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I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 5:37:49 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		don't these subs have ANY sense of self-preservation?   I just had one emailing me.  On the basis of 3 emails in about a 12-hour period, he was wanting to arrange to meet, so that he could start making arrangements to sell his property and come move in with me and turn everything he owns over to me.  OMIGOD!  First off, he knows nothing about me!  For heaven's sake, I could be Jill the Ripper.  I could be wanted in 14 states for grand larceny and murder.  I mean.. I'm not... and *I* know that, but how the hell can HE know that?  He can't, that's what.  And even if I'm not a total psycho... or even a partial psycho... I could just let him turn everything over to me, put all he owns in my name, and kick his sorry ass out on the street, and there isn't a goddammed thing he could do about it.  Did he even THINK about that?  NO!  He just wanted a Mistress, no questions asked. 

And THEN it turns out... because I insisted on continuing communication (not because *HE* did!), that it turns out he's allergic to cats.  What would he have done if I'd (been so stupid as to) taken him on his word, and moved him right in, hmmm? 

Damn, now I think about it, I really missed my chance!  I should'a parked the cats with my mom for a few weeks, let this guy come here and give me everything he owned, then kicked him out and gotten my cats back.  Well, hell!  No foresight, that's me <sigh> 

Honestly, what do these guys do for brains?  How have they survived all these years?  What about Darwin????!!!!

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 5:44:54 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		As I said earlier today in my "No Limits" thread...some people on this site want to move way to fast. Shaking my head.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 5:51:04 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		It's my opinion that anyone who is worth meeitng is worth really taking some time to get to know. As a sub i am totally turned off by those that claim to be "Doms" that don't even have enough respect to get to know me. Some just don't understand that with careful screening you can get exactly what you are seeking and these things take months to develop. Eh well, anyone who meets someone that fast is just like that person and they deserve eachother. Always be careful who you trust!

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 5:52:57 PM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		Truly vexing. On the matter of accepting submissives, it's wise to acertain if they are truly submitting to you or an image of you they have already formed in their minds—which is in the end merely a form of serving themselves, of course.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:09:43 PM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		You know there is another point to make here as well. You say that he didn't know you enough to know you weren't some psychopath. Thing I see is that you didn't know him enough to be sure he wasn't a psycho either. You might have layed down to sleep one night after a play session and not have woke up the next day. It's just as well that you didn't partake of this guys fantasy.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:15:21 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To LadyMorgynn...Of course most submissives do have some sense of self preservation..but as in all walks of life you have the wise,the foolish,the intelligient,and the idiotic!..IMO of course,this submissive seems to have become so desperate to be in a relationship, that all he owns is worthless to him,all that he finds of worth is his need to submit and belong to his Dom/me.Idiotic and foolish? of course,more than likely to him,well worth the risk..He was lucky he trusted someone with honor, so maybe his gut has good radar......be well...tempting

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:17:09 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		It's my opinion that these types are, without a doubt, full of shit.  I would be willing to stake more than money that if you had gone along with him for any length of time, he would have never have shown up anyway.   

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:17:26 PM   
LokisBrat


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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

You know there is another point to make here as well. You say that he didn't know you enough to know you weren't some psychopath. Thing I see is that you didn't know him enough to be sure he wasn't a psycho either. You might have layed down to sleep one night after a play session and not have woke up the next day. It's just as well that you didn't partake of this guys fantasy.




That is interesting to know.  Hmmm...


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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:36:33 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Excellent point... which is why I insisted on the continued communication via email before even considering meeting!  And before any real-time meeting, there will be an exchange of drivers licences photos, real names and addresses and contact information, all verified on each side by both.  Not that I got that far with this guy. 

And frankly... I don't WANT someone that trusting (read: stupid)... or desperate... in my life anyway.

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

You know there is another point to make here as well. You say that he didn't know you enough to know you weren't some psychopath. Thing I see is that you didn't know him enough to be sure he wasn't a psycho either. You might have layed down to sleep one night after a play session and not have woke up the next day. It's just as well that you didn't partake of this guys fantasy.


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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 6:50:24 PM   
littlesarbonn


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

It's my opinion that these types are, without a doubt, full of shit.  I would be willing to stake more than money that if you had gone along with him for any length of time, he would have never have shown up anyway.   


This was my thought exactly. How yourMistressTress ended up with it and typed it out on her computer, I don't know, but it was my thought exactly.

As people keep saying here over and over and over again, there are a lot of players here who aren't really all that serious about what they claim they are seeking. They're hoping you'll play into their masturbatory fantasies.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/27/2006 9:21:08 PM   
Misstoyou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

It's my opinion that these types are, without a doubt, full of shit. I would be willing to stake more than money that if you had gone along with him for any length of time, he would have never have shown up anyway.


