will be blocked, deleted/ignored if you:
- Have a rude picture on profile.
- Are married/attached in any way.
- Live more than 100 miles away.
- Failed to fill out your profile completely.
- Include a laundry list of fetishes in an email.

Ideal Person: A gentleman, 35-40. Men up to the age of 45 if they are exceptional. Call me shallow if you will, but I know what I'm attracted to. D/d/s free, single, divorced or widowed. No kids. Must have face pic. Must be willing to travel here. Gainfully employed, able to court a lady properly.

From the journal -

Guys: Here's a quarter, buy a clue. No dommes are interested in one line emails, crotch shots, or your laundry lists of fetishes. Treat us like ladies. We are not life supports to your kinks. There are flesh and blood real women behind these profiles.

Now, writing a proper introductory email shall consist of; a salutation, your name, marital status, residence, vanilla hobbies and interests, career, family, goals, ambitions, etc. Make sure you execute good spelling, grammar, punctuation, and sentence/paragraph structure. Nobody likes a lazy sub.

Guys, impressing a lady is easy. Be a gentleman. Take a hint from the instructions bestowed. Perhaps then, you'll be more successful!


You'd be amazed how selective vision can be. This doesn't pertain to just male subs. I'm sure all genders/orientations are as guilty. Chin up! Despite the preponderance of idiots you'll have to wade through, there are some genuinely nice people around this site. Helpful, knowledgeable, friendly. I even know a few real time.

p.s. - If you're wondering why the "Profile not found" appears when you try to find mine? My success. I refuse to jinx it by altering my profile (as in the past), so now I just hide it.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...
 

 
 
Bella
 
*edited for clumsy fingers!*

< Message edited by GddssBella -- 4/2/2006 8:09:03 AM >

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RE: Rude Emails - 4/2/2006 8:40:26 AM   
Driver1961


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Status: offline 		He enters, dips His lid,  smiling smuggly after reading the whole thread...................

Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow,  am I the devil's advocate or what.   I keep telling my other half not to behave this way!   It's the alter bad Dom ego- (He's upset cos His hat aren't as nice as mine)

Shame, Shame  Shame, DomfuckDriver1961!   Ok, I've been named,  I'm outed,  catch me if you can,   you subby girls can tie me to your trees and whip yourselves upon my command!  

Yes, LuckyAlbatross, I have to consider your thoughts in general of weeks concur and yes, you are  'spot on' with another area. 


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Mods,  do we need this, cant we have a new area called the "BITCH< BITCH< BITCH, ah moan without orgasm " Discussion area?

He departs, whipping  "BAd, BAD, BAD, Dom" alterego- save me Freud, calling Dr Freud, what is wrong with my Sex Ego? Have I  now three people inside me?

Regards, Paul, Loving Sir to His Precious Wild.




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