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Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:05:54 AM   
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I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/


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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:14:49 AM   
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You can find anything on obscure websites, what I find laughable are the creatures who drag this nothing bs in here and proclaim, "SEE??? SEE???"  as if its representative of all Conservatives of all Liberals are whatever.

Sure, for every animus theres a cuck, I'll freely admit it.






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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:29:05 AM   
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so, this is in fact as close as I will see you coming to a recant of your bowing pics?

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:29:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/



I agree completely.  It's one of the reasons that I dislike politics and political discourse.

I can only guess that the answer to your question is that pettiness is just human nature.  I see people (including myself) being petty about non-political things all the time.  It's just easier to quickly ascribe a value to something and then act all righteous or outraged than it is to really think things through and try to act with forbearance and wisdom.

Of course, Mrs. Palin really is hawt, so whatever she stands for, she'll get my vote. :D

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:30:08 AM   
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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:31:26 AM   
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Of course, Mrs. Palin really is hawt, so whatever she stands for, she'll get my vote. :D



And for many of us, she is SOOOOOO not hot, and hot or not, would NEVER get our vote.



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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:42:16 AM   
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AMEN!!!!!!!!!!Eventually she opens her mouth and bullshit comes out !

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 7:54:02 AM   
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People who engage in this pettiness are intellectually bankrupt

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 8:03:09 AM   
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"I just don't get it"

I do. It is a distraction from what is really going on.

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 8:16:27 AM   
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so, this is in fact as close as I will see you coming to a recant of your bowing pics?


If he said anything else he would have to admit to finding himself laughable.


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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 8:26:53 AM   
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I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

quote:

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/


Some people are so partisan they will latch on to anything (real or imagined) with which to discredit the opposition.  They see the world in a us=good/them=bad paradigm.  Hence, anything that "them" do must be bad. 

Mostly, though, people just enjoy being petty.  They enjoy getting an emotional reaction out of others. 


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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 8:29:31 AM   
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quote:

what I find laughable are the creatures who drag this nothing bs in here and proclaim, "SEE??? SEE???"  as if its representative of all Conservatives of all Liberals are whatever.


Interesting, given that you're one of those who do this.

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 9:03:05 AM   
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Ihad a great answer for you Steven, but when I read it over, it sounded petty:)
basically its a human flaw and one that most people have
wether they agree or not. also its subjective




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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 9:16:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/



Steven, exactly, who cares? If people care about stuff like that they should watch that stupid "Opra" show.

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 9:38:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/



Steven, exactly, who cares? If people care about stuff like that they should watch that stupid "Opra" show.

Sadly, Oprah watchers get to vote too, popeye. Hence all this ridiculous birther nonsense or people ignoring Palin's complete lack of anything resembling political savvy because they like her arse.

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 10:09:16 AM   
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I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/



Hi Steven,

I think a few factors cause this, at least in a number of cases:

*people have already decided what they think, before any issue arises
*their side is, then, always right, all others always wrong
*discussing the actual issues would take time, knowledge, thinking, consideration
*some people find that the easy way, while others, like you, find it (and I agree) just an irrelevant waste of time
*add ego to this, the sense some people have that they can never admit they are wrong, even when facing strong evidence
*add the Internet--people say things behind their keyboards they would at least rephrase when face to face
*seemingly increasingly, people readily believe and parrot what they see on TV, hear on talk radio, and read on the Internet

It's the third item that troubles me most. We have a large electorate running primarily on attitude, preconceptions and misinformation, often taking stances at odds with their own best interests, repeating empty slogans with no idea of the impact of what they're supporting. I actually miss disagreement--seriously, I do. It sharpens our thinking, points out perhaps well-intentioned but not yet fully worked out positions, and adds inclusion of areas previously overlooked. It leads to better solutions that better address a broad range of constituents and interests. But the bickering does just the opposite, solidifying poorly conceived and unsupportable approaches by creating and rallying against a mythical enemy. The last item is also disturbing, but stems from the third one, and would need to reclaim independent thinking before it could be effectively addressed.

Add to this that we're in an awful mess.

Clinton was able to work around the edges of the GOP to address quite a bit of his agenda while considering theirs. At the same time, they spent most of that time looking for legal problems and semen--at taxpayer expense. I saw my first "Impeach Clinton" bumper sticker three days after the 1992 election. Three days! Come on. The message was to attack, no matter what.

Bush, the latest in the Reagan/Bush/Bush conservative revival, repeated the policies already demonstrated not to work for the nation, but for the top. The deficit soared, again. We went to war, again. We cut taxes anyway. Ridiculous. And yet the right waved their flags and rubber stamped anything he did or said. Credibility went out the window. And thing is, I don't expect to agree with everything. I thought Afghanistan was a terrible mistake--but at least I could see the argument for it (unlike Iraq, a lie start to "finish"). The rich got richer, while the gulf between rich and poor widened again. We repeated a banking crisis and a stock market crash. Still, people simply support and defend this, oblivious that they're being played. And today, what is the GOP plan? To defeat Obama and Democrats. That's it. Health care plan? To privatize Medicare and cut insurance regulation--a health care elimination plan. Deficit plan? Not if any Democrats are involved. Oh, and cut taxes.

