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Jeffff -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:31:58 PM)
You are so lovably shallow! I still remember the stench of Camel Toe Mountain...... sighsssssssssss

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:36:08 PM)
What good is a shopping list when nobody can cook worth a can of pork and beans. I enjoy those submissives at the Outback steak house, working thier ass off for the rewards of their attentive proper service. Come on now, money can buy you so many things, screw the lists. Just outsource your needs, wants and desires. Best part is that you don't have to deal with somebody's bullshit 24/7 and can enjoy the comforts of your own space. (i'm being sarcastic and a smart ass in this post)

Jeffff -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:39:32 PM)
AND they always say,"Sir".... we should all be banging waitresses! Jeff

Wolf2Bear -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:43:46 PM)
Thanks but I'll bang the waiters.

LadyAngelika -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:54:13 PM)
I have a penchant for sommeliers myself... And they always call me Madame ;-) - LA

sweetboundesire -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:56:41 PM)
my shopping list includes, pistachios, cheese and alstroemerias.... i take care of those needs myself. obviously there are hard limits.... if your extremely picky, ya oughtta let others know so they don't waste their time, otherwise, don't waste your time being picky... and like Jefffff said...unless it's Thursday! lmao

LafayetteLady -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 7:57:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Sure,but what if someone who would otherwise be ideal sees something like that-and decides they don't like that kind of overt pressure? And you filter the wrong thing out? Can anyone else here see a Dominant deciding that a woman has a tendency to "top from the bottom" by doing this sort of thing? Obviously, you are the only one who sees that. A D/s relationship is still a relationship and an "s-type" is still in control of who she is going to give that control to. If that weren't the case, there wouldn't be a bunch of you dominants complaining about not being able to find someone. Because we women get to choose. Otherwise all you fools would have to do is sign on, see a profile you like and then the "kneel bitch" would work. It doesn't. As for the first part? "Overt pressure?" Because someone listed what they want and don't want out of a relationship? That sounds like serious insecurity on your part, not the person making the list.

sublizzie -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 8:05:43 PM)
I need shopping lists. Without them I spend FAR too much money at the co-op, grocery store, or farmer's market.

sunshinemiss -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 8:14:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika I have a penchant for sommeliers myself... And they always call me Madame ;-) - LA Ohh... sommeliers.... yum....

alicenwondrland -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 8:27:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Sure,but what if someone who would otherwise be ideal sees something like that-and decides they don't like that kind of overt pressure? And you filter the wrong thing out? Can anyone else here see a Dominant deciding that a woman has a tendency to "top from the bottom" by doing this sort of thing? Obviously, you are the only one who sees that. A D/s relationship is still a relationship and an "s-type" is still in control of who she is going to give that control to. If that weren't the case, there wouldn't be a bunch of you dominants complaining about not being able to find someone. Because we women get to choose. Otherwise all you fools would have to do is sign on, see a profile you like and then the "kneel bitch" would work. It doesn't. As for the first part? "Overt pressure?" Because someone listed what they want and don't want out of a relationship? That sounds like serious insecurity on your part, not the person making the list. this is the most perfect response to the thread ever. I agree 1000%. I think what the OP is really looking for is some commiseration, or to get an idea of how much he can call the profile person on ("don't worry, it's NOT your fault that you don't fit their standards, it's actually THEIRS for being so picky").

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 8:44:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Sure,but what if someone who would otherwise be ideal sees something like that-and decides they don't like that kind of overt pressure? And you filter the wrong thing out? Can anyone else here see a Dominant deciding that a woman has a tendency to "top from the bottom" by doing this sort of thing? Obviously, you are the only one who sees that. A D/s relationship is still a relationship and an "s-type" is still in control of who she is going to give that control to. If that weren't the case, there wouldn't be a bunch of you dominants complaining about not being able to find someone. Because we women get to choose. Otherwise all you fools would have to do is sign on, see a profile you like and then the "kneel bitch" would work. It doesn't. As for the first part? "Overt pressure?" Because someone listed what they want and don't want out of a relationship? That sounds like serious insecurity on your part, not the person making the list. I'd be dead from high blood pressure, if I stressed out about topping from the bottom and all the other endless other Control Dogma's. It's really simple... I listen to what they are asking for, think about it rationally, give my answer honestly. (Look mom, I can ride my bike without training wheels and D/s without the labels). Like somebody asking for something just makes me want to piss myself scared to death, that I will loose my status as a Dom and the world will go to hell, if I let them get their way. Lord, wait a minute... The Dictatorship over my Love slave just went to Hell in a hand basket. All she wanted was a specific pair of new panties from Victoria Secret's. God, the whole D/s dynamic is totally ruined. Have to go trolling for another one. Oh well...