...

As people keep saying here over and over and over again, there are a lot of players here who aren't really all that serious about what they claim they are seeking. They're hoping you'll play into their masturbatory fantasies.



Exactly. Besides, if they don't know me, why would I possibly think they're submitting to *me*? Oh wait...it's the pretty pictures.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 5:58:57 AM   
Real0ne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

don't these subs have ANY sense of self-preservation?   I just had one emailing me.  On the basis of 3 emails in about a 12-hour period, he was wanting to arrange to meet, so that he could start making arrangements to sell his property and come move in with me and turn everything he owns over to me.  OMIGOD!  First off, he knows nothing about me! 


plenty of dommes do that too


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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 7:41:20 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Don't forget the other rant we see on here time and again....the "desperate" one is just an online player who SAYS he's going to sell everything and move to be with you.  They play the online game with great finesse.  But when the time comes to actually DO it, he'll either disappear, never to be heard from again, or you'll get an email from a "family member" who tells you how he tragically died just the other day.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 7:46:41 AM   
FisherKing1963


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Status: offline 		I don't usually rant, but...

My caesar salad came complete with a little packet of 'Garlic flavored homestyle croutons'....
Hmmm...'Homestyle"...what does that mean?....WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN?
Does it mean that they are the kind of croutons one would make/serve at home?...I never made croutons at home, nor did my Mother...but if she did, I don't think they would contain 'citric acid and/or tocopherols to maintain freshness'...'Homestyle' as opposed to what?...the kind they have at someone elses house? The kind they have in prison? Anyone ever hear of 'Prison style croutons'? What makes them 'homestyle'?...Because THEY fucking say so?!? What about breakfast at Dennys with their offering of 'farm-fresh country style eggs? Let me tell you what's 'farm fresh'...those skinny, decrepit chickens never see the sun, they're shackled to an electric perch 24/7 whence they are intermittedly shocked until the eggs are popping out of their assholes like a bowling ball return! And 'Country Style?...ergo, eggs cooked in a trailer park are tastier than the ones made in the ghetto? Bullshit! You heard it here first...there is no such fucking thing as 'homestyle' croutons or 'country style eggs' or 'baby fresh' asswipes or 'new and improved' cheetos! Hear me as I shout it from the mountaintops!...Lo and behold!...all this is fraud!

-FK

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 7:53:10 AM   
DaddysLapGirl


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Status: offline 		I think folks who are looking to move right in just want to get out of Dodge before the rent is due.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 7:53:52 AM   
MissyRane


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Status: offline 		I'm ready! I can catch a flight tomorrow if someone wants
It's a bit desperate when people are ready to run off a person they've spoken to once/twice.
I had spoken to this italian for a couple of months once..just a friendly chat n when he was going to come on a trip here. When he asked me to meet him once he came I refused, he got so offended ..later found out he was intending marriage n the whole package..he eneded up as an online stalker eh..didn't know that was possible..but anyway I'm so glad I refused I don't know.. I could never ever move to people or arrange a meeting if I haven't spoken to them over the phone or anything..guess I need the safety feeling before I jump into those things.

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RE: I don't usually rant, but... - 3/28/2006 8:18:56 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Ohmigosh, this made me remember something from long, long ago... way back when the Internet was first really gaining momentum.  I met this really nice guy from across the country.  I mean, we really clicked.  We emailed and IM'd, we called and talked to each other for hours, exchanged photos, and all that stuff.

So he said he was going to fly out to see me.  We were both so excited to finally meet at last.  The morning he was due to arrive, there was a knock on the door.  It was UPS, with a couple of really big boxes.  When I got him from the airport, he had several really big suitcases (mind you, he was supposed to come for the weekend).  What he'd done was quit his job, put most of his stuff in his mom's garage, and come to move in with me!!!  Absolutely un-freakin' believable.  And on top of that, he turned out to be one of those whiney manipulator types.  Two days later, I stuffed him and his suitcases in the car, drove him to the airport, bought him a ticket home (yes, my money, he didn't have any left), shoved him through security, and drove home several hundred dollars lighter but much, much wiser.

Now I think about it, maybe I should require a "deposit" 

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I'm ready! I can catch a flight tomorrow if someone wants
It's a bit desperate when people are ready to run off a person they've spoken to once/twice.
I had spoken to this italian for a couple of months once..just a friendly chat n when he was going to come on a trip here. When he asked me to meet him once he came I refused, he got so offended ..later found out he was intending marriage n the whole package


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