Obama brought the promise of progress on the progressive front, but the economic situation before he even took office signaled he'd be unable to do what many had hoped. The deficit spending has indeed become even scarier, but I can at least see the argument for it in pulling out of recession, sustaining a recovery and addressing jobs in the short run. I think idealism and ego combined to convince him he was going to usher in a new era of bipartisan cooperation, ignoring that Republicans intend to stop him at all cost. He can appeal to the public, but people's minds are made up; they're not listening. I, like other progressives, wish he'd just admit reality and get to work. I admire what he said about being a good one term president as more important, but I don't believe him; clearly he's going to focus on whatever he can to be reelected. But how are the Democrats going to move forward in this climate? They've no idea.

So we're left with "movements" that aren't really movements. For all the hoopla, the Tea Party exemplifies this. A group of people largely new to the political process and (by their own self-description, not a slam) ignorant of it, march about with slogans and symbols and rhetoric about who does and doesn't love America. That they'd embrace Palin is telling--it's a bunch of people who want to stamp and shout. But a movement? They have no common principles, and despite what they claim, they're essentially all Republican voters who, in the end, will vote Republican, and who will oppose anything Democrat.

That's it. We've got a bunch of irate children facing off with arms crossed, more interested in fiery rhetoric, gilb soundbites and annoyingly common talking points than independent thinking, positions, argument, or, God forbid, discussion.

It alarms me. It's shutting down the country, while our health, economy, infrastructure, and long term security erode. It also shows signs of getting worse before it gets better. The only winners will be those with immense capital, personal and corporate, or politically connected to it, while the populace hands over the keys of the country to the new ruling class.

Signs of change? When protesters outside Planned Parenthood put down their signs, come inside and say, "OK, we still oppose your positions, but what can we do to work with you to prevent unwanted pregnancies in the first place?" and when they're told, "Look, we respect your abstinence position; let's talk about how we can help birth control while still understanding the moral principles we know are important to you," we might make progress, just for one example.

Until then, people will continue to blame government and the idiots who support the clueless, dangerous opposition party.

This country will bring itself down. We don't need help from terrorists.



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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 10:51:54 AM   
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Sarah Palin, no.

Tina Fey, yes.

I am glad they take their jackets off and put feets on desk, break it down boyees.

Protocol sucks bum when it is freaking trivial like this.

If you think it is the 'Oprah watchers' giving a shit about stuff like this I would disagree. Alllll sorts watch her changing size ass and all sorts of stuff comes out of that show. I doubt the general population gives a shit about feet on desk and if they do they are simply the demanding masses who are not really the ones to go by because they may have numbers but they have no brain/soul/heart and could drop off the planet forever for all I care. I would like it actually.

Wave buh bye to the nice lady... buh... bye.... seeeeeyuh!

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 10:57:10 AM   
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I just don't get it.

There was a foofraw about Obama putting his feet up on a desk.  There's another one about him taking off his jacket in the White House.

People snipe at Palin about how hawt she is or isn't.

Cheney didn't complete his degree in four years.

Who freaking cares?

If I have a serious issue with someone's policies or management style, that's fair game.  Cheney and Palin, IMO, have insane policies, and Obama has so far been Bush Lite.  But the trivial stuff/



I think it's two things, Steven.

First, it's much easier to yammer about someone's style of dress, or social gaffe, or the fact that they tripped going down a flight of stairs, than it is to offer up a detailed critique of their policies and philosophies along with an analysis of why they're wrong and what should be done instead. The former is simple and readily understood, the latter requires thinking and thinking is suspiciously like work and probably to be avoided at all costs.

Secondly, people look for things that confirm their worldview. If Obama puts his feet up on the desk, he's obviously an untutored boob and not qualified to be in the Oval Office. If his not being qualified to be President is already your mindset, this is a salient fact because it confirms it. If Republicans are all part of an Evil Conspiracy To Ruin Everything (tm), than anything that any of them does that is even slightly unacceptable is important because it's another piece of proof.

Everyone says to themselves - I'm pragmatic. I'm open-minded. I'm looking for real solutions. I want to help people. I want to make things work. The sad fact is, most people are lying to themselves and are only looking for reinforce their own narrow myopic view of things.

I don't have a good answer to this. Of course, if one should come along I'd be behind it because *I* am pragmatic and open-minded and looking for real solutions. Unlike all those bigoted small-minded idiots who you simply can't talk to. At all.

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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 11:10:53 AM   
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You don't think the president's groveling before the Japanese Sun God or other kings and nobility is newsworthy?


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so, this is in fact as close as I will see you coming to a recant of your bowing pics?


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RE: Why so petty? - 2/19/2010 11:26:04 AM   
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When did bowing out of respect becoming groveling?

Check a dictionary.

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