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dreamerdreaming -> RE: When Milking Your Sub.... (2/12/2010 5:10:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
But supposing he doesn't actually feel objectified and humiliated? One of my exes did this to me, once. It felt pretty good. Strange, but good. Still, so long as a woman thinks she's objectifying and humiliating me, I'm happy.
She was doing it wrong.
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No- seriously Peon, its supposed to feel good. I never said it wasn't, silly!
Its supposed to feel really good. Really really reeaalllly good. The way I do it, I am clearly, shamelessly making love to him. Its just that I like be able to take an awfully long time, and do it entirely my way. I use lots of lube, and I go slowly and carefully. But I'll more than likely go on LONG after he wishes it would be over. Whether I use the spreader bar to keep his legs apart, or just have him hold the position for me... Or its also yummy to have him spread his cheeks apart with his hands, until he feels his place... Whatever- I like to have him be still and quiet for me, and I may or may not help him in this effort...
But I digress.... The point is, its meant to be extremely pleasurable for him, until a certain point. Then comes his white hot, exquisite humiliation at having to endure this extremely invasive procedure, and the inescapable truth that I will continue to use him as long, and as often as I want to in this manner. He has to face that he's signed on to be objectified in this manner, and possibly on a quite frequent, regular basis, and I just really don't care right then that he's wishing it would have been over a looong while ago, and if he's having a bit of difficulty being as still and as quiet as I'd like, well maybe I just don't want him to fly right then, so I've not restrained him... I get to watch him struggle... OMG its so sweet... I get to feel him inside, and he has to suffer the sweet humiliation of that even his anus must be obedient to me... That there is no part of him which I will not expect obedience from, as much as he is able... I will have him clench and hold my fingers tight until I want him to release, and then that moment is a good time to drive in deeper.... MMmmmmm....
So its the great BDSM paradox: the part that is least enjoyable for him physically, long after his physical enjoyment is exhausted, can be almost unbearably pleasurable for him emotionally, as he takes his pleasure from my enjoyment of his sweet suffering. If he's still sore from the last time, that's just too bad. Maybe I want him to be sore. I'm very gentle and careful (and use lots of lube!) precisely because I want to have the option of long, possibly frequent use, without causing him any real injury there. He is truly objectified. YUM.
Control, humiliation and objectification, bay-bay! That's what floats my boat. Who said it wasn't supposed to feel equally as pleasurable, or be equally as fulfilling, for him?! If it didn't work equally as well for him as it does for me, over time, we'd be ill-suited for one another and I'd not have been interested in him to begin with.
Does this help? [8|]
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