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alicenwondrland -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 6:18:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare
Sure,but what if someone who would otherwise be ideal sees something like that-and decides they don't like that kind of overt pressure? And you filter the wrong thing out?
Can anyone else here see a Dominant deciding that a woman has a tendency to "top from the bottom" by doing this sort of thing?
You care about lists on profiles? Seriously? I've dated women I was "too old" for, "too short" for, "too far away" for, you name it. I wrote them, said why they interested me, was clear that I had read their profile and recognized I was outside one of their criteria, and started conversations with them anyway.
Most people don't change their profile every five minutes. They write down some words when they are in a particular mood, and hopefully it is more or less representative. Profiles are almost irrelevant to me, to be honest. I have seen some beautiful profiles written by fools, and perhaps the smartest women I have dated off CM had profiles that were max 5 lines long. (Smartest meaning Ph.D., self-made business woman, professional translator.) The translator literally had no profile, just a phenomenal username. I wrote her to compliment her on it, and we started talking on the phone for two hours a day, and then met in real.
Interaction matters. Profiles pretty much don't.
I don't agree. How could it be physically feasible to get to the point of significant interaction with everyone who writes you? That would be impossible. You have to whittle down your emails. The person would have to stand out before you'd begin to get to know them.
And what is a profile made for then? A person isn't even known to exist to you except for their profile.
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