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 8:50:02 PM)
I have seen a few profiles, that might as well read. I'm a little girl that likes to wrap Daddy around my fingers, so he'll take care of everything and bring me rainbows and Skittles in morning.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 9:05:43 PM)
Oh come on here.. who has not seen profiles that come off a bit like this. [image]local://upfiles/718516/84DE96189AF04712A40AE74C53F2A2D4.jpg[/image]

CelticNightmare -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 9:20:57 PM)
Funny,I threw one of those outa the house back in 2003.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 9:54:37 PM)
More Serious Post I actually think lists are awesome, because it gives you an idea as to how realistic somebody is, along with knowing what their deal breakers are. It also gives you a general idea to their disposition or personality as well. I actually think that it's great that some people post them on their profiles. It gives you a general idea about other things besides what is on the list. A couple of my previous posts more less illustrated it. The cartoon image I posted reflects it under a certain light.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 9:57:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Funny,I threw one of those outa the house back in 2003. See, Thank God that some girls are actually making lists. Gives you a quick way to it figure out ahead of time. This way they never end up in your house to begin with. See how good lists actually are. :-)

CelticNightmare -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 9:58:31 PM)
This one claimed to be everything I could possibly want. Anything to get in the door. I don't trust lists. quote: ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4 quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Funny,I threw one of those outa the house back in 2003. See, Thank God that some girls are actually making lists. Gives you a quick way to it figure out ahead of time. This way they never end up in your house to begin with. See how good lists actually are. :-)

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 10:06:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare This one claimed to be everything I could possibly want. Anything to get in the door. I don't trust lists. I understand, but in many cases. Such as the little cartoon I posted, you can generally trust it enough to rule them out to begin with. Some people show you exactly who and what they are from the get go. Anybody that fully trusted any list would be a fool. If something looks too good to be true, it probally is too good to be true. This is why it's good to exchange faults and flaws in the process. Lists ain't the be all, end of. Just a good starting point in the whole screening process.

CelticNightmare -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 10:06:16 PM)
Three months later,I was giving her bus and cab fare back to whence she came. I don't blame her,I knew her reputation before hand-she bounced from house to house like that. A month later, she was back with one of my ex play partners-who also tossed her for not keeping up her end of the agreements. I don't let people move in these days-they can only visit.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The shopping list. (2/16/2010 10:21:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Three months later,I was giving her bus and cab fare back to whence she came. I don't blame her,I knew her reputation before hand-she bounced from house to house like that. A month later, she was back with one of my ex play partners-who also tossed her for not keeping up her end of the agreements. I don't let people move in these days-they can only visit. A girl I was involved with a couple of years ago, was an exhibitionist. She told me straight up on the phone before we met. She only lives a half hour away. Now, what she failed to tell me was how much work it would take to keep her in her clothes at times. Instead of me being the typical Dom trying to get a girl naked and out their clothing, I was having a hell of time getting her into clothes and keeping them on her. Then again, she told be straight up she was a exhibitionist and liked being naked. She has some issues with anger and drinking and blah, blah, blah.. so I ended up packing it in. It was way too much work for me to control her. Literally, was a lot of on going work reeling her ass back in times. She wanted a pretty red cage too, so I could toss her into it when she was outta control. Ummmm.. What's the point I was trying to make. Oh yeah, she told me she was into exhibitionism and it was on her list. I just did'nt have the full appreciation of the word exhibitionism when applied to her.

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