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infiniteblue -> Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 1:30:55 PM)

I know this may sound like a perfectly ridiculous question...but why is it that i cannot get a butt plug to stay in my..butt? My muscles seem to be on some kind of mission to push them out...i've tried all types and sizes. Not a problem getting it in, at all...but keeping it there? Just takes away from the whole experience when i have to fight the darned thing so.

And, so we're clear on this...it's not falling out...it's being pushed out

Any suggestions, oh smart and experienced butt plug people?




Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 1:33:44 PM)

Get a butt plug harness to hold it in place.
Good luck.




xxblushesxx -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 1:33:48 PM)

If you have strong muscles, those things will shoot across the room.

(erm...so I've heard...[:-][:(])

The only things I've heard that works is a certain design by the anal sex lady (you'll have to google her), and/or a belt type device to keep it in.




AquaticSub -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 1:34:05 PM)

~Fast Reply~

I have this problem as well though I don't have a solution beyond to suggest anal beads. I haven't had issues with them.




HeyTrucker -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 1:58:12 PM)

Something like this is what you may need to get the results you want.
http://shop.secrettoysupply.com/Deluxe-Garment-Buttplug-Harness-D035.htm
http://shop.secrettoysupply.com/Universal-Butt-Plug-Harness-SS950-84.htm

Hope you find these links helpful




S1L1 -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/9/2010 7:29:24 PM)

I am assuming you used the bathroom and are using a plug that is smaller around the base...

Two options really - an inflatable bulb like plug that would be too big to push out once it is inflated (if you can handle it), or as mentioned - use a harness and keep them in.





frenchdungeon -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/10/2010 7:55:22 AM)

its a natural reaction, its natural for the anal cavity to push on intrusions...

maybe try slowly inserting the plug, then sit on it till the muscles has adjusted
might take a few minutes 

once the muscle is well adjusted you'll notice pulling it out is not so easy, your muscles will have adjusted to the plug...

good luck




GotSteel -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/10/2010 7:12:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: infiniteblue
My muscles seem to be on some kind of mission to push them out...


That is their job. But if you find one with enough difference between the wide point and where the sphincter is supposed to sit you can get it to stay.

A harness would definitely solve your problem but you may want to find something that isn't leather, something you can actually get clean. A leather butt plug harness is pretty shitty.




SubSadden -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/12/2010 3:40:33 PM)

Insert the plug as normal and use spit as your lube (trust me)
Now once its inserted Push like your trying to pass something but hold it in place. Your muscles should push out and the plug should stay in the exact same spot. Now relax and your muscles should actually pull the plug in. And as your spit dries the plug stays in even more firmly. Has worked for me since i started anal.




Kaiel -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/12/2010 9:19:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: infiniteblue

I know this may sound like a perfectly ridiculous question...but why is it that i cannot get a butt plug to stay in my..butt? My muscles seem to be on some kind of mission to push them out...i've tried all types and sizes. Not a problem getting it in, at all...but keeping it there? Just takes away from the whole experience when i have to fight the darned thing so.

And, so we're clear on this...it's not falling out...it's being pushed out

Any suggestions, oh smart and experienced butt plug people?


LOL... I had to laugh... sorry about that... But, I read your question aloud and it reads funny... Anyway, there are tons of suggestions in the thread, so I have none to offer. But, I do wish you luck!




windchymes -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/13/2010 4:47:22 AM)

I've not encountered this, but I have been told that you CAN use too much lube. Try cutting back on the amount you use, and SubSadden a couple posts above me had some good suggestions, too.




GotSteel -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/13/2010 6:27:28 AM)

My girl and I wouldn't be terribly enthused about that sort of fluid exchange, is there any difference between doing that and using a water based lube?  Also, I've always been under the impression that getting the plug glued in there wasn't the best plan.




bayareaguy707 -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/13/2010 12:10:11 PM)

Ryder plug by Tantus stays put




S1L1 -> RE: Butt-Plug Faux Pas (2/13/2010 4:49:20 PM)

You might have a hard time getting it back out once the spit dries - works for some people, but generally not the best idea. Other then that SubSadden seems to have the solution.. 




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