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Chastity Questions - 2/18/2010 9:27:00 PM

luvzdabutt

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My Girlfriend/Mistress and I are plannining on getting an apartment and moving in together this spring. Both of us love the idea of Her putting me into a chastity device and would like to leave it on 24/7 for a few days to a few weeks, (for starters).
She got me a CB2000 recently and we tried it out for only a few hours. That was long enough for me to ask a few questions of any experienced subs who have lived in chastity for extended times....

1. How do you wear it without being painfully obvious? My package is not that big, but with the cd on, it looked like I had a huge potato in my pants, or that I was well endowed with a raging boner. I usually wear jeans.

2. Besides having to find a stall and sit down in public restrooms, how can you avoid peeing all over it and making a mess?

3. How much cleaning and maintenance does it need per day?

4. Did you have to alter it in any way to make it more comfortable to wear?

5. I realize it needs to be tight to avoid slipping out, but my balls hurt a lot when we took it off, both during removal and afterwards. Normal?

6. Other websites on this subject you can refer to me?

7. Anything else I should know? I welcome any experienced advice. Thanks

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/19/2010 2:23:40 AM

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If you know anyone else who is into this, you may want to ask them for tips and tricks. If not, good ol' trial and error while in the privacy of apartment might help with the urinating issue.

Have you done any google searchs or anything on the topic?

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/19/2010 4:13:10 AM

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being female i cannot tell you of my experences with this .
but i do have a couple of male friends who are slave to their Mistress .
from what i can tell its a mattter of getting the right one for you .
i understand that the loni tube (i think its called ) works well

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/19/2010 5:15:00 AM

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If you will be living with her, things can go a lot smoother. She can remove it every night for cleaning and to check for swelling and such. You can put it back on when you leave the house and her presence. You will have to experiment to find the proper fit. I recommend keptforher.com Lots of info on that site. I definitely recommend that you start slowwly. Wear it for a couple of hours, then remove it. Try to gradually lengthen the time you wear it. It is probably not a good idea to just lock it on and leave it for months on end...at least not right out of the gate.

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/20/2010 8:33:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: luvzdabutt

My Girlfriend/Mistress and I are plannining on getting an apartment and moving in together this spring. Both of us love the idea of Her putting me into a chastity device and would like to leave it on 24/7 for a few days to a few weeks, (for starters).
She got me a CB2000 recently and we tried it out for only a few hours. That was long enough for me to ask a few questions of any experienced subs who have lived in chastity for extended times....

1. How do you wear it without being painfully obvious? My package is not that big, but with the cd on, it looked like I had a huge potato in my pants, or that I was well endowed with a raging boner. I usually wear jeans.

2. Besides having to find a stall and sit down in public restrooms, how can you avoid peeing all over it and making a mess?

3. How much cleaning and maintenance does it need per day?

4. Did you have to alter it in any way to make it more comfortable to wear?

5. I realize it needs to be tight to avoid slipping out, but my balls hurt a lot when we took it off, both during removal and afterwards. Normal?

6. Other websites on this subject you can refer to me?

7. Anything else I should know? I welcome any experienced advice. Thanks

Forced chastity can be a very enjoyable scene. There was another recent thread on this that got some very good replies. Search for it. It will be worth your while. That said, here is a bit of input.

i would buy a CB6000 if i were you. The CB2000 is an older and less comfortable model.

Initially, i would not attempt to wear the device for long periods of time. Two days would probably be the maximum length of time that you should go until you get used to the device.

Rather than focusing on length of time in the device, try focusing on situational chastity. For example, she might consider making you do body worship while wearing the device. i would suggest a session of bathing her, lotioning her body, giving her a massage, and then body worship and oral servitude until she can't bear any more orgasms. This should prove to be enjoyable for both of you. The benefits for her are obvious. For you, this situation should get you nice and horny. Lots of touching her and looking at her naked body. Your Johnson will want to get nice and stiff. However, the CB2000 will prevent you from getting a proper erection. The hornier you get, the more uncomfortable it will become. Moreover, your penis will start to scream for release, but the CB2000 will prevent that as well. It will be completely up to her if you get to cum or not. If she is wise, she will dangle the idea of permitting you to cum if you can bring her to a pre-set number of orgasms (say 5). Trust me when i tell you that this will give you a newfound enthusiasm for licking her pussy. It will be the best oral sex she's ever received, and the best that you've ever given.

Since your girlfiend is going to live with you, it will make hygiene much easier. She should handle all cleaning. That way, she can insure that you don't sneak and masturbate. Also, her manual handling of your penis will serve as a reward for your sacrifice of wearing the device.

As far as how to wear it without looking like you've got a gun in your pocket, i would suggest wearing pleated pants. If you don't already own any, buy a few pairs of pleated khakis in a variety of colors. The pleated pants are roomier in the crotch area, and will hide the chastity device. Jeans are out of the question when wearing a chastity device. Jeans make the device too visible, and the inherent tightness of jeans will make the device feel even more uncomfortable, and will cause you unnecessary pain.

Finally, the most uncomfortable part about wearing a chastity device is sleeping. Your body will automatically get a nighttime erection. However, the CB will prevent you from getting an erection, and the pressure from this can be painful. The first night in the device is always the worst. You will toss and turn all night, and probably get very little sleep. Fortunately, it becomes more bearable as you get used to wearing the device (notice that i said it becomes more bearable, and not more "comfortable").

One thing that helps is lubricating your penis before you put it on. Particularly your balls. The end of CB2000 will rub uncomfortable around your scrotum area. It can be abrasive and uncomfortable. But lubricant will make it much more bearable and avoid the possible cutting that the CB can do into your skin.

Hopefully, this helps. i'm surprised you didn't get more responses. i know that there are more male subs on here with experience wearing a chastity device.

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/20/2010 1:31:12 PM

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Thanks, Rochsub! Lots of great advice in your response.
We do plan on getting additional chastities later. Some just for play, and determine which is best for long-term. I'd love to get piercings down there, but I'm still chicken...(I can't even imagine getting a Prince Albert!!!!).
Another question I forgot...Anyone know where I can get a strap-on harness made to be wore over a male chastity? She enjoys Her penetration, and doesn't want to miss that until She finds a suitable toy-boy!

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/20/2010 2:26:55 PM

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You don't necessarily have to sit to pee. You can sometimes get the fit just right so that you can go normally. But you have to shake a lot, or you will leak.

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RE: Chastity Questions - 2/20/2010 7:53:20 PM

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Hi.

We've had lots of slaves who like to wear those and they never complained about the things your having troubles handling. Maybe ask the person/site you bought it from. Do they have a Q&A area on their site? I'll check our links page for sites that sell those chastity devices.

Hope this helps.

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