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stella41b -> RE: cut & paste..2nd and 3rd messages.. (2/8/2010 4:04:26 AM)
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This sort of thing doesn't surprise me one bit. There's a considerable number of people out there who appear to have lost the ability to communicate effectively. It's like you can be speaking to someone, you see the light in their eyes, you can even have mental pictures of cogs and wheels whirring in their brains, but their response gives you the impression that they've 'Gone To Lunch.'
I get the impression that most people on the other side have a fixed idea of what sort of relationship they're looking for and what sort of person they need or want to have that sort of relationship with. I call it the 'Happy Shopper' mentality, for they come on here with a mindset no different from that when they're browsing e-Bay, Amazon dot com, or even their local supermarket online. You take on secondary importance to them.
In fact, you might as well just be a jar of coffee or a set of precision screwdrivers.
There's very little input, or even desire to acquire any sort of input. Communication for the sake of it, assumptions are made, very few actually ask any questions or bother to find out. You are a domme, a submissive, a Master, a slave, a fuck buddy, a play partner, whatever but you the person deep inside doesn't figure.
Most are just interested in what image you present and what (if anything) they can get you to do or get out of you.
And the classic is when they add insult to injury by asking 'What is wrong with you? Why can't you find anyone? There must be something wrong with you.'
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