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heartcream -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 10:16:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick I have only done it once or twice. It has something to do with the tension in the legs (you have to get the tension off your feet). I know alot of guys that cannot orgasm standing up either, or their legs give out immediately afterwards. Cali Hmm I must be a freak it is not a problem for me has happened countless times but then again I am alone when it is happening maybe if I am with someone it would bring another set of issues? I didnt realize this was a thing. Hmmm, I could join the circus and...

Claryce -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 10:49:43 AM)
Standing & orgasm= no problem for me.

Jeffff -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 11:29:30 AM)
Just to let you all know.......... notes are being taken. Jeff

OriginallyFromLA -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 1:19:09 PM)
Forced orgasm sounds like an oxymoron to me. So what, you DON'T want an orgasm? Now, continuous unstoppable orgasm that goes on until I turn off the switch......no that's not any better either. Remote controlled MMS/SMS unstoppable orgasm that keeps going until I throw the switch so I can can send the message "cum for me baby" while she is in a meeting or shopping.....Now that's a product I would buy.

ricken -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 4:14:44 PM)
I thought a little more about the term "forced orgasm" yeah, oxymoron. Maybe as someone else said delayed, or controlled might be better. I used the term forced because she had to stand. I never realized it was such a big deal for the ladies to orgasm standing.

windchymes -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 4:37:05 PM)
It isn't for ALL ladies....remember everyone is different and you only heard from a small sample of the female population of the world [;)]

DesFIP -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 7:19:00 PM)
Forced because I can be unable to breathe, leg muscles cramping, begging him to stop and he keeps on giving me more. Just because I wanted the first couple doesn't mean I want 30 of them.

sexyred1 -> RE: female forced orgasm (2/16/2010 7:23:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ricken I have been thinking about the concept of a forced orgasm for my sub...Seen some ideas on porn and thought it looked good, so I would try it. She does have orgasms and often pretty intense I love watching her. This weekend, I thought it would be cool to try...I started out slowly teasing her and makeing sure she was really horny. Then I stoped and made her do a few things...make me a drink, change her outfit to do some modeling for me, I told her to put on a porn DVD she likes, then I bound her (standing) and put the vibrator to her. I was talking to her and playing with her tits, and a couple of times she seemed like she was close. But never orgasmed, even she wanted too. When I realized it wasn't working, I backed off, let her calm down and re-started in a less agressive way. At the point she told me her pussy was too numb from the vibrator, I actually used the low setting. I am wondering if this is common, are vibrators too much for some women? Or do I need to change the way I'm doing things? I wasn't even useing one of those Hitachi (sp?) Any insight would be great, thanks There is way too much going on here, I would not be able to come standing up or with the stop and start thing. Once I get going if it is delayed too long, it will not happen, which would suck. I like the good old fashioned lying down, bound or not, him going down on me or using a vibe (I cannot use the Hitachi either, too intense). But standing and stopping...not for me.

takemeforyourown -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 7:22:02 PM)
I have the opposite problem from most of these women; it takes a friggin' freight train to make me orgasm. NOTHING does it for me except a strong vibration. I found the Hitachi too MILD. I am a longtime user of the original Acuvibe (low setting). All the men who think they can be the ONE to bring it for me... I just sigh and wait till I'm alone again with my b.o.b.

Huntertn -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 7:44:53 PM)
a heavy hood cover perhaps takemeforyourown?

Madame4a -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 8:04:09 PM)
Stop watching porn quit using the vibrator (and yes, women can become very sensitive and even lose the ability to orgasm without one) talk to this woman, not us, hopefully she knows something about her own orgasms

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 8:53:36 PM)
Next time... get a Hitachi Wand, bindfold her (to keep her focused) laying down (on a comfy bed, for example), spread open (for easy access), start out by going down on her, then after she's orgasmed a few times, add the Hitachi Wand on LOW, then after she's orgasmed a number of times, turn the Hitachi Wand on HIGH and leave it on high... then when she thinks she can't take any more, add a couple dildos to the mix (vaginally and/or anally... if she's into anal, that is); the combination of all these things... building and building... will snap her head off!!! [:D]

DWCskitten -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 9:04:05 PM)
~Fast Reply~ i don't think i would be able to orgasm standing either.....my legs give out and turn to jelly immediately after. Unless i was tied up onto something so i didn't fall. As for forced orgasm, unless i'm told not to, as soon as i leave the starting gate it's non-stop over and over. [:)]

GotSteel -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/2/2010 9:39:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ricken I thought a little more about the term "forced orgasm" yeah, oxymoron. Maybe as someone else said delayed, or controlled might be better. I used the term forced because she had to stand. I'm not sure what you were trying to accomplish, I would refer to "forced orgasm" as forced orgasm torture and it's the sort of thing DesFIP is talking about. I know it sounds like an oxymoron but it really is torture, my girls begged me to cane her instead because it would be less painful. If you were doing orgasm delay than yes it wouldn't be terribly uncommon for you to be able to get her to the point where she was desensitized, numbed or even chafed such that it just wasn't going to happen.

ranja -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/3/2010 2:02:03 AM)
Reaching an orgasm while standing up is more difficult maybe... but i find when He is doing everything right i could orgasm upside down even. It seems to me you two are not really used to eachother yet... some times things don't exactly work out the way you would have liked... no sweat, just try again later. I personally don't much enjoy a vibrator on my clit all the time, i like it better when it is used internally, i like fingers on my clit much better, and the less pressure the better and care should be taken that i am wet enough... sometimes i do not like jelly either because it seems artificial... i might feel that i am running behind, i like it much better when we have enough patience to wait for my own juices to start running. I suppose if she is trying to get away you are too heavy handed and if she is pushing towards you she wants more pressure When we were not used to eachother much and He did not always read me right or i was not clear enough giving Him the info He needed, sometimes i got too close and lost it too often and after a few times of getting too close and losing it, indeed some numbness seems to set in and orgasm seems impossible. I could usually still get there by riding my wrist, my legs clamped together, but sometimes it was really hard work.

ricken -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/3/2010 11:35:50 AM)
Just wanted to do a little update.... We do communicate pretty well (I think) thats why/how we became a couple. I have stoped introducing new ideas. I usually come up with something every week, but I'm holding back I heard cautions about over use of vibrators causing sensitivity. I have been watching closely when she is cuming/ready to cum, and paying attention to my timing. Ranja, you sound a little like her, yeah in the begining I was too heavy handed, she likes/responds better to the very light, teasing touch in the begining, THEN more pressure. She doesn't care for jelly either, it sometimes takes her a while to get wet, even if she feels excited enough. Your post sounds like us "... some times things don't exactly work out the way you would have liked... no sweat, just try again later. " Practice, practice, practice is our motto. I have made her orgasm a few times since my post (we don't live together) on her back. My plan is that soon I will get her standing just before her orgasm and get her to a standing orgasm. I also asked her about multiple orgasms, this is something she said she rarely does.her orgasms are pretty intense and she claims she has no eergy after. I think this will be the "forced orgasm" I would have to do it after her first one. But I will wait longer on the "forced" and just play with forcing her to stand while orgasm first. AND the coin jar for the Hitachi fund is about a third full (guess about $20) [:D]

MMasterMM -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/3/2010 1:01:42 PM)
hehehe try this-it works for me-(hint1)keep your mouth closed http://www.pornotube.com/media.php?m=1517163 (hint2)there is a 40 min version somewhere

GotSteel -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/4/2010 5:49:10 AM)
Here's the Hitachi on a reputable electronics site for $36.79 and free shipping: http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16896630001

hejira92 -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/4/2010 3:36:38 PM)
I was just going to recommend ebay- I recently got another hitachi (for Sir's house) for about $40. I can orgasm standing, but it was much more difficult at first for me to reach it. And, even now, it will be less intense than lying down because some proprioception has to be reserved for balance to keep standing. For us, forced orgasms start when I have had as many orgasms as I think I can. But, of course, we know that what I think I can do doesn't matter. That's when He'll start on my g-spot, or use the wand, or just fck me harder and order me to cum again because He wants more. He has caused me to do something I never thought I would in this lifetime- beg to stop* cumming.

jujubeeMB -> RE: female forced orgasm (3/4/2010 9:29:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a Stop watching porn This is what I was going to say. Thank you. Everyone seems to have skipped over the "so I got this idea from porn" part, and I think that's probably where most of the problem is. I would reference the "porn isn't real" thread(s), but I'm too busy scouring the internet for an affordable Hitachi magic wand [:D]

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