WantingToServe11
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I read not to long ago that a certain somebody made a fake dom profile and sent out a bunch of emails to female slave/sub profile and received many responses. She did this because many dom men complained that women rarely responded to their emails. Well, I decided to do something similar but with two differences. Instead of making a dom profile, I made a domme profile, and I didn't send out any emails to anyone excepts for the people that sent emails that met my criteria. I've made this profile because I've seen many women complain that the majority of male sub/slave(s) are manipulative and selfish. The profile was very simple in that, I explained what I was looking for, and what my interests were. In addition, I listed 3 basic requirements that an email needed to have in order to gain a response.The requirements were a picture, a well written email explaining your desires and interests (both BDSM and vanilla), and it must be respectful. Instead of receiving emails that met my requirement, I received a shit ton of one liners, men calling me Mistress without my permission, copy and paste messages, and some emails that were way to long and too boring to read. The few emails that did meet my criteria, about 5 percent of them, I emailed them back and explained my process so they wouldn't feel rejected. The end result of this experiment was; 8 admirers (without my permission), almost 100 emails with only 5 or 4 that met my my basic requirements which I explained in my profile, about 10 chat requests (again without my permission), there were some guys that emailed 3 to 4 times with in a short period of time, and some guys got offended because I didn't respond to their emails (the ones that complained didn't send an email that met my criteria). Some emails that I received were one sentence long or one word long and a good deal of the messages gave me a sense of selfishness, cockiness, or desperation about that person. My experiment led me to the conclusion that you (females) experience an environment where most men show a lack of respect. Their emails also helped me realize that most men are obviously trying to get a quick quick fix just to disappear the next day. In addition, it allowed me to better sympathize with what some of you have to endure on this site almost everyday. Keep in mind that the purpose of this experiment wasn't to gain recognition for myself or to make any particular group of individuals look worse than the other; I also understand that most people will probably frown upon what i did. The reason for this experiment, was for me to get a better understanding of what some people (mainly women) have to experience while on this site. Profile notes: The profile took me 30 minutes to make and the experiment took place for one day. I checked the profile every hour or so for about 5 hours (1130 - 1630) then I checked it before I made this thread (about one hour ago). I sent out emails to those that actually took their time to write an email that met my criteria. I received one dick picture and many no shirt pictures. I was laughing until 1259. I shoved my head in a microwave somewhere between 1300-1400. What was kept in mind while looking at messages: Some women have stated that they didn't like it when a man calls them "mistress" in first message Some women have stated that they didn't like it when a man sends one liners or less when being courted Some women have stated that they didn't like it when men list their fetishes Some women have stated that they didn't like it when the men that sent them an email didn't read their profile Some women have stated that they didn't like an email with many grammatical errors (Though I didn't really check for this) Virtually all women have complained of men sending them dick pictures
< Message edited by WantingToServe11 -- 2/13/2010 10:36:12 PM >
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