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kushiels -> RE: Protocols of slave ownership...? (2/11/2010 2:37:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: onmynees2u
I will ignore the sarcastic remarks, as they are unhelpful. Thank you to those who replied with a non judgemental approach, i have heard your words. In all fairness, i would like to add the following...this 'Master", offered to help me, as a newbie, as He could read into my original profile. that was in hindsight too honest, and left me in a vunerable position. I feel for those out there who responded with a military like fashion, kindness costs nothing. Everyone was a 'newbie' ...my goal is never to become a caustic 'vetran'. And, perhaps there is also a cultural difference as well, life in New Zealand does not move to the insane pace that large cities do..N.Y.London,Paris and so on. This "master' and myself are meeting on the 17th Feb. For those who are interested in an up date, i will post one the following day.
I, personally, was shooting for nonjudgmental, not caustic, but I think you are unwise to dismiss the "sarcasm" you perceived. Everyone was a newbie once, but many people knew what they wanted and were comfortable enough with who they were to avoid asking a group of internet strangers if something they were doing was normal. Because, frankly, who cares. What if we all told you it was normal and you should go along with it, and shut up like a good little subbie? Would that have fixed things for you at all? Bottom line, it doesn't matter if it's normal. It's certainly common, and dismissed by many and enjoyed by some. That doesn't do a damn thing as far as you deciding if you like it or not.
People here don't tend to soften their words. One thing I've seen though, a bit of honesty and willingness to accept responsibility for your actions goes a long way. Take the "caustic" (or common sense, not sugar coated) in stride, rather than dismiss good advice, and you'll probably find yourself more comfortable here.
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