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OriginallyFromLA -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/11/2010 9:18:40 AM)

Well, I've always been a huge fan of Fred Astaire, and swing is one of my favorite music styles (ex-horn player). But it is 2010, and this is a BDSM site. You never know until you ask, and  a "man that can dance" and ballroom are not necesarrily the same thing. Or mutually exclusive.

If this snow would cut me a break I might actually be able to go.

I just hope the guys that read this site are paying attention to this thread and being proactive. I took one for the team and posed the question. Don't drop the ball (room[8D]) and miss out on an obvious gold mine opportunity.




SirSiobhan -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/11/2010 11:44:58 AM)

I am an active partner dancer (Salsa, bachata etc).

I find the best Doms there. They know when to take control, show me the way etc.

These men are eagerly sought out by the women.

Take the classes.......




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/11/2010 12:02:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirSiobhan

I am an active partner dancer (Salsa, bachata etc).

I find the best Doms there. They know when to take control, show me the way etc.

These men are eagerly sought out by the women.

Take the classes.......


I completely agree. So much dominance and submission in Latin dance. Just makes me squishy.[8D]




Delphinus -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/11/2010 5:52:37 PM)

Haven't read through the thread - just wanted to say YES!! A man who can twirl a woman around on a ballroom dance floor and then lead her off the floor to whatever it is that makes you "stern"? Definitely do it. :)





SaharahEve -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/12/2010 6:30:45 PM)

Ballroom dancing is a very passionate art. If he can dance well, it's likely all his moves are passionate and s e x y.




hlen5 -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/12/2010 9:38:58 PM)

 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ba5AxwFxYs&feature=related  start watching this at 2:00 minutes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KS2Os79KRdQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoKRoPe0SNU&feature=channel

'nuff said!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gY2xROz864Y&feature=related

edited for the last lnk (couldn't help myself!). 




lexey -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/13/2010 10:07:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SternFather

I know someone who wants a partner to take balroom dancing lessons.
So I want to get a general concensus. Sexy or lame?


Sexy. Definitely.




StrongSpirit -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/13/2010 2:04:01 PM)

As someone that has taught Tango (Beginner lessons), I will tell you that

1.  ANYONE can learn to dance.  To learn to lead tango reasonably well, it takes about 3 months, at least 3 times a week, one hour classes.   But if you don't enjoy it, you will quit before you get good.  (Note, when I started I had ZERO rhythm.  Tango is easier to learn than Salsa or Swing if you can't hear the beat of the music because unlike Salsa and Swing you don't have to be on beat every step.)

2.  Yeah, you may feel lame during the first month or so of classes.   But if you enjoy it, that feeling will go away by the second month.

3.  Age wise, Salsa and Swing are for the young.  They are tiring so people over 40 are less likely to take it up.  Tango you can do at any age, so there will be people ranging from 20 all the way to 80.   But if you already have a partner, then that really shouldn't matter.  

4.  Leading a woman in tango is a VERY dominant activity.    Less so in Salsa or swing, as they have more choice.  Note, I know some dominant women that love to lead their submissive men on the dance floor.





shatteredmelody -> RE: Ballroom dancing. Sexy or Lame? (2/13/2010 2:33:58 PM)

Ballroom dancing is sexy, in my opinion. At the moment, I have two left feet and I'm not in the shape to try, but someday I want to start learning. :)




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