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just a question - 2/13/2010 9:36:11 PM   
boundntied2


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Status: offline 		is there a place on this site that if you know there is a man who has a profile and he is a known abuser and user and player.. a fake, that you can warn unsuspecting women before they get seriously hurt? He abuses women.. in every way once he has them. several restraining orders.. i am not trying to stir up trouble but was curious and trying to avoid some young/ new sub from getting hurt. i just didnt know if there was a place is all.

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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 9:38:13 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 9:38:17 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		No. The mods have a thread explaining why they do not allow blacklists such as this and I, personally agree with them. I have had personal experience with people telling me terrible things about someone only to find out that they are untrue.

Don't take that as me saying that you are lying. Only that some people do lie and there is no way to check the stories.

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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 9:41:34 PM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		I understand and appreciate your concern and am sorry you had this horrible experience. I hope that you are okay. If I could give you one huge recommendation it would be to try not to check back on this thread. My fear is that people will not be very kind or tolerant of this question. I am sorry for that.
I pray that whatever you went through you are getting help for.
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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 9:47:48 PM   
boundntied2


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Status: offline 		i can relate to the Mods here.. and i appreciate your thoughts.. i just dont want to see a young and new to lifestyle sub getting seriously hurt.

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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 10:02:52 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundntied2

i can relate to the Mods here.. and i appreciate your thoughts.. i just dont want to see a young and new to lifestyle sub getting seriously hurt.


That's very understandable and it is appreciated. It's my opinion that the best thing you can do to prevent that is to focus on prevention. Maybe become an advocate for safety classes and abuse prevention in your local community.

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RE: just a question - 2/13/2010 10:18:41 PM   
Kalista07


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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundntied2

i can relate to the Mods here.. and i appreciate your thoughts.. i just dont want to see a young and new to lifestyle sub getting seriously hurt.


There are other things you can do as well.... If this person is someone who is local to you, get involved in your local munches and get to know some people. Tell them what happened. Before you know it word will be out and women will be protected from him.
I know the desperation you are experiencing. I have been where you are. The desperation you are experiencing is the only thing that allowed me to go forward with pressing rape charges on a person I met through here.
Kali


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RE: just a question - 2/14/2010 3:27:21 AM   
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i just dont want to see a young and new to lifestyle sub getting seriously hurt


Someone who has seriously hurt a young and new sub would normally be in jail, that does not equate with restraining orders. If he is after young and new-to-the-lifestyle subs, what are you doing in this equation?

Now that you know there is no way you can interfere with others at this site, perhaps you should move on, anything else you need to take up with the police, or you can hire a lawyer. If he has not been convicted of anything, interfering with his ability to socialize can be termed stalking, and can get you into trouble. If there are legal reasons why he should not be at this site, the name and address of CM's house lawyer is listed, so you can write to them. You will have to provide evidence.

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RE: just a question - 2/14/2010 5:06:00 AM   
osf


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Status: offline 		ok, who's complaining about me now?

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RE: just a question - 2/14/2010 5:24:27 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		This appears to be a situation requiring law enforcement personnel. Not an online site.

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