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BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:15:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Surprised you were allowed to work in mental health. Are you not supposed to be raising people's spirits emphasising positivity not negativity
Kevin



Kevin, this only emphasizes your lack of understanding of what is actually done in the mental health field. Dealing with one's own baggage is often tiresome and ugly and not "positive" to go through. The end result is positive the process is often far from it.

As seem in several cancer studies, positivity helps cure...but only if being positive is a natural disposition. If one's own natural disposition is more negative, honoring that and moving forward is the best approach from a mental health perspective.

Please, Kevin, stop typing.

boi



BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:16:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: AlfredBravo

Lady Pact! It is a fact that not all in the lifestyle prance and act. Some keep their views and lifestyle secret and tell only the closest few. They dont shout it from the rooftops like you. She had long retired when she died and she had no death notice in Augusta. She originally hailed from Victorville, California and her ashes were scattered in the mohave desert. She led a simple life educating children and had her firm beliefs. She imposed them upon nobody and never attended lifestyle events save for a once a month pony slave carting event every last sunday of the month. I doubt you have sufficient intellect to comprehend the fact that a Lesbian School Principal would not be tolerated in many parts of Georgia let alone a lifestyle domina who believed in old fashioned slavery and especially slavery of the inferior one's in the masculine gender.

It may suprise you but slaves exist and will always exist, despite legislation against it. Some people are actually bornslaves and seek to be owned as property because freedom pollutes theuir psyche and depetes their natural submission. They prefer to serve well and be well led and properly directed by their respective owners.

Here is part of your original:

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Sadly, she passed on 3 years ago and I found mysef free and homeless

It would appear that lifestyle events and the internet are no longer viable ways to find a dominant woman


Now, I'm here to tell you that you were absolutely NOT attending lifestyle events in Augusta during those three years since the supposed death.  I can absolutely verify My attendance of the lifestyle events held in the city.  (I was the presenter for some of them.)  It happens to be a very close knit group.  It's not that large and everybody knows everyone.

So, if you would like to continue about how you were searching for a Dominant woman at lifestyle events in GA, I'm going to continue to tell you that you're full of it.  Since the Augusta group is one that has a vetting process, it is very easy to confirm or deny your participation.




I was waiting for this.



LadyPact -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:20:09 PM)

I didn't especially think it was going to surprise anyone.  LOL.

As always, My regards to MsK.



BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:21:08 PM)

Lady Pact, thank you! Are you going to SPLF at all?



LadyPact -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:30:05 PM)

Unfortunately, I don't think I am, boijen.  We had to take care of some additional financial expenses last month when MP's father passed away.  I would love to go, but I'm thinking that it's not going to be practical at this time.

However, we may be making a trip back to the east coast around the June time frame.  If the dates match up right, I may be at SELF.



BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 2:37:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Unfortunately, I don't think I am, boijen.  We had to take care of some additional financial expenses last month when MP's father passed away.  I would love to go, but I'm thinking that it's not going to be practical at this time.

However, we may be making a trip back to the east coast around the June time frame.  If the dates match up right, I may be at SELF.



Aww...we had other issues as well with needing to replace a vehicle but had already set certain monies aside for the trip. We're attending Beyond Leather so I don't think SELF is going to be on our list in June, unfortunately.

You might find it interesting that BL is going to open up their Mr. And Ms. titles in 2011 to not be only inclusive of physical sex but also inclusive of gender identity. I don't know if any other regional title does that yet but I'm expecting that this will bring about a big change over the next few years.

You and your family are thought of often.

boi

Property of MsKitty



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:44:12 PM)

Well maybe you should. This guy has a few problems at the moment. Being from a mental health background you ought to have some empathy in your body
Kevin



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:47:01 PM)

I disagree. My disposition was not positive at all pre 2005-2006. Being around positive people who told me I could rather than I could not and did not say I would end up a failure changed me into a positive person. Positivity definitely cures no maybe about it. Maybe if you actually experienced depression you would understand. Then again my comprehension is so low I know. LMFAO
Kevin



BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:49:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

I disagree. My disposition was not positive at all pre 2005-2006. Being around positive people who told me I could rather than I could not and did not say I would end up a failure changed me into a positive person. Positivity definitely cures no maybe about it. Maybe if you actually experienced depression you would understand. Then again my comprehension is so low I know. LMFAO
Kevin



So now Kevin is omnipotent and knows for sure and who has not experienced depression and completely disagrees with academic studies or the scientific process that backs those studies.

Huh. Wish he could do stock tips.

boi 



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:52:18 PM)

And for the record dealing with baggage as you put it is a most positive process. Its part of opening up to others. Its necessary. By not we are closing ourselves down to others which is the corollary of what good mental health is about. There is nothing at all negative about revealing our pains and problems to others. It is actually very therapeutic and confidence raising. It cures the anxiety, reduces social isolation. What could be negative about that? Not much in my opinion. What is the cause of poor mental health? Isolation, social anxiety depression. Dealing with baggage deals with this. It is most positive and enriching
Kevin



stef -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:54:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well maybe you should. This guy has a few problems at the moment.

Kevin, don't go so far out of your way to prove you're a dope, it's wasted effort I assure you.

"Alfred" is a troll who has been in and out of these forums for years under dozens of usernames. As impossible as it may seem, he has less of a grasp of reality than you appear to.

~stef



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:54:59 PM)

Academic studies is bunkum. There is new research on everything nowadays. It is tosh. The only research on mental health that matters is the research carried out by Abraham Lowe. He wrote the book on Mental Health. He is the father of Mental Health and founder of recovery back in the 30s in America. His philosophy of cognitive behavioural therapy and  eradicating temper which we all have is the key to our mental health troubles. People with mental health difficulties should read his book and go to recovery meetings
Kevin



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:56:50 PM)

I can assure you Im no dope
Thank you
Kevin



lobodomslavery -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 3:58:01 PM)

I can only speak for myself I am not deluded . I have my full faculties and I can spot manipulators a mile away. I can also spot pretentiousness which I unfortunately spot a lot of on these boards
Kevin



wittynamehere -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:00:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
I can only speak for myself I am not deluded . I have my full faculties

No offense, but that's the case for everyone, not just you. Even delusional people without their full faculties believe they aren't delusional, and have their full faculties. Making the claim doesn't mean it's accurate.



LadyPact -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:02:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well maybe you should. This guy has a few problems at the moment. Being from a mental health background you ought to have some empathy in your body
Kevin


It seems to Me that anyone in any type of medical/mental health field would do better not to get caught up in the plight of every case that they see.  Remaining detached would absolutely be better for their own well being.



stef -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:04:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

I can assure you Im no dope

Your posting history suggests otherwise.

~stef



BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:05:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well maybe you should. This guy has a few problems at the moment. Being from a mental health background you ought to have some empathy in your body
Kevin


It seems to Me that anyone in any type of medical/mental health field would do better not to get caught up in the plight of every case that they see.  Remaining detached would absolutely be better for their own well being.



AMEN!

Not to mention that getting personally involved and attached is a violation of the APA ethics standards for this very reason.

FOr Kevin, please spend a second on the APA website reading up on dual relationships in the ethics section of the website. For your ease.

American Psychological Association (APA) Ethical Principles of Psychologists and Code of Conduct (The revised Code is Effective as of June 2002), Section 3.05 on Multiple Relationships offers a clearer than ever before an acknowledgement that dual relationships are not always unethical.
  • A multiple relationship occurs when a psychologist is in a professional role with a person and (1) at the same time is in another role with the same person, (2) at the same time is in a relationship with a person closely associated with or related to the person with whom the psychologist has the professional relationship, or (3) promises to enter into another relationship in the future with the person or a person closely associated with or related to the person. A psychologist refrains from entering into a multiple relationship if the multiple relationship could reasonably be expected to impair the psychologist's objectivity, competence, or effectiveness in performing his or her functions as a psychologist, or otherwise risks exploitation or harm to the person with whom the professional relationship exists. Multiple relationships that would not reasonably be expected to cause impairment or risk exploitation or harm are not unethical.
  • If a psychologist finds that, due to unforeseen factors, a potentially harmful multiple relationship has arisen, the psychologist takes reasonable steps to resolve it with due regard for the best interests of the affected person and maximal compliance with the Ethics Code.
  • When psychologists are required by law, institutional policy, or extraordinary circumstances to serve in more than one role in judicial or administrative proceedings, at the outset they clarify role expectations and the extent of confidentiality and thereafter as changes occur. (APA, 2002, Multiple Relationships section, para 1-4). boi



    • VaguelyCurious -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:07:33 PM)

    quote:

    ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

    Academic studies is bunkum. There is new research on everything nowadays. It is tosh. The only research on mental health that matters is the research carried out by Abraham Lowe.


    Seriously?! Do you really mean all the things you come out with, Kevin?

    I am so not hearing this. We have now officially entered BizzarroWorld. This isn't happening. 
    This is the point where I want to put my hands over my ears and say 'people this daft don't exist. People this daft don't exist. People this daft don't exist...'



    BoiJen -> RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? (2/22/2010 4:10:48 PM)

    ...but MsVC, none of the mental health work done in the 19th century counts...didn't you know that? And  Any of Lowe's contemporaries are just crazies who are mad and jealous of his success! None of the mental health developments are the cognitive process after Lowe's are worth their while either! Those are just scam artists trying to make a buck!

    boi
    my eyes are on the floor covered in lent